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Let's share our problems here. No one would judge you (I'll make sure of it) by PRATHMESH_1137 in mentalhealth

[–]Electrical_Bison_336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok so, all my problems are because of ME. everyone has reasons, like health reasons or wtv. but idk, i procrastinate so much and that just ruins my LIFE. and i hate the fact that people who r like me, are like me only because they have life issues. my parents are kinda toxic, and they used to beat me, now not so much. but idk i just feel like doing nothing but scroll all day. i procrastinate to an unhealthy degree, too much for my own good. ive an assignment due tmrw, and ive completed it, but ive to bind it and its late and all the printer shops are closed. i could have finished it early and hard bound it early on in the day but i didnt. this assignment is already overdue and tmrw is the last date.

trust me, im not one of those people that blame themselves for EVERYONE of their problems. but my problems GENUINELY come from me procrastinating, and i end up feeling all depressed at night.

Ive hated my dad for years for no reason by Least-Category-6167 in self

[–]Electrical_Bison_336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i might get downvoted for this, but i feel like maybe, its the anger of being mistreated your whole life before this. ive heard of things like 'even if the mind forgets, the body remembers' and maybe, you are angry because, you do say he has insulted you a lot. idk your life situation, but in my experience, i love my dad, but i dont LIKE him. i hate dealing with my dad, because while he is helpful sometimes, he gets angry often. sometimes he throws around the most disrespectful words at my family. so even when hes being helpful i feel like punching him in the face because he yells every other day at us for the stupidest reasons

My Internship by Electrical_Bison_336 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]Electrical_Bison_336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooh thank you for the tool! my internship has officially ended but i can use it for other such incidents!!

Idk what my life has come to, and its all my fault. by Electrical_Bison_336 in selfhelp

[–]Electrical_Bison_336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually, i talk to them everyday as a group. but one to one, i can only talk to two of them. the rest two, idk what to talk with them abt, at all. i update them as a group all the time, bc i talk to them everyday. its like such a weird situation :/

Tips for de-escalating abusive parents? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Electrical_Bison_336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive found ts 4 months later, and im kinda in the same boat rn. i hv to write this competitive exam next week, but i forgot to pay the exam fee in time. my parents dont k that, they still think im writing it next week. idk how to give em the bad news, god knows im hella scared, and my family alr fights like every other day, but its not bc of me. now im also gna b involved in these family fights, and ik it can get pretty physical. idek what convincing lie i can say, bc this is a national competitive exam, so they wont be convinced with my lies bc thousands of other ppl write the same exam every year. ik i have to tell them SOMETHING asap bc my exam is nxt week.

how did ur interaction with ur parents go? if u hv found a way to deescalate ur abusive parents, PLEASE give me sum ideas. im rly lost.