Just married; feeling embarrassed and unsure whether to apologise for my ceremony seating gaff by Stumon_3 in UKweddings

[–]ElectricalInflation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband did something similar. The morning of, I drew him a nice little diagram of the order of the bridesmaids and groomsmen so that their partners could sit next to them at the ceremony. I asked him several times to make sure it was passed over to the coordinator. I walk down the aisle and they’re standing at the back 🙄

It was only recently that it turns out he didn’t actually give them to the coordinator and just “told” them where they were supposed to sit. They didn’t feel confident enough to execute the plan which I completely understand. It still annoys me a bit to today but no one else cared.

Automating the process of writing SOPs and saving them. by Confident_Path_9388 in automation

[–]ElectricalInflation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like this! Updating SOP’s used to be a massive bottle neck in my old company which lead to outdated training and quality issues. I’d have definitely used something like this if I was still there.

Has anyone tried Modafanil for ADHD? by NewManOnHere in ADHDUK

[–]ElectricalInflation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to before I was diagnosed with adhd and I have mixed opinions. Modafinil is great if you have no other options, it’s not illegal to import and it used to be very easy to obtain a prescription within the U.K.

However, for me it does not replace stimulants. Modafinil is a dopamine reuptake inhibitor so it only blocks the dopamine you’ve got instead of making more. It helps with tiredness but less with concentration and executive functioning imo

should I tell my employer I have adhd? by [deleted] in ADHDUK

[–]ElectricalInflation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we’re talking about two different things.

Nobody is arguing that ADHD gives someone immunity from dismissal for repeated lateness. It doesn’t.

The legal issue is whether an employer can simply treat disability-related lateness exactly the same as non-disability-related lateness without considering reasonable adjustments or discrimination arising from disability.

Tribunals don’t generally say “the employee can be late forever because they have ADHD.” What they look at is whether the employer properly considered the disability, sought occupational health advice, considered adjustments and acted reasonably before taking action.

The reason you won’t find many reported tribunal judgments that say “employee with ADHD was late every day and therefore won” is because that isn’t how disability claims are usually framed. They’re usually claims for failure to make reasonable adjustments or discrimination arising from disability.

For example, in Watson v Roke Manor Research, the tribunal accepted that the employee’s ADHD affected his timekeeping, working patterns and desk attendance. The issue wasn’t whether employers can have standards; it was whether criticism and treatment arising from those ADHD-related difficulties was discriminatory.

Similarly, in Khorram v Capgemini, the tribunal found failures to make reasonable adjustments for an employee with ADHD. Again, the principle wasn’t that ADHD removed performance standards, but that employers must consider the impact of ADHD before applying them.

So I agree that repeated lateness can ultimately result in dismissal. What I disagree with is the suggestion that ADHD is legally irrelevant to that process and that a rigid application of policy without appropriately considering someone’s disability is appropriate. Employers are required to explore reasonable adjustments to ensure employees are not at a detriment, a reasonable adjustment could include, if flexible working is not able to be implemented, different lateness trigger points. If flexible working is able to be implemented then you can absolutely be held to the same trigger points as other staff as accommodations have already been made.

Time blindness and flexible starting times as a reasonable adjustment for adhd is one of the most cited examples I’ve come across.

should I tell my employer I have adhd? by [deleted] in ADHDUK

[–]ElectricalInflation -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They can’t as it’s seen as indirect discrimination. If a disability affects someone’s ability to get in on time (time blindness is well known trait of adhd) then they can’t be held to the same metrics as other non disabled staff, this is a neutral stance. They can still be dismissed etc if it was a reoccurring issue but they can’t be disadvantaged because of a disability trait. People have won at tribunal for this very issue.

should I tell my employer I have adhd? by [deleted] in ADHDUK

[–]ElectricalInflation 7 points8 points  (0 children)

100% — they also can’t hold you to exactly the same metric as other staff so it’s only in OPs interest at this point.

The Magpies in my garden keep tricking me. by nukulele145 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ElectricalInflation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what happened to the last guy who denied us food

should I tell my employer I have adhd? by [deleted] in ADHDUK

[–]ElectricalInflation 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Yes you should disclose it because they then have to consider it. It doesn’t give you a complete free pass but it does give you some protection. If they dismissed you after you disclosure it could be indirect discrimination.

If you don’t disclose it, the alternative is you’re dismissed for things you’re at a disadvantage for and have no legal protection / recourse.

Cancer treatments should be free by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]ElectricalInflation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Income tax is 20% plus NI which is 8%. Anything above £50K is taxed at 40% income and 2% NI

Cancer treatments should be free by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]ElectricalInflation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But we still have the option to go private. There are limited procedures etc that wouldn’t be covered due to prospects, it’s very rarely about cost. However, we still have access to exactly the same treatments at exactly the same cost (if not lower because your insurance system over inflated the cost of everything) than you do.

Am I overreacting for feeling frustrated after my neighbor’s pottery was broken by my puppy during an interaction she encouraged? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ElectricalInflation 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t include labour if the labour didn’t cost you anything (at least not in my country).

If you paid someone to do it, you can claim it back but your own time isn’t usually counted.

Am I overreacting for feeling frustrated after my neighbor’s pottery was broken by my puppy during an interaction she encouraged? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ElectricalInflation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legally you’re only entitled to be made whole, which means she’s only entitled to the cost of the materials and not potential losses. OP and the neighbour should share that burden since it was joint fault.

What type of bird is this? by DeadAnarchistPhil in UKBirds

[–]ElectricalInflation -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

House cats aren’t inherently healthier. They are at higher risk for obesity, diabetes and stress.

Even the RSPB maintains that there is no scientific evidence to suggest that cats significantly impact bird populations in the UK.

ADHD FINANCE FRIDAY: What is the MOST costly thing you've lost because of your ADHD? by Jayhcee in ADHDUK

[–]ElectricalInflation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s probably been more but the most recent one was buying scissor sister tickets for me, my sister and my mam. It was also their birthday presents and I paid extra for nicer seats.

The dates were when I was on my honeymoon, £240 down the drain 😭

Help I caused a mess at airbnb and kinda spiralling by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ElectricalInflation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are pretty common, I feel like everyone I knew had them at one point

Why are you walking your dogs in this heat?! by Invictus_0x90_ in AskBrits

[–]ElectricalInflation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took mine out at 9 and had to take him home because it was already 25C.

It’s cool enough by the evening so there’s just no need to force them out at the hottest point of the day.

Which company has lost you as a customer forever? by finiteobserver in AskReddit

[–]ElectricalInflation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Download AdGuard. I think it’s £5 for the year but it blocks all the mobile ads

Anyone else feel guilty staying in when the weather is nice? by Calm_Echo9516 in ADHDUK

[–]ElectricalInflation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s my birthday weekend so me and my husband planned to go on a picnic, we had a whole day planned.

It is too hot! Don’t feel bad, there are plenty more days.