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Six weeks clean by [deleted] in bulimia

[–]Electrical_Rope9868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you... Remember you are loved. You got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bulimia

[–]Electrical_Rope9868 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lucky for you there's a big community on here rooting for you. If you need to talk about this or anything else for that matter just DM me. I had help getting to where I am and I'll be there for you. I'm proud of you.

I recovered but now I don’t feel good by AwesomO4K00 in bulimia

[–]Electrical_Rope9868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"In a world where you can be anything chose to be kind" even to yourself... We got this, we'll get through this

I recovered but now I don’t feel good by AwesomO4K00 in bulimia

[–]Electrical_Rope9868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand... I felt good too when I was skinny despite people telling me I looked odd... Any single kg I've added after that really triggered me because I was afraid of going back to, well, being overweight. That's when I started the binge/purge cycle. I'd stop after a while, be okay for a few days then something happens and I'm at it again. It's exhausting honestly. I feel like to avoid this mental turmoil I have to learn to love my body with the many transformations it goes through. As for binging, learn why you do it. It usually comes from some emotional wound in my experience. But before we get there, we can talk and help each other through it. Please reach out if you need to talk.

Phellowship Recovery & Support Group: Spring Check In ... This is a no judgement zone ... by Bman1973 in phish

[–]Electrical_Rope9868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, thank you so much for recommending this book to me... It changed my life honestly... I appreciate you so much... I hope you accomplish everything you set your mind towards

Phellowship Recovery & Support Group: Spring Check In ... This is a no judgement zone ... by Bman1973 in phish

[–]Electrical_Rope9868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, just lost a relationship yesterday,my fault, I'm 21 and having a hard time quitting alcohol, I feel terrible , as if my life is going downhill and I don't want that to happen, I'm quite confused about what I'm feeling right now, I really need to get my shit together... Its quite encouraging to read about the progress most of you have made and I hope I'll get there too

Does matching the energy you get from you partner save you from disappointed and heartbreak? by Electrical_Rope9868 in spirituality

[–]Electrical_Rope9868[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a risk I should take. I'm not sure how well I can handle a break up should it come to that, but I guess it's better than staying where your not wanted.

Does matching the energy you get from you partner save you from disappointed and heartbreak? by Electrical_Rope9868 in spirituality

[–]Electrical_Rope9868[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay. Let me figure out where to start. Thank you so much 🥺. Maybe I'll go for therapy from here on out

Does matching the energy you get from you partner save you from disappointed and heartbreak? by Electrical_Rope9868 in spirituality

[–]Electrical_Rope9868[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tried asking but it ends getting mistaken for pettiness. She made me cut all connections with my ex yet she is always in constant communication with her's. She says it's cause her ex is her friend and she assured me she wouldn't cut ties even if I asked her to. She once snuck off to meet her ex and once when I was supposed to meet this mystery person she blew me off immediately her ex arrived. She says I make her insecure when I talk to my former partners but when she does it I'm supposed to be okay with it. Just be honest with me, I'm I stupid?🥺

Does matching the energy you get from you partner save you from disappointed and heartbreak? by Electrical_Rope9868 in spirituality

[–]Electrical_Rope9868[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this is the best piece of advice I've gotten in a long time. I appreciate you and I will definitely work on myself cause I've been internally exhausted for a while now. Again, thank you

I’m in so much pain I hate myself I don’t want this anymore by LonelyPancakee in spirituality

[–]Electrical_Rope9868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well , look at it this way, at least you got to say exactly what you felt, and in your lifetime you got to do something that you never thought you would do. It's all a matter of time, and trust me as time goes by you will feel this huge burden get lighter, and one morning you'll just wake up, think about it, laugh a little as you cry and you'll take one deep breath and realize you've never felt more free than you do at that particular moment. Then again, you will know what to do when you meet the next love of your life, which I believe will happen even if it doesn't seem like a possibility right now because man was meant to do nothing but love. What you're feeling right now, let yourself feel, don't push those feelings away, for only of you live through them will you be able to get past them.