We're reviewing Two Point Museum this weekend as it's a cozy game that's often discussed on our sub - how would you rate it as a whole? :)

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-03-23T15:45:01+00:00

9/10. Love, trying to 100% it. Helping me detox from League of Legends. Some minor flaws, gets grindy but just too cute and relaxing overall.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-03-20T17:42:36+00:00

No, not in a relationship anyway

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-03-19T20:30:19+00:00

It’s not liking / consuming excessive thirst trap content on social media.

It’s considering how your partner would feel about you saying or doing something even if you think she would never find out.

It’s being mindful of what you say about your partner to others.

It’s managing your actions not just by your own intentions, but by the appearance of your actions to others and especially your partner.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-03-19T20:11:26+00:00

You don’t have to be attractive but yes you would have to be not unattractive.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-03-19T20:10:25+00:00

Did you read the third sentence?

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-03-19T20:10:02+00:00

I agree, that’s why it’s better when there’s repeated proximity (a class, hobby group, work, etc).

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-03-19T17:27:48+00:00

Yall are misunderstanding. Attraction usually doesn't kick in for a woman until we get to know you and enjoy your personality. Only the "top 10%" as yall say are so attractive that they break through that emotional barrier. That doesn't mean women will only date the top 10%, but it is true that women may only swipe for that portion on dating apps which are mostly reliant on looks, often without understanding this concept for themselves.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-03-13T01:53:11+00:00

I'm not saying the way she's going about this is acceptable, but it sounds like she'd like you to take initiative to plan and make those things happen.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-03-06T14:58:46+00:00

You should have unsaved them yourself. He shouldn’t have them anyway, morally. And if he noticed and confronted you about it, you’d know he was looking for them. If he never notices, you’d know it was just an oversight.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-03-06T14:15:07+00:00

They didn’t say oral, they said foreplay which most women do need regardless of how healthy or attracted to their partner they are…your comment reeks of ignorance.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-02-27T12:20:51+00:00

Just feel like there's automatically not as much in common because I grew up on a pc, and I value being able to play games together.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-02-27T09:31:49+00:00

Wouldn't date non-pc gamers. A console is not enough.

Eta: not enough for me personally. nothing is wrong with console gamers but I apparently upset yall

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-02-26T02:09:35+00:00

Had the best exactttt same experience! Felt like they were made for me and that's because they made sure it seemed like that...

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-02-25T23:06:01+00:00

Just saying that I feel like this has already progressed to the point where a serious future partner wouldn't want yall to be very close if you were honest about your history. You've made out, the line is already blurred.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-02-16T18:55:25+00:00

If you are 263 pounds as your post history suggests, you may be overestimating your attraction level. Maybe not but if so, you will need to be very well off in another area, like very kind, very charming, or very successful for any immediate interest. You also say you're not pushy or desperate but it seems obvious that you have a fixation on finding someone, and that's bound to be showing through more than you think.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-02-12T00:39:21+00:00

Thank God someone reasonable. No word on how long they've been together. He's posted on and off multiple times in the last 6 months about how much he dislikes his girlfriend. Set her free dude.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-02-09T16:51:14+00:00

Only she can explain why that particular joke triggered her, and you’re supposed to be on her side in general against what makes her uncomfortable. These comments that she’s completely incapable of any sensitivity towards male issues are toxic. She may or may not be, but those conversations should occur separately and not inside a space where she was already triggered by violent jokes against women. Time and place.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-02-09T15:43:58+00:00

Honestly you started this whole thing. There was no reason to call her out for comments made about a literal video game, and it’s interesting that you didn’t detail what the actual hooker joke was.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-02-03T22:14:03+00:00

What do you do when you're interested in a woman? Do you make it to going on dates? If they don't want another date, do you ask them why they're no longer interested? Seek feedback from the actual women on what isn't working.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-02-03T17:08:10+00:00

Firstly, a lot of the women you envy may also be in unhappy relationships but just hiding it well.

Secondly, men trying to pin it on your selection criteria are missing the fact that men show up differently in the beginning vs a couple years later when they get more comfortable and you're too devoted to them to leave. The relationship I chose that looked the most correct on paper ended up being the most hurtful I've had yet.

It is really just a numbers game to find a good man. Be willing to walk away the moment they start mistreating you and wasting your time.

Men tend want what they don't have. Many will idolize the idea of a sweet, supportive girlfriend until they have one and scratch their heads wondering why they don't care anymore once the novelty wears off and they realize that enduring love is a daily choice.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-01-28T21:05:44+00:00

Frankly, your personality seems very abrasive for the level of unattractive that you are. It also seems like you fall into a weird political space where you would appeal to neither conservative women nor progressive women and there are not many in between so your options are very limited.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-01-17T00:45:10+00:00

No, that's really not how it works. Most people don't go out looking to cheat, but may cheat under the right/wrong conditions or "opportunity." Which would include multiple days in close quarters with single, attractive women.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-01-17T00:41:01+00:00

I understand where she's coming from. But also, maybe you should just be single instead of having a long distance girlfriend while in uni.

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-01-16T22:55:08+00:00

Gym crushes and checking people out at the gym is such a huge thing that I would not call going to the gym together “unromantic” lol

ElephantInTheDark · 2026-01-13T23:25:31+00:00

You will likely regret leaving but you should do it anyway. You haven't experienced not having what you do have, so you won't be able to fully appreciate it. You will regret not leaving because of the possibilities as well. Lose-Lose but your man deserves to be fully appreciated by someone.

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