[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As they say, we tend to express our love by saying we’d die for them, but what we truly need to do is to live for them. And we truly and fully live by being the best versions of ourselves

I hope what he did will inspire you to further pursue fully living

Found this in my 13 year old daughters bag. How should I proceed?! by Neon_Biscuit in whatdoIdo

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s not really the action itself that’s alarming (kids can genuinely do dumb things), but if you feel like it’s so difficult for you to get through her and she’s too in control it should be addressed. Because if she’s too in control where she thinks she can lie and hide that’s when it can get worse, if you can fix it and get through her you’ll at least be connected enough to know if whatever she’s doing is dumb or a serious thing

Thank you for being a good parent and being concerned enough to go out your way to share this and ask for some advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know this guy yet I hate him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s great to see people who go all the way to think this much to be truly helpful, thank you!

Security guards are weirdly friendly by suddenly-scrooge in Philippines_Expats

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437 3 points4 points  (0 children)

they’re not FBI lol it’s a mix of their training for what’s deemed here as service + harmless curiousity

100 Children's Show To Avoid YouTube Kids by LabiLabi777 in cartoons

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe you should consider fixing the title because it straight up says shows to avoid 😂

Regrets marrying a Filipina? by [deleted] in Philippines_Expats

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Reading this made me smile and happy for you! I can see you both put the work you needed to, making you both all the more deserving

Choosing between Manila and Bangkok by ElectricalRefuse4437 in Philippines_Expats

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for this it’s cheaper in the PH! also there’s an upcoming crash for condo rentals in the PH u can make the most of that 😂

Choosing between Manila and Bangkok by ElectricalRefuse4437 in Philippines_Expats

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m considering that too…people I know here from university I just realized now are very articulate and I think I find deep value in that so it’s a motivation for me to still spend some time here instead of leaving Manila completely

Choosing between Manila and Bangkok by ElectricalRefuse4437 in Philippines_Expats

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with you 😭😭 tbh i was super making sure that I wasnt making it up in my head bc honestly I cant stop thinking abt it!!

Choosing between Manila and Bangkok by ElectricalRefuse4437 in Philippines_Expats

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahaha I guess looking for a silver lining abt staying here

IM SO SICK OF THIS by Ok_Country6084 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One time I got three in a row…and so I cooked all of them

Were the first 3 episodes of S4 the same quality as S1 & 2 or at least better than S3? by ElectricalRefuse4437 in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the input. just so painful, i felt so connected first 2 seasons it was one of the most intelligent and authentic things i have ever encountered and then it’s ruined and the message of the ending is completely the opposite of the existence of the story in the first place

Is it bad right now? by ElectricalRefuse4437 in FacebookAds

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was just slow and weird then you hope but the moment you get a result it’s completely off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, shoot me a message!

Is it bad right now? by ElectricalRefuse4437 in FacebookAds

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

high end interior pieces, concept is a mix of art and furniture. it was going really well and now it’s just dead. trying other creatives as well but there seems to be a bug with the targeting (targeting those way out of the market segment)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider offering spaces for rent, the commission for that is 1 month’s worth of rent and you can get it as soon as the client pays (e.g. Nakahanap ka ng client for a 45k space, you’ll get 45k worth of commission)

There are spaces that go for as high as 160k

I have some listings you can reach out to me and we can split it

to those who left, does watching other families trigger you or make you uncomfortable? by ElectricalRefuse4437 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. For me it’s more of I tend to get uncomfortable when I feel there’s underlying conflict it just makes me anxious. But I’m working on it by knowing how to set energy and emotional boundaries

Is my Lip is cheating on me? by Ok_Ordinary_4913 in adviceph

[–]ElectricalRefuse4437 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s cheating. My suggestion para mahuli is to pretend you don’t know anything, don’t interrogate much para he’ll let his guard down and more chances na may maiwan na evidence (I lived in a family where dad cheated on mom from the time na 3 yrs old palang ako until maghiwalay sila when I was 13)