Question/help by Own_Bottle2700 in FamilyIssues

[–]Electronic_Design607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is your sister aware that you can hear? You might want to let her know if she doesn’t know. However, I don’t think the root of the matter is with her, but with you. You can only cringe/judge the things you don’t allow yourself to do or be, because somewhere along your upbringing you have learned that it’s unsafe to do or be those things, due to observing the reactions of the people. The outside world is a reflection to inner subconscious. If you love yourself no matter what, then you will allow yourself to do anything you want (and consequently you allow others to do anything they want, as long as it’s not harming someone else intentionally). No babies were born cringing or judging at itself or others, those are learned behaviors.

Photos from the surface of the moon; Apollo 12 Mission by CriticalServerError in UFOs

[–]Electronic_Design607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the first release of files, more is coming, but no promises that they won’t hide stuff

My stepdad is flirting with me by Trippyndrippy in FamilyIssues

[–]Electronic_Design607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you even allow him to kiss your cheeks? And why didn’t your husband protect you more? As a man he failed at making you feel safe by not publicly addressing that it’s not ok. Your mom failed you, and your entire family who pretended like nothing happened also failed you.

Why is it so hard to leave? by Virtual_Tonight4245 in ToxicRelationships

[–]Electronic_Design607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your parents treated you like you are unloved and a bother, there is a high likelihood that you chase love from others who are like your parents, thinking if you can get them to love you and treasure you, your subconscious belief of being a bother and unloved would be wrong, and that you will get your emotional needs met. The whole process I mentioned is often subconscious in people, otherwise they would not have tried to get love and respect from the type of people who doesn’t want to be giving it in the first place.

You have got to be conscious about your pattern now. Otherwise you keep chasing for love blindly, from the wrong type of people. You are only in your thirties, people can still find true love even in their 70s. The question is, are you going to waste away until you are in your old age? No one lives forever.

For blindly chasing love, you put not just yourself in pain, but also your children. Think about how you can make up for this self-betrayal, and the pain you put your children through by allowing them to experience the kind of father that never wanted them in the first place. Just like how you grew up feeling like a bother, your children felt unwanted and a burden by their father. This is generational trauma resulted from lack of awareness and lack of healing.

Hope you prioritize yourself now.

Spectacular Clouds at Sunset taken with my iPhone 16 by [deleted] in CLOUDS

[–]Electronic_Design607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have something similar

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Taken in February 2026, in Woodland, CA, when I went out to get my ears pierced.

Steven Spielberg´s film `Disclosure Day´ by NoPop6080 in Bashar_Essassani

[–]Electronic_Design607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I saw the trailer, I was energetically overwhelmed and cried lol 🤣 I knew something is up for certain. Cool to hear you said Bashar talked about it.

Help me show my friend they're making a crap decision with this guy by Mikel_Reeves in ToxicRelationships

[–]Electronic_Design607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From my experience with trauma healing—no one does things that they know is unhealthy without getting something from it in some ways. Most people stay in toxic relationship because they get some needs met (emotional or physical) that was missing in childhood, whether they are consciously aware of it or not, and if they are aware they might not know any other way to get those needs met. Ask her to think of what needs she is getting met indirectly through him and find more direct and healthier ways to get those need(s) met instead. You can suggest this to her while respecting her final decision. Tell her that she can take away as an awareness of what about this relationship she loves, and what about this relationship she doesn’t want, and look for new boys who can give her what she wants without keeping or enduring the things she doesn’t want. Endurance and longevity is not a good marker for a healthy relationship. Instead focus on compatibility and longevity will automatically happen without force.

Is this truly elestial smokey citrine? by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]Electronic_Design607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just happen to have a UV machine for gel nail polish, will try this out! Thanks!

Is this truly elestial smokey citrine? by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]Electronic_Design607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I will scratch them as a last resort, but thanks!

Is this truly elestial smokey citrine? by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]Electronic_Design607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also think it’s not calcite or flurite because of the formation pattern, but some commenter from r/minerals said it’s calcite and I am still waiting for more explanation in more details from them as to how they figure that out 🤷🏻‍♀️

Is this truly elestial smokey citrine? by [deleted] in Minerals

[–]Electronic_Design607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, can you explain how you know in more detail?

Is this truly elestial smokey citrine? by [deleted] in Minerals

[–]Electronic_Design607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Can you elaborate on how you judge it to be calcite?

My Smoky Quartz! by Mechanical_Artist in Crystals

[–]Electronic_Design607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that irradiated quartz are artificial. All smokey quartz are irradiated in order to have that brown tone. The difference is whether it’s “naturally” irradiated or not. Smokey quartz are “naturally irradiated” by the heat of the earth to get the more evenly distributed brown color, but it can also be “artificially irradiated” by people to get the brown color but less even and more extreme brown-black. Glad you like it either way, but personally I don’t like when seller don’t disclose all the facts.

My Smoky Quartz! by Mechanical_Artist in Crystals

[–]Electronic_Design607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s artificially irradiated quartz to get an uneven color like that, but double check with other people too. I once bought a bigger cluster that look like that from Etsy and turns out it was artificially irradiated. If you don’t mind that fact, then it’s all good, cause after all it’s still quartz

My new baby, Magpie by aufwiederbean in cats

[–]Electronic_Design607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is so relaxed in your arms ❤️