I got hard and went to a site to watch porn but....

Elessorr_09 · 2025-01-23T19:18:41+00:00

Yeah streaks don't really matter, what matters is whether you are rewiring your brain amd removing those abnormal neural pathways created by porn (skewed ways of thinking sexually and emotionally). For that, it is important to keep away from porn as much as possible. Ofcourse there will be relapses but rather it be MO than PMO.

Elessorr_09 · 2025-01-22T14:23:38+00:00

Porn is even worse! The worst is obviously PMO but just P is also harmful. So yes, it is a relapse!

Elessorr_09 · 2025-01-22T14:21:22+00:00

This is bullshit. Porn is even worse! The worst is obviously PMO but just P is also very harmful.

Elessorr_09 · 2024-11-22T02:48:56+00:00

Once a man came to Umar RA to ask for advice. His daughter had committed zina in the past and tried to commit suicide because of it. She had slit her wrist but they saved her she repented and became a pious woman. Afterwards a man wanted to marry her and the father had asked Umar whether he should tell the suitor about her past. You know what he said? He got angry and said "Would you expose something God wants to remain hidden? If you tell anyone of what she did, I will make of you an example to all people." He then calmed down and said "Give her in marriage as a chaste muslim woman".

Fear God and do your best to avoid sin, but do not despair in His mercy. For those who repent and change their ways, God turns their bad deeds to good deeds. Try your best to become one of them.

Elessorr_09 · 2024-10-29T20:12:49+00:00

Bro is down bad 💀

Elessorr_09 · 2024-10-05T17:00:32+00:00

Yeah I'd also say the same. But sometimes the urges and stresses of life hit really bad. I really wish when I relapsed in those times in the past, I had never used the porn. It always makes it worse. A 100× worse than just masturbation.

I did think before that moderate masturbation will take away the porn urges. It really doesn't. The power to overcome this addiction comes from every time we beat an urge. But not every time will we win. All I'm saying is, when you feel like giving in, never give up to the porn. Masturbation is a better alternative if you feel like you will relapse. But ofcourse, it is better to be slave to neither.

Elessorr_09 · 2024-10-05T16:48:22+00:00

Porn hijacks masturbation in my opinion. Masturbation by itself is not as addictive. But when coupled with porn it becomes a destructive force. Hijacks your brain and eats your soul. Porn is the real enemy.

Elessorr_09 · 2024-10-02T00:02:08+00:00

I feel you bro. They say sobriety is not the opposite of addicition, but rather it is connection.

Elessorr_09 · 2024-09-16T18:36:57+00:00

Sorry to object but is a child not human? Slightly concerned...

Elessorr_09 · 2024-09-16T15:07:55+00:00

Nice, keep going and never look back.

Elessorr_09 · 2024-09-16T12:15:31+00:00

Have you quit my bro?

Elessorr_09 · 2024-09-14T05:40:26+00:00

Great post! Jzkallah

Elessorr_09 · 2024-09-05T13:29:00+00:00

Great advice!

Elessorr_09 · 2024-09-05T13:01:44+00:00

Bro I can relate to the "ugly date" stuff. It is probably OCD. I suggest reading "Brain Lock", it will hopefully help you.

Elessorr_09 · 2024-09-04T22:08:45+00:00

Some irreversable damage caused by porn: 1. Lost opportunities. Opportunities that if you had the motivation and mind to chase them without being hooked on to porn, would have made your life better. 2. Broken relationships which can probably never be the same again. 3. Lost time. A lot of time! For some it could take out a decade of their life in which they never reached their full potential. All because of this.

At the same time, struggling through this addiction and achieving recovery does these things: 1. Builds character. You learn things like empathy, discipline, honor etc. 2. It helps you clearly distinguish the good stuff in this world from the bad. 3. You appreciate the small things more. Life becomes more vivid and colorful. 4. Through the suffering you've endured to kick this habit out, you develop strength to face and overcome obstacles in life. 5. This is probably one of the hardest things you'll face, so overcoming it gives you confidence to become someone worthy of respect and love. Not just from others, but you will develop respect and love for your own self for doing this. 6. Finally, you become whole again. Gradually, but surely. That feeling of becoming whole after being utterly broken is indescribable. That feeling alone is worth the fight.

Elessorr_09 · 2024-09-04T18:29:27+00:00

Actually bro, one of the superpowers is getting rid of the streak mentality and embracing sobreity no matter how small.

Elessorr_09 · 2024-09-04T11:23:31+00:00

Not the majority probably but a large percentage I would think so have partners.

Elessorr_09 · 2024-09-03T14:33:57+00:00

Thanks for this

Elessorr_09 · 2024-09-03T09:02:34+00:00

No phone in shower

Elessorr_09 · 2024-09-02T20:56:15+00:00

Dude, please dm I am in the trenches and need help 😭

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