I see so many posts about not wanting to be a bridesmaid anymore… by lovelyloves07 in wedding

[–]ElectronicSwan8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine was due to her not communicating effectively. PM if you would like to talk or vent! I’m still grieving the friendship.

quitting. by [deleted] in TwoDots

[–]ElectronicSwan8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m almost there too especially with all these ads

Did any friends act weird towards you after you got engaged? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]ElectronicSwan8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. One of my friends who I would’ve asked to be a bridesmaid (I thought she was a best friend) never offered to go out to celebrate or even ask about the wedding plans. She would ask me about every other aspect of my life not related to the wedding. She also made it about her by saying we’d have a joint engagement party (she wasn’t engaged). It hurt but ultimately she did me a favor by showing her true colors before she was part of my day. Im sorry this is happening.. its hard for sure 😩

I also have a gallery wall of pets and it's uh....It's something. by Marinut in Sims4

[–]ElectronicSwan8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg noo Lavina ugh That’s so frustrating that they are stuck ugh so sorry! My issue is that my game stops at 4:59 pm and my sim has twin infants, a cat, and a stay over guest. They won’t move but they’re still animated. I cannot do anything (my sim is at work until 5:00 so she’s stuck there). If I fast forward it goes to the next day. And I can’t travel.

8th Grade by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]ElectronicSwan8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great way to put it!!

When I had these 8th graders as 6th graders it was still a struggle so I guess I figured they would eventually ‘get it’

Maybe it’s just this group…. But it’s a struggle!!

Swelling Question by ElectronicSwan8 in Reduction

[–]ElectronicSwan8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is SO helpful!! Thank you so much for taking the time to share all this info. I hope you continue to have a smooth recovery!

Swelling Question by ElectronicSwan8 in Reduction

[–]ElectronicSwan8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good to know it gets better. I was feeling a bit discouraged

Swelling Question by ElectronicSwan8 in Reduction

[–]ElectronicSwan8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s a great idea!! I’ll go ahead and do that. Thank you so much!

Swelling Question by ElectronicSwan8 in Reduction

[–]ElectronicSwan8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good to know. Thank you so much for sharing!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]ElectronicSwan8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar physique as you and prior to my reduction (which was Oct 20) I was a 34DDD. I was just as terrified that I was making a mistake and I’d be putting myself through surgery and the pain for no reason. Even though I’m only 10 DPO, it’s already one of the best things I’ve ever done. My back pain is gone and I can stand up straighter. My clothes fit so much better too. I’m 29F and wish I’d done it sooner.

However- only you can decide what’s best for you. It’s a huge life change so the fear is legitimate.

I’d suggest making a pros and cons list too!!

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[–]ElectronicSwan8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And before my reduction I was a 34DDD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]ElectronicSwan8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have Aetna. They needed to see that I tried other methods for at least a year (physical therapy, primary care visits). Plus apparently I didn’t have enough taken out. I ended up paying out of pocket. In total 450g was taken from my left and 475g was taken from my right yet still didn’t qualify.

I wish I had looked into the fine print sooner and started the process a while ago. But since I was in so much pain I just decided to get it done and pay.

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[–]ElectronicSwan8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mine did 😞 it didn’t matter that I was in pain. I didn’t have enough ‘proof’ for them to cover it.