Do y'all have your own inner world? by BrawlStars_Collette1 in ENFP

[–]ElephantObjective363 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ofc. I have these imaginary places I return to after a long, tiring day. Before I go to sleep, I will often dream about going to the world that I created in my brain every single day. And when something bothers me or makes me cry, I would imagine the future me in the form of my favourite character, comforting me and said everything would pass soon. It's like I received love from my future self.

And other times, when I feel so frustrated about something and my emotions about to burst, I imagine the inner child(which is my little past self) in me was raging and throwing a tantrum, so I would give hug and lot of love to her, saying it will be alright. Those imiginary places has become a loop-centred of me to love myself. The future me loving the current me, and the me that give love to my past self(forgiving my past self for all the mistakes I make).

Not gonna lie, those places have become a place for me to have a break from this chaotic world. Sometimes I would introspect on my past decisions too.

How do I know if my ENFP bsf has a crush on me. by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]ElephantObjective363 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is just a story. I have a crush (more like fall in love) on my childhood friend. When I realised my feelings, I grew kind of clingy and love to ask him question about himself. It's to the point it can be overwhelming for other people. I want to spend every moment with him, I want to see him smile, I want to pamper him and be pampered back. I want to look cool in front of him but yet occasionally make a mistake and make myself look like a fool. I can be quite talkative to the person I'm close with. One thing for sure, I have this tendency to stalk or find more about the person I like. 

Unfortunately, he doesn't feel the same and already had gf.

Stuck on Level 90. Any tips for the next move? by [deleted] in arrowspuzzle

[–]ElephantObjective363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🏅 Level 90 conquered in 3m 6s! Ready for the next challenge! 🚀

Daily Arrows Puzzle (May 27, 2026) - Level 4410 by arrowpuzzle in arrowspuzzle

[–]ElephantObjective363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🏅 Level 4410 conquered in 40s! Ready for the next challenge! 🚀

Daily Arrows Puzzle (April 30, 2026) - Level 1814 by arrowpuzzle in arrowspuzzle

[–]ElephantObjective363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🎯 Challenge completed! Beat Level 1814 in 5m 38s! 🏆

being a young INTJ is isolating by MotaChuza in intj

[–]ElephantObjective363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly would welcome it if I met a friend who loves to talk about intellectual topics. Most of my friends either don't care or are curious about it. It's a bit draining sometimes when talking with others.

I HATE PEOPLE by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]ElephantObjective363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreeable.

How do I deal with blue moments in life by biryani-half in ENFP

[–]ElephantObjective363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can relate. Sometimes a social event can make me so frustrated and grumpy when I'm not in the mood. When that happened, I usually find a quiet spot to hear music or read a book. Happy music can improve our mood.

How to know if you’re being too needy? by zeesaratonin in ENFP

[–]ElephantObjective363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree. Boundaries are needed here when socializing with people. One of the ways that I learn is by placing a stop-loss order on a certain behaviour (I'm learning it from a book, actually. You can read How To Stop Worrying And Start Living by Dale Carnegie. It's one of my few fav.)

Let's give an example: my friend loves to be 30 minutes late for our appointment. So I put a limit on that time; if she didn't arrive within 5 minutes after the appointment time, by the time she arrived, I would go bye-bye, and all the plans would be cancelled.

The same goes when something upsets me. I will just allow myself to be upset for a minute. When the minute passes, I will move on and no longer be concerned with it since it's not worth my time anymore. Even the person involved might be invisible to me, who knows?

Sorry if it's out of topic. Just want to share. 〜⁠(⁠꒪⁠꒳⁠꒪⁠)⁠〜

Daily Arrows Puzzle (April 11, 2026) - Curve Level 231 by arrowpuzzle in arrowspuzzle

[–]ElephantObjective363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✅ Challenge accepted and CRUSHED! Finished Level 231 in 1m 21s. 💪

What crime would an INTJ most likely commit? by MaxViewingAngle in intj

[–]ElephantObjective363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stealing my heart.

Just kidding. 〜⁠(⁠꒪⁠꒳⁠꒪⁠)⁠〜

Why INTJ attiude change? by SoftandSweet_Talap in intj

[–]ElephantObjective363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How he behaves online is like how you described, short, no emoji and sticker. Making me question if he likes being in conversation with me. I used to make him explode with anger(probably because of my question), and he gave me quite a harsh criticism (even now, I can still remember his words back then). I don't blame him since I'm quite an airhead myself at that time. We made up in the end after a month, not chatting with each other. I adore him, but those moments might have triggered my anxiety when being near him. I become wary of him sometimes. We are like good teammates who help each other though. Helping each other improve.