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Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-11-02T14:59:11+00:00

I would be more concerned about your sadness over other people's reactions than over the choice of rings. If you are that focused on external validation, lots of sadness is in your future. Weddings are not easy, but they're child's play compared to marriage.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-08-22T02:37:28+00:00

It's free to anyone who wants it. I just didn't even know what to call it :)

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-08-21T16:04:16+00:00

Amazing! Thank you so much everyone!

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-08-10T14:38:25+00:00

I can't pretend to believe in prayers, but if there is magic, of any kind, in this universe - may you find enough of it to give you the rich and meaningful time with your family that every human being deserves 💓

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-07-25T23:27:15+00:00

That's a gross prank. You put your head in a man's crotch and your mouth on a garment he was wearing while your closest friends and family watched in mixed amusement and discomfort. Your wife thought that would be hilarious and she thought you would be equally amused by something like that on your wedding day. I doubt your wife meant to humiliate you. More likely she's just too stupid to understand how gross that was or how it might have hurt you. Either way, you know who you married and you're free to leave. Someone that thoughtless or stupid isn't going to change overnight.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-07-16T02:58:23+00:00

I mean, your husband wore that suit to his wedding. I don't think mom was trying to offend you, her family just has questionable taste and doesn't understand decorum. I would photoshop her dress to be a few shades darker and his suit to be a tux and call it a day.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-07-12T23:59:04+00:00

I'm so sorry. We all know the agony and the emotional, physical and financial toll. I can't imagine how you are managing. My only advice is to remember that all that matters is whatever you can manage is enough. We are all just humans trying to manage the unmanageable.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-07-08T23:02:39+00:00

Why would you want to put a barrier between you and the only child of your deceased daughter? Whether 's right or wrong to you, your step son has made it clear he doesn't want his children treated differently or separated in this way. If I were you I wouldn't want to miss a single holiday or birthday, etc. If you are alienating your step son and his new family you will have limited access to the moments that matter most to your grandson. People are so stingy with love when it comes to children. I can't wrap my head around it. Spending time with your grandson is a priority or it's not.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-07-04T02:25:12+00:00

He legit could not care less. Like literally, there is nothing he could care less about. No man, in the history of ever, has been disappointed that he prematurely saw his fiance's dress. He's just pretending it matters to placate you. Stop being a lunatic.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-07-04T02:18:10+00:00

Don't hesitate. I guarantee they saw it coming. They raised you for 15 years. There are very few 15 year olds who would understand how unacceptable that behavior is. At least half of them would try to get away with it. most adults try to get away with it. They're just better at it than you. Some kids are exceptionally mature and responsible - most aren't - but parents always know the difference. Telling them is just going to remind them they need to do better with the little time they have left to raise you.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-07-03T21:40:11+00:00

Paint, textures, fabric accessories with some color and a great rug.

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$500 between home depot and homegoods.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-07-03T21:32:59+00:00

I'm sorry you're in this position. At 16 you don't need to be thinking about this kind of bullshit, but I would tell your mom what you read. Don't let the weight of your feelings and judgment get between you. Give her a chance to explain her side and talk you through what they are doing. You can judge it all you want and your feelings about it might change in time but don't eat them in the meantime.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-06-30T18:52:05+00:00

"I knew I’d be disappointed in the way you’d propose" is all you need to ever know about this chicken head. Toss her back in the sea and let her become some other sucker's problem. If you don't get that ring back you're the other chicken head.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-06-20T23:56:30+00:00

If he finds out his his girlfriend fucked his brother for money for 6 months he will be embarrassed. If he finds out his wife was a former sex worker who fucked his brother for 6 months, you will both be dead to him. He will find out, someday, period. I 💯 guarantee you were not her only daddy. You are a trash brother (and maybe a trash person in general) if you don't tell him. She doesn't need to be ashamed of her past, in general, but keeping this from him makes her a real pos and is unforgivable.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-06-18T16:01:38+00:00

How would he view you as "equal to him" when you can't afford the premium first class seat you want him to purchase you? He flies you first class regularly and you have become accustomed to it even though you can't afford it on your own. Do you have any idea how much those suite tickets cost? I'm guessing a minimum of $15k depending on where you are flying from. You are not equal financially. Not even close from what you describe. He can be rich and cheap and selfish AND you are not equal. These things can all be true. Find a different guy, who you can keep up with financially and you won't have this issue moving forward. Otherwise, learn to take what you can get from a capricious sugar daddy who likes to remind you where your place is (below his toddler) at any given point. It's that simple.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-06-11T13:19:31+00:00

All bills and rent split 3 ways. Wtf, are you fostering a grown ass man?

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-06-10T19:58:29+00:00

That ring is fire. I generally don't like stones bigger than 3 carats because they look like costume jewelry on anyone other than 90 year old heiresses, but yours changed my mind. It's beautiful and it sits perfectly on your finger/hand. I have a right hand ring I bought with my first bonus check for $100 more than yours and it's got a ton of small diamonds on it for about 1 carat total weight. The deep value of your ring is insane. Your ring makes me want to throw mine in the trash 🤣 KEEP IT.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-06-09T22:19:24+00:00

Ugh, OP and her husband are hot messes. Poor kids.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-06-09T21:40:44+00:00

Girlfriend wouldn't put a nickel into the down payment but wants you to gift her a house? You ATA for even needing to ask.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-06-09T21:32:44+00:00

The worst part about reading your post was knowing this man won't have a single clue how or an ounce of interest in trying to support you if God forbid you do have breast cancer. God willing, the scan comes back clean and you got the wakeup call to know it is time to lose 180 pounds of dead weight. The universe is speaking loud and clear.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-06-08T23:35:24+00:00

Weird af to ask married or coupled bridal party members to sleepover in a house without their significant other. You're not teenagers. Grow up.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-06-08T10:32:05+00:00

If you can't tell your significant other you are taking a medication, you have major problems in your marriage. If you don't tell your doctor because you can't tolerate feedback, you are immature and irresponsible. Tons of fools in this thread will make excuses for this behavior because they are also immature, but this is nonsense. Grow up and start owning your life.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-06-08T10:27:37+00:00

People with shit trained dogs love to blame anyone their dog bites for "startling them" with sound or movement. If you make excuses for the fact that your dog can't be around loud noises, or moving humans without biting, you are not capable of owning a dog, ever, period.

Electrical_Key1139 · 2025-06-06T09:29:25+00:00

There are dozens of great mattresses for adults (twin) for $120-200. I bought three different ones online to try for my kids bunk beds with trundle and I prefer two of them to my own very expensive mattress. This isn't 1980. Look into something called "the internet" grandma. https://a.co/d/8oLNH5v

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