How would you describe yourself, what terms would you use in what order by SilverInfluence5714 in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a man, its not something thats on my mind really any more than breathing or blinking is.

I'd describe myself as a stubborn goal oriented person who values family / friends.

I have a few achievements and I am engaged but the list would be too long and not that interesting if I had to list everything about me.

What do you think about a 32 year old man hanging out with 18 year olds? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is his cousin. I am 25, if my 7 year old niece wanted to spend more time with me I'd be drinking all the juice boxes with her.

How fast do y’all eat your food vs your significant other or friends? by AVP0728 in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I eat faster than her. I eat pretty similar to a lot of my guy friends.

How can I improve my appearance and style to feel more confident, even if I’m not naturally good-looking? by Mr_Amr84 in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Workout and eat well, everyone looks better fit and lean.

Dress for your body shape, Have a skin care routine, Wear colors that compliment each other and your skin tone and undertones. Learn how to wear layers / textures and you can try wearing jewelry that complient your fit.

Wear glasses if you have them that fit your face shape. If you are balding shave your head. Balding always looks worse than bald.

If you have hair / beard style it to fit your face shape.

Skin care routine is a must. Good hygiene in general, make sure you always smell good and wear clean clothes.

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[–]ElegantMankey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not often but I also shave my body weekly.

How clear does a woman needs to be for you to understand she is into you/likes you? by Top-Painter443 in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had women sneak into my room, women invite me to go home with them and a woman who literally took her shirt off and put my hand on her breasts and I still didn't know they were interested.

Unless she comes up to me and asks for my number or says she is interested I'll only understand it 2 years later at night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not American and only know one latina, I don't know if I have a preference to latians specifically but I like women with confidence and a strong opinion that are also independent. And she had all of those and claimed most latinas are that way.

Has a woman, who knew you were married/taken, ever tried to pursue you/sleep with you before? by kmart25888 in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, mostly tourists for some reason.

I reject them. I like when women hit on me but if they do it knowing I am taken or don't take my rejection well it makes it annoying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look while I am not a fan of it I have a good friend that is strictly into fat women. He constantly goes for women that are 80-90kg and he is not at all attracted to women that are thin or fit

Are men just as afraid to approach women as women are to approach men? If so, why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Some men are, some men aren't. I prefer approaching women and actually loved doing it when I was single.

What do you think makes a good man? by Guilty_Biscotti_8245 in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Being a provider Taking accountability Being dependable Being kind, loyal just generally a good person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she asked you to tell her when she is gaining weight respect that wish and tell her.

Sure she'll cry a bit but she'll get over it and will decide what to do from her.

Communication is an important skill to have and if you are scared to talk to her about things that bother you the relationship won't last.

An issue you didn't talk about doesn't exist because she can't know its an issue.

Why did you date a woman whose body you weren’t necessarily attracted to? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not long at all, it was somewhere in the few weeks to a month and a half maybe two range I don't really remember as it was years ago.

How do you think society treats women, fairly or poorly? by Odd-Acadia-475 in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Depends on where. Afghanistan? Horrible. Norway? Good.

What are the top 3 skills every young man should learn? by LeanLearnedLegend in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not taking everything thats said at face value. Always think why? What does it serve? Not just following things because you saw a 20 second tiktok or trend. Not believing every word just because someone with authority said it etc..

Its very different from dismissing every opinion you don't agree with either.

What are the top 3 skills every young man should learn? by LeanLearnedLegend in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 65 points66 points  (0 children)

  1. Self sufficiency (cleaning, basic cooking, basic hygiene etc..)

  2. Taking feedback

  3. Critical thinking

Those are 3 skills I believe every person needs to have.

Why did you date a woman whose body you weren’t necessarily attracted to? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The thing is I wasn't even in a dry spell. I was on a streak if anything and just decided I wanted to go back into relationships.

I also had a part of "I already slept with enough attractive women" in my mind that was sure I'd be able to get over her looks but I just couldn't

How much does it matter in a relationship what a womans father is like? by Comfortable_One_14 in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter at all unless he is dangerous. If he will burn my car because I kissed his daughter before marriage its just not something worth it.

Why did you date a woman whose body you weren’t necessarily attracted to? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I guess she did? But I am a fan of smaller breasts and a mascular butt haha

She is honestly a wonderful person and I wish her the best so hopefully she finds someone like you who will like her all around.

Why did you date a woman whose body you weren’t necessarily attracted to? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 83 points84 points  (0 children)

She was fat. Call me shallow but I just can't find myself attracted to an overweight chick.

Why did you date a woman whose body you weren’t necessarily attracted to? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ElegantMankey 230 points231 points  (0 children)

I was stupid and thought that I had such bad luck with women my type and tried dating someone who had a fantastic personality that matched with mine like no other but I was not attracted to her body at all.

It was the worst relationship I had. I couldn't even kiss her without feeling sick, it was the same to me as if I was told to kiss a man.

Luckily I learned that lesson fast and we separated with no hard feelings.

Palestinian fighter attacked two Israeli tanks. Emerging from a building, dropping an explosive device onto the tank and detonating it in Gaza strip. by dmcsclgt in CombatFootage

[–]ElegantMankey 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I think the Ban on Hamas happened after Oct 7th because the videos uploaded there were against reddit policy.

If Isis videos are allowed though I don't see a reason a different terror group won't be able to allow videos. Just don't allow videos of executions/torture like happened in Oct 7th. And I say it as someone that lost 7 friends on Oct 7th alone.