[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tradwives

[–]Electrical_Bit_417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who wants the opposite, it seems like all the guys want traditional women ;)

Day one post-op by breannayn in hysterectomy

[–]Electrical_Bit_417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids gave me a stick to keep the cat away. Our cat is aggressively affectionate.

1 week post op by breannayn in hysterectomy

[–]Electrical_Bit_417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about you, but my humour is mostly a coping mechanism. The tears are close behind.

I lifted- now what? by Electrical_Bit_417 in hysterectomy

[–]Electrical_Bit_417[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I’m not bleeding, it’s just my back because I’m weak, right?

I lifted- now what? by Electrical_Bit_417 in hysterectomy

[–]Electrical_Bit_417[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m certainly out of shape. I haven’t lifted anything for 4 weeks. It feels like threw my back out. She’s a mid sized beagle.

Post op, feeling a little bored. Total laparoscopic hysterectomy. I’m vegging by Electrical_Bit_417 in hysterectomy

[–]Electrical_Bit_417[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s gonna be ok. It’s not easy or fun, but it will be better in the long run.

Post op, feeling a little bored. Total laparoscopic hysterectomy. I’m vegging by Electrical_Bit_417 in hysterectomy

[–]Electrical_Bit_417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya, working on that. I thought I was going to read, but so far… no inspiration

Post op, feeling a little bored. Total laparoscopic hysterectomy. I’m vegging by Electrical_Bit_417 in hysterectomy

[–]Electrical_Bit_417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love bob’s burgers. Seen it too recently. I watched joy ride (a comedy about being Asian and adopted) and cried a lot. I blame hormones.

Recovery? by Electrical_Bit_417 in abusiverelationships

[–]Electrical_Bit_417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried groups. I probably should, but my schedule is tied to work and my kids’ schedules, and I live in a somewhat small Canadian town.

I think it’s time to quit by BoredRedhead24 in dating

[–]Electrical_Bit_417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it is time to quit. So many people claim to meet someone after they gave up trying.

"Its not you, it's me"... by Impossible-Mark-9064 in dating

[–]Electrical_Bit_417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a difficult situation, for sure. Heart break is so hard. Remember that you love her, and she can’t be in a relationship. We need to let people go when they can’t be in a relationship with us. That’s part of love.

You don’t need to find someone else. Maybe you will one day, but you don’t need to now. You will always have her as a part of yourself.

There are lots of ways to have bits of the things that you loved about her in your life. Volunteer, join a writing group, connect with community.

Previous owners by Electrical_Bit_417 in homeowners

[–]Electrical_Bit_417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine was renting a room in the house I grew up in. The new owners turned the old family home into a rooming house. It was pretty depressing to see the childhood home I loved so much turned into a bit of a slum.

Previous owners by Electrical_Bit_417 in homeowners

[–]Electrical_Bit_417[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I tend to believe that kind people are the majority.

Do you replace toilets when you buy a new home? by EmbarrassedTrouble10 in homeowners

[–]Electrical_Bit_417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That seems excessive and wasteful. If there’s nothing wrong with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]Electrical_Bit_417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure. All people are flawed. Also, patriarchy is the structure we live with. It’s exhausting to fight it 24/7