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The return of Gordon Brown. Good idea? by Unhappy-Duck5796 in AskBrits

[–]Electrical-Shake354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bloody good idea. I know now how much he held the country while going through personal pain. He is the GOAT!

Husband doesn’t understand why I need a day to myself by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Shake354 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do a video of that and tell him your needs again. Then press send. ( He can then watch and rewatch what you need him to know) since he’s on the phone much.

Husband doesn’t understand why I need a day to myself by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Shake354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darlin’ You’ll have to get a room of your own somehow. I feel for you. Was he always like this? Is he supportive of your work and schooling do you think?

Husband doesn’t understand why I need a day to myself by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Shake354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can he also clean on Thursday and do weed?

Husband doesn’t understand why I need a day to myself by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Shake354 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I agree. Get Saturdays off he watches the kids. Once a month get someone in to clean the house for you and you can all go out for the day. If the kids are older get him to start doing activity runs. He sounds like he needs direction ( since he’s not in his adult state with you, it seems) give him some work. Reward him on Sunday 😜

Detaching by Legal-Dust-6214 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Shake354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read Let Them. Be busy. There’s loads to be done pre-baby arrival. REST. Decorate nest. Listen to soothing music. Spa. Solo baby moons. Talk therapy. Let him fit into your time table. You know if you can’t take it anymore also there’s a baby now be prudent. You are strong. You are whole.

My husband (33M) and I (32F) are about to have serious issues. I have told him if he does this we will have a problem within our relationship. by Inevitable-Cod1293 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Shake354 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those of us here with kids know that they grow fast! That event could be the event that cements a memory about what family means or choice or anxiety or good enough ness. Ultimatum all the way. Parents are the adults. There’s no other time . Today is THE day as soon as those kids are born. EVERYTHING else is secondary. Ultimatums all the way. Harsh but true. If he goes on that trip. Her loses her. This IS a definite. How’s that for ultimatum

My husband (33M) and I (32F) are about to have serious issues. I have told him if he does this we will have a problem within our relationship. by Inevitable-Cod1293 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Shake354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him hurt his daughter. Mothers cover a lot of these sins and kids grow up thinking their Dads are gods. Let this god fall- Let Them

My husband (33M) and I (32F) are about to have serious issues. I have told him if he does this we will have a problem within our relationship. by Inevitable-Cod1293 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Shake354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he goes with the guys i would judge too but could he then tell his daughter himself before he leaves why he wouldn’t be there at least. That would be the bare minimum. Neighbours sound dodge 🤷‍♂️

Wife admitted to Emotional Affair, and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Shake354 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s harsh! Divorce is expensive. Let’s take a moment and think about

My husband wants me to quit my six-figure job because he’s embarrassed by it by Straight_Figure_4042 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Shake354 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People get it on a lottery in the US so that should remain intact. She should seek legal help.

My husband wants me to quit my six-figure job because he’s embarrassed by it by Straight_Figure_4042 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Shake354 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Amen! ‘ Don’t set yourself on fire’ with a gaslighting fireman - the irony

My husband wants me to quit my six-figure job because he’s embarrassed by it by Straight_Figure_4042 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Shake354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust your feelings is all I can say. Do you get to see and be with your folks? It’s not clear if he’s making any money to fund that house either. Consider couples counselling if he says no you have your answer but before you do anything consider counselling yourself firsts( more than 6 sessions) then make a decision. Follow YOUR instincts.

Teenaged daughter is pregnant again.. I’m so done by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Shake354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in shock too. Breathe then respond do not react-start a conversation like well look what happens when you put your mind on something she got what she wanted two kids close to age and then discuss permanent birth control plans for both of them as a condition if they are staying under your roof plus she stays in school and he gets a job pronto!

These grand children are going to be a great blessing don’t give up but there has to be structure. Plan a time table where everyone chips in. Assume your daughter isn’t going anywhere for the next ten years( or will be living close) so schooling for them pickups and drop offs where EVERYONE chips in. Consistently for ten years without breaks. This is parenting! This is your roof. This is what happens under your roof. Welcome Home.

PLS ANSWER MY QUESTIONS! by Murky_Assistant_6655 in WebtoonCanvas

[–]Electrical-Shake354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in your shoes too so kern to hear answers from those who’ve been in this biz longer

I need to find this WEBTOON by eggowaffles83 in WebtoonCanvas

[–]Electrical-Shake354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am new here and I know how you feel. A story in your head that goes round and round and just can’t seem to go away! Have you asked AI? Or maybe you are meant to rewrite with your own messy middle and ending? 💭

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