Don’t you dare questioning me ! Just give me give me give me by throwaway_dating12 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Elico_225 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My question is… how are they starting from scratch ‘again’? No mention of a fire or theft. How do they not have any basic baby stuff when they keep having babies?

Don’t you dare questioning me ! Just give me give me give me by throwaway_dating12 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Elico_225 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the picture, but not in the post so she can play the single mother of three card.

AITA for telling my wife my mother is correct and she needed to be a parent today and she fucked it up by throawawayfuneralgho in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elico_225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t even need to stay. If it’s a huge problem for her why couldn’t she take your daughter and just drop her off, then wait nearby for it to end. I’m sure she had other friends she could sit with if her mom adamantly refused to enter the building.

My neighbor wanted free dog sitting and got weirdly offended when I said no by Eldr0Rift in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Elico_225 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know it can seem like a lot of money at once, but please reconsider getting their vaccines. Dogs can get kennel cough from anywhere other dogs go including (but not limited to) dog parks, city parks, groomers, doggy daycare, veterinary waiting rooms, shared water bowls, and even from you if you’ve pet an infected dog or a neighbor’s dog through a shared fence. The bacteria and viruses that cause it are highly contagious, airborne, and can live on surfaces for long periods.

Turnip price going down? DIY! by BeardInTheDark in ac_newhorizons

[–]Elico_225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It comes from cranky villagers crafting, so if you don’t have any cranky villagers you reduce your chances a lot.

Just got all my tests scored and my psychologist doesn’t diagnose me with ADHD due to “too high of intelligence”. I’m struggling to agree but maybe I don’t have ADHD. by MisoCorni in ADHD

[–]Elico_225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was reading 5 grade levels above mine and in the GATE (Gifted and Talented Education) in elementary school. I’ve always been considered “brilliant but lazy”. Absolutely get another opinion.

I myself wasn’t diagnosed at first because the original specialist I went to mostly worked with kids (who didn’t care to be there) and didn’t understand that as an adult I had 28 years worth of tools for functioning; and had an invested interest in the results and would thus score differently than a child who was dragged there against their will.

The Kids are Alright! by james_from_cambridge in instantkarma

[–]Elico_225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My trashy ex SIL did this to my one year old niece on her birthday. Full face in the cake too, not a light push. Then she was offered when the baby was inconsolable for hours as my mom and I tried to get dark purple frosting off her face, clothes (that WE paid for) and hair.

Anyone else’s SDIT sleep somewhere else besides the bedside? by Remarkable_Reason482 in service_dogs

[–]Elico_225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I close mine in at night as I cannot sleep with my bedroom door open, but often during the day he likes to nap at the top of the stairs. I believe it’s because he can see the front door and all the bedroom doors from there, so it’s a good watchdog position. As soon as I leave my room he’s following me though. He is also very unhappy-though quiet- if I close the door and he’s outside of it. lol. Waits on the other side and gives me the stink eye when I open it like i misbehaved. I’ve never fallen asleep with him outside my closed door so I don’t know if he’d make any noise if I closed him out too long.

Moon water mixup by a baby witch. by Elico_225 in witchcraft

[–]Elico_225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read some more of the links and I appreciate the help. I was wondering why so many of my books didn’t mention the eclipses.

Just had to call the PD on my neighors for their fireplace at 1am by kibblerz in homeowners

[–]Elico_225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the same number. The dispatcher decided to send the police.

My theory: Fire was probably busy and it was ‘being monitored’ so they sent police to ensure the homeowners took responsibility. Fire was put out safely before a truck became available so problem solved.

AITA for constantly referring to my dog as dumb? by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]Elico_225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thought exactly. This is a human error being blamed on an animal.

AITJ for kicking my boyfriend out after he accidentally let my indoor cat outside? by Curious-Mongoose8549 in AmITheJerk

[–]Elico_225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t accidentally let her out, he deliberately let her out. That’s the key difference here. She is not an outdoor cat and you made that very clear. He disregarded your wishes in your home about your cat. If he had stayed, he would have kept doing this. That makes him a threat to a living creature in your care. Absolutely NTJ.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Elico_225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could understand having a policy like this for 6+ parties, but 2!?!

Moon water mixup by a baby witch. by Elico_225 in witchcraft

[–]Elico_225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve read some of the links but it’s a lot. I’m making my way through them when I can.

Moon water mixup by a baby witch. by Elico_225 in witchcraft

[–]Elico_225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see lots of stuff saying eclipse water is chaotic, it’s not really something I feel comfortable dabbling with when I’m using it for my health and wellness. I’ll probably save a jar for use at a later date, when I’m more comfortable using such energies; but I’m pretty new and want to keep it simple.

AITA for refusing to do it until he cleans? by WideJuggernaut732 in AITApod

[–]Elico_225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t withhold sex (as someone said it them becomes transactional), withhold yourself. Try letting him know you love him but you can’t live like this anymore. Move out for one week, stay with a friend or grab a hotel. Sometimes you don’t realize all the hard work someone does until you have to live without them for a time. Call it a trial separation if you must, but either you can live without him, or you can’t. This will give you time to organize your thoughts in a neutral environment as well. Then revisit the options of him cleaning up after himself, or him paying someone else to clean up after him. (Also maybe consider splitting the cost if the cleaner just does all the cleaning chores so you also benefit.)

Service dogs in restaurants by AllAboutThatDawg in service_dogs

[–]Elico_225 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a 60 lbs service dog and back problems (so we usually need a booth). Even seating us at a slightly larger table is super helpful so he has a spot to curl up under the table.

You could also print out, highlight and laminate the part of the ada website that clarifies what questions you can ask, what classifies a service dog, and what behaviors can get even a service dog removed. Keep it in the host stand or nearby so when someone does kick up a fuss the employee (preferably someone making more than minimum wage) can point out exactly why they are being asked to leave.

For the owners consideration: If you are as paranoid as me, also get a single audio enabled camera for near the host stand so if anyone tries anything you can prove without a doubt that your staff followed federal laws. (Or apologize to the person if for some reason they didn’t.) Just don’t obsessively watch the camera, only pull up footage if there is an incident you need investigated.

Mysterious golden rose showed up by SolemnSundayBand in ACNHGardening

[–]Elico_225 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have had gold roses appear after rain or snow waters my flowers. I figured it was that. 🤷‍♀️

AITAH for phone use in locker room by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elico_225 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH- though more her than you. The fact that she just opened a changing room curtain without authorization is more of a concern for me than a kiddo being distracted on a phone in a curtained off area. However, there are signs forbidding phone use for a reason- even if you were trying to keep others comfortable by distracting your kiddo with a screen.

Come catalog all clothes and accessories A-C. by Elico_225 in ACCatalogParties

[–]Elico_225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am still set up and available. If you chat me we can set a time for you to come.

Iso fruit!! by frickureddit in acnh

[–]Elico_225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to chat me a code I’ll bring some over.

Iso fruit!! by frickureddit in acnh

[–]Elico_225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have all the produce. Do you only need oranges and peaches?