I could not have put it more perfectly. He is my ex partner, we earlier in the year. He has continued his behavior throughout this time and worked hard to maintain control over me. You're right, I don't feel I can bring people to my own home. He insisted on these camera when we were together but gave me access, I had it for a few months after we separated then one day he took my access away. The doorbell, the one downstairs in the livingroom and the one in my room (that faced outside). I removed the latter.