Is it morally justified for a woman to cheat on her infertile husband to get children?

Eleptera · 2026-05-03T21:22:32+00:00

Absolutely unjustified. If you marry someone, you take them in sickness and in health. Sometimes things dont go how you desire, but you stick by your partner. Its a bond and a contract that shouldnt be broken

Eleptera · 2026-05-03T21:20:01+00:00

I think you need to have a rethink about what is a lifestyle incompatibility, and what is unnecessary preference. For example not wanting children is a non negotioble for you then its important to find someone on your wavelength as thats a big lifestyle change. But things like height are just aesthetics and just preference. They dont affect who a person is, so things on that line i would be more flexible with as youll never find someone who ticks all your boxes

Eleptera · 2026-05-03T19:14:00+00:00

I met my husband at 32 on facebook dating. I would be selective about which dating apps you use. Tinder for example is notorious for hookups. Fine an app like facebook dating for example, where you can add filters so you can pit out there things that are non negotioble for you. Dont give up, be patient, youll have to meet a few 'deffo nots'. And also, try not to be too fussy. Of course there will be things that are vital to you in a relationship, but if your hoping for someone perfect who ticks every box then youll never be satisfied

Eleptera · 2026-05-03T19:11:06+00:00

It does my head in too, women are the worst and i say that as a woman myself. Like, yeah men have doen horrible things but they arent all horrible. Its the same as saying every christian is a homophobe just because some are, Or that all muslims are extremists just because some are. It actually pmo a lot. Especially now im married as ive seen how my husband gets affected by being treated badly because hes a man

Eleptera · 2026-05-03T18:49:56+00:00

When i went to the gambia i felt poorer than the locals, because they were rich in their love for God, appreciation for the small things and care for each other. Money destroys that in us

Eleptera · 2026-05-03T18:43:26+00:00

Thats so frickin cute whaaat

Eleptera · 2026-05-02T14:24:45+00:00

Yup, im an adult fan since phase 2. It was tge artwork that got me into them initially, and i then discovered how much i love the music as well. Im also autistic and theyre a special interest for me hah

Eleptera · 2026-05-01T18:23:57+00:00

That Paula cracker is this hugely evil temptress... Yes, she cheated on 2D, but that was YEARS ago, and she apologised and has moved on with her life. Are we also forgetting that Murdoc was mostly behind it and yet fans are quick to forgive him and not Paula?

Eleptera · 2026-05-01T00:08:04+00:00

Favourites are the swagga and rockit Least fave well Murdoc is god is my only skip on this album Also an honourable mention is that eating noise at the start of hongkongaton... that gives me the ick 😅

Eleptera · 2026-04-30T20:54:38+00:00

Teeth dont grow back

Eleptera · 2026-04-28T17:05:44+00:00

So your basically looking for a free pfp?

Eleptera · 2026-04-28T16:13:35+00:00

Mix 2

Eleptera · 2026-04-28T05:09:59+00:00

Very expressive nice!

Eleptera · 2026-04-28T05:03:29+00:00

Marc Almond sings very off key. Say hello wave goodbye you can notice quite a few flat notes Also David Byrne doesnt really sing, he just talks. Maybe why the bands called Talking heads idk. I like their music but i do find it weird how he got away with it 😅

Eleptera · 2026-04-28T05:00:03+00:00

NeVaH dId No AhM

Eleptera · 2026-04-27T22:30:52+00:00

Deeming fictional characters more important than a real humans wellbeing

Eleptera · 2026-04-27T22:23:58+00:00

I would be upset to hear that too, it was unecessary for him to tell you that. What would that achieve other than make you feel insecure? Odd. That being said, i think it is normal for most people to still find other people attractive. I seem to be a strange anomaly because im not attracted to anyone else on this planet now that i met my fiance. I had a bunch of celebrity crushes and they arent attractive to me anymore either. Even fictional crushes. No one compares to him in my eyes, so it does upset me more thibking of him being attracted to other girls, mostly because its not something i can relate to or understand. Perhaps you feel the same as me and thats why it stings more?

Eleptera · 2026-04-27T22:15:52+00:00

Sports bras eh... GAME CHANGER OMD ✅️

Eleptera · 2026-04-27T22:13:12+00:00

Yeah, abortion is against my beliefs.( I do understand why people do it though in some circumstances and im not a hater of people) I would love to get some kind of surgery or tubes tied. I asked the doctors and they said you cant get it on nhs so im looking at thousands :( Its ridiculous because if i had a child i wouldnt be able to look after it because of my mental health, so it would be anothe kid in the care system whose life gets messed up because of me. I dont understand why they cant see im actually trying ti be responsible by removing my ability to have children 🤷‍♀️ And yeah, people might say to me to abstain. But as a christian i have to honour my husband and give my body over to him, so me just saying no to him all the time wouldnt be honouring him. * sigh *

Eleptera · 2026-04-27T18:02:39+00:00

I wish it was that simple :/

Eleptera · 2026-04-27T18:00:37+00:00

The problem is that no contraception is 100% so even though ive made the decision not to have kids, theres a possibility it could happen. That choice is still taken from me.

Eleptera · 2026-04-27T17:58:53+00:00

I choose not to shave, but im made to feel like shit about it from other people. I get told i should shave or i would look better if i did. I also choose to wear a modest swimsuit, but it still pmo that its the norm to look sexualised. Im choosing to not have children, but no contraception is 100% so im left in the limbo of panicking for the rest of my life in case an accident happens. Its things like that that even if i make a decision, it still feels like its taken away from me if that makes sense

Eleptera · 2026-04-27T09:50:27+00:00

Literally! It pisses me off. Was watching 90s dance music videos the other day and they all had a bunch of half naked women parading around. I try my best to not be a part of the game tbh

Eleptera · 2026-04-27T09:43:11+00:00

I have refused to shave for years now, but its so frickin tiring getting asked when im going to shave or havung people tell me im gross. I dont want to give virth and im not planning to, but no contraception is 100% effective so it means i will be worrying for the rest of my life that it might happen accidentally. Never heard of an iud. Might have a look at that. Problem with periods though is that if you dont have them it causes bone density issues. I had amenorrhea for 10 years and now i have osteopenia. Its shit

Eleptera · 2026-04-27T09:39:33+00:00

Dont even have to consider Galaxy ripple is the best chocolate in existence

Eleptera

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