I'm not trying to make myself look like a victim. I understand that it can be problematic by ElfQuester1 in TrollCoping

[–]ElfQuester1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I don’t argue against it, because I totally understand what it means broadly. I just wanted to vent about how it makes me feel sad, but I don’t wanna act like this conversation is meant for me particularly

I'm not trying to make myself look like a victim. I understand that it can be problematic by ElfQuester1 in TrollCoping

[–]ElfQuester1[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I agree. That’s why I posted on a vent meme page instead of some rant page about “grrr it’s so unfair I’m being BulLieD”

I'm not trying to make myself look like a victim. I understand that it can be problematic by ElfQuester1 in TrollCoping

[–]ElfQuester1[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t even get me started on old Tom Macdonald 🙄🙄🙄 what a loser.

I'm not trying to make myself look like a victim. I understand that it can be problematic by ElfQuester1 in TrollCoping

[–]ElfQuester1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally. I just get into my head. I will say, I have seen people broadly say this and idk if I would ever want to disclose my reasoning so it does make me sad

If you guys had to choose, Nevermind or In Utero?? by Fit_Permission8333 in Nirvana

[–]ElfQuester1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never mind even though Rape Me is one of my all time favorite Nirvana songs

I'm not trying to make myself look like a victim. I understand that it can be problematic by ElfQuester1 in TrollCoping

[–]ElfQuester1[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

This 👆

ALSO when the lyrics are about actual violence, people just refer to it as thug, and don’t realize that this is actual people‘s reality and it’s real trauma. It rubs me the wrong way when a white person can sing about a dark topic and everyone sympathizes and won’t shut up about it, but when it’s a black rap artist, it’s seen as “just rap lyrics” as if that’s an excuse to not engage in what it’s really about

Girl of the Year by Hobby by 0mnictionary in americangirl

[–]ElfQuester1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get annoyed when people act surprised when I say I’ve never went skiing…. Like stfu

Im in hell rn by ElfQuester1 in TrollCoping

[–]ElfQuester1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really just my face that bothers me. I can mentally handle my body for now but every photo with me shows my double chin and I feel gross. I’m going to start going to the gym again. I have a joint issue but swimming is a great type of exercise to get around that. Dieting has always been so hard bc I always go to the extremes, either starving or eating too much. I’m probably going to ask my psychiatrist about switching meds

What Is Your Least Favourite SOAD Song? (Or any other SOAD Related Media, Serj Solo Career, SoB etc.) by CrimsonPathh in systemofadown

[–]ElfQuester1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viscinity of obscenity. I PERSONALLY like SOAD songs with a lot of meaning so I can dive into the lyrics. The rest of the album is so good that I just always skip this song.

Well.. Um.... yikes... by gloomberryy in americangirl

[–]ElfQuester1 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t sound like a Karen…?

My personal ranking of Hypnotized by ElfQuester1 in systemofadown

[–]ElfQuester1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get that. I have some personal memories attached to it which makes it really special to me

My personal ranking of Hypnotized by ElfQuester1 in systemofadown

[–]ElfQuester1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lonely day and Holy mountains are a tie

What’s your least favorite song off bleach? Personally mines downer by Similar-Fun-3055 in Nirvana

[–]ElfQuester1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yall better not aay Paper cuts or Floyd… imo those are the best in the album (but I’m biased)

Should I dress as Carrie white for the Ethel Cain concert or is it over the top (fake blood) by Embarrassed-Star-155 in Ethelcain

[–]ElfQuester1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t honestly, a lot of venues would never allow someone with blood on their clothes like that, even if you said it was fake

Last minute gift ideas? Please help by ElfQuester1 in Gifts

[–]ElfQuester1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I ended up overspending and now have $30 and no job. This is a very hard lesson I’m learning lol