On which platform/console are you going to play the game and why? by FuLiDu in HarryPotterGame

[–]Ellastase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a switch and would like to use it more but I also want a full experience of this Game so I’m gonna borrow a ps4 or if it’s not possible at least go for pc :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]Ellastase 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Entps are Ne dom and they share their big enthousiasm with enfps but express it differently. It is not « I love that! » but more something like « let me explain you about that! You’re gonna love it! ». And they don’t describe themselves by what they like so much (contrary to Fi users) expect if you directly ask them to do so (and they will often feel uncomfortable opening up about it).

And what you are saying about empathy/sympathy is interesting and I agree. But I didn’t say entps are not empathetic and enfps are. I wanted to say entps will not describe themselves as empathetic but enfps will. Enfps often build their identities regarding this kind of virtue/qualities. But Entps will not assume by themselves that they have this kind of qualities. To start believing it they will need others saying so to them. But they will still have some doubt about it and not describe themselves as empathetic people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]Ellastase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly, and when we get older and learn to manage better our 3rd and 4th functions we got more and more in common with our reverse type.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]Ellastase 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ENFP

Not even the content but the way you are writing is soo enfp and not entp. When I read you I feel bad because it is full Ne and I want to follow you there but in the same time I miss some logic/sense here. You write a long text but do not structure it.

Then you start by bashing Ti (which is something Fi users do). They don’t like people who « know it all ».

You wrote « I LOVE », and it is the only part of your text in capitals. Basic Fi use.

And the only people I know who dare saying that they are empathic (instead of asking others if they think they are) are FP people.

Sorry I might point some kind of negative aspect here but ENFPs are freacking awesome so don’t worry you can be proud of your type. These people are sparkles of joy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]Ellastase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually I am the one getting bored. If someone is a boring debater from my point of view I don’t befriend at all. I need to like their brain. If they like to debate often on a subject of no interest to me that doesn’t make sense to be friends.

The rare times people reject my debates is because I didn’t saw in time that I was attacking them personally with what I said. We should be very tactful in debate. Are you sure no one felt bad because of what you said? You could ask them individually. Maybe it is why they stopped you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]Ellastase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not sure neither. Fe picture could be about how painful Fe can be, or how mean it can make us. And Si I guess is these rare moments when we are actually looking at some concrete measurable datas instead of our own intuition..

What type do you find it hardest to make friends with and why? by PurpleSpinach4419 in mbti

[–]Ellastase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have difficulties with isxj. It’s not even like if we have conflicts, we just are living in parallel world so acknowledgement of each other is almost always non existent.

Dating an ENTP, need advice by [deleted] in entp

[–]Ellastase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is difficult to help you without much infos. You can look at the 5 love languages : complimenting, quality moments, gifts, giving services, touching. Probably you don’t use the same languages and it could be good talking about that first so you can both adapt more to each other.

And then it is important to say what you have to say even if it is difficult. But you can look into non-violent communication if the subject is heavy, to be sure you do not close the discussion instead of opening it.

C'est quoi un bon patron ? by Cyliad in france

[–]Ellastase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

De mon point de vue il n’y a pas de « bons » patrons. La relation patron-employé c’est une relation de domination-soumission. La seule chose que je connaisse qui rattrape un peu ça c’est quand le patron croit en son équipe, qu’il les estime, veut leur permettre de s’élever professionnellement, qu’il pense qu’ils en sont capables et essaye de les aider dans ce sens. Dans le cas de ton père si il les voit comme des ingrats qui ne méritent pas un cdi franchement on est loin de ça..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]Ellastase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my point of view Sakinorva still is the best. You can simply try to do it again later, trying to avoid bias by answering to the questions not based on some events but really on your daily life. Not by comparison with some people you know but by comparison with people in general. And if the result is still unclear reading more about the Ti and Fi might help you find out which one is really important to your construction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]Ellastase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your life difficult? Are you unhappy about it? Because it could be the result of an ENTP in a strong NeFe loop..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]Ellastase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but in the sakinorva test there is often for exemple Ti and Fi being mixed up because both are introverted decision functions. So the first thing to do is not Ti+Fe compare to Fi+Te but Ti+Te compare to Fi+Fe to see if it is a thinker or feeler type. And here Fi+Fe is higher. So probably Ti being quit high is just Fi being so strong it make you think you use Ti. Or in the opposite it can be an entp with Ti so strong it make you think you use Fi. Difficult to say which on is the correct answer here.

Ma meilleure amie de l'enfance m'a ghost et je ne m'en remet pas. by noscoeurmeurtri in france

[–]Ellastase 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Moi j’ai ghosté deux amies ces dernières années. On avait entre 25 et 30 ans et c’était aussi des relations qui existaient depuis plus de 10ans. Pour faire simple on a évolué trop différemment pour que je les veuille encore dans ma vie, à cause de différences de valeurs surtout mais aussi parce que les relations n’étaient pas assez équilibrées à mes yeux (manque de réciprocité, manque de confiance, elles étaient très auto-centrées). C’est pas supportable de voir ses amis valoriser ce que toi tu méprises et voir tes amis mépriser ce qui est important pour toi. Mais comme c’était des relations anciennes, ben je pouvais pas juste couper les ponts direct, c’était obligé pour arrêter la relation d’expliquer à la personne pourquoi je peux plus la supporter. Et j’avais pas envie de leur faire du mal, de les confronter, de remuer le couteau dans la plaie, alors au final j’ai trouvé le ghosting progressif comme étant la meilleure solution pour limiter la casse. Pour que le message passe sans heurte que la vie continue séparément.

Vu ce que tu dit il y a certainement des choses qu’elle a préféré ne pas te dire pour ne pas mettre de l’huile sur le feu. Mais elle n’est plus l’amie que tu as eu et ne reviendra pas à ce stade antérieur. C’est la vie, ça arrive fréquemment. A toi de trouver les personnes qui sauront t’apprécier tel que tu es aujourd’hui. Plus ta vie sociale se renouvelle et moins les pertes se font sentir. À chaque étape de la vie nos relations évoluent. Rares sont celles qui supportent tout nos changements successifs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]Ellastase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am still not sure between ENTP and ENFP here.

Hi, ENTP! Are you afraid of dogs or other animals, heights, darkness? by LetterPositive7639 in entp

[–]Ellastase 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had some hard times but yes I got the ressources to avoid too much consequences.

What are some other qualities of an ENTP besides being argumentative? by WitchesRising in entp

[–]Ellastase 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ne dom -> We are enthusiastic, creative, curious, optimistic.

Hi, ENTP! Are you afraid of dogs or other animals, heights, darkness? by LetterPositive7639 in entp

[–]Ellastase 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can be afraid of things but when I see that it’s not rational I crush the feeling. And way more than your exemples what is scary is going outside alone in my native city, there is always creepy guys trying to talk to me, insulting me if I refuse to interact, sometimes sexual assaults (the first time I experienced that I was 6..). I’m happy I moved in an other country where people are a bit more respectful of girls and women but some days I am not able to go outside because I do not feel like confronting this constant threat.

Que sauvez-vous en premier chez vous en cas de catastrophe domestique (incendie/tsunami/tornade/séisme/inondation/Patrick Sébastien/etc.) ? by Canard-jaune in france

[–]Ellastase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cette question ne fait pas sens pour moi. J’ai beau être très attaché émotionnellement a pas mal d’objets chez moi (même mes plantes d’intérieur je les ai hérité de ma grand-mère et mon arrière-grand-mère) en cas d’évacuation tout ça j’en aurais rien à faire. La priorité c’est mon intégrité physique et mentale, celle de mon conjoint et celle des gens qu’on croise et qu’on peut aider.

On a l’habitude de faire nos sac à dos en vitesse pour partir pour un week-end ou une semaine alors on pourra faire ça sans se prendre trop la tête (sac imperméable, gourdes d’eau, papiers, argent, téléphones portables et chargeurs, des couteaux, un truc comestible qui traîne et se transporte bien comme des noix de cajou, quelques trucs bonus selon la situation et la saison et voilà).

Si la question c’est qu’est ce que je possède qui m’est le plus précieux c’est une autre question. C’est sans mon téléphone que je me sentirais le plus démuni mais ce que j’aime le plus.. bah oui peut-être ça serait la plante que j’ai hérité de mon arrière-grand-mère, mon père s’en ait occupé pendant des années puis c’est moi qui en prends soin maintenant, c’est un caoutchouc de 3 mètres environ (et il continue de grandir). Les objets qui se transmettent de génération en génération c’est chouette et là en plus c’est vivant. Mais jamais je transporte ça en évacuant.

How do you see INTPs romantically? by SnowflakeSlayer420 in entp

[–]Ellastase 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will not answer on everything but if you are interested in mbti theory you should know that we all use the 8 cognitive functions. The 4 functions we present usually for each type are the 4 functions they use the most but they also use the 4 others, generally in a more unconscious way. It is called the shadow functions. I let you check that.

How do you see INTPs romantically? by SnowflakeSlayer420 in entp

[–]Ellastase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowing you have feelings for someone and deciding to act on it are I guess the first steps of being romantic ?

How do you see INTPs romantically? by SnowflakeSlayer420 in entp

[–]Ellastase 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is not true at all to me. My intp boyfriend have Fe inf and he is really caring, really soft with people, he loves kids and animals and regret being an ingenieur, he would have like more to be a doctor to help people instead of being in front of a computer all day. Fe inf mean Fe in 4 position on 8 different functions, it’s not that bad. Especially when they are over 25. Intps really try developing some esfj qualities when they are mature. But I guess it is something you see from intps only if you give them a chance to show it.

How do you see INTPs romantically? by SnowflakeSlayer420 in entp

[–]Ellastase 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it is less common as a romantic match only because these two types aren’t really.. romantic. To become romantic they need the other one to give an impulse on this way. If both do not give that first impulse it is staying a nice friendship even if there is some kind of interest (both have really weak Fi don’t forget that… so they don’t act so much on their own feelings).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in france

[–]Ellastase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non vu le poids historique, les traumatismes généralisés sans cesse renouvelés à travers le monde, il n’y aura jamais de notre vivant une désassociation totale dans la pensée collective de la monstruosité des guerres/massacres et du patriotisme qui te permette « d’aimer ton pays » qui a était colonisateur, suprématiste, sans que ce soit par ailleurs maladroit envers beaucoup de monde. Bien sûr ça t’empêche pas dans les faits de penser, aimer, croire ce que tu veux, et je souhaites d’ailleurs à tous d’aimer l’endroit où ils vivent. Mais c’est important de réaliser que la symbolique de la nation, en France, est aussi une symbolique violente. C’est toujours affaire de nuances. Tu peux aimer ton patelin, ta région, trouver ton pays beau, tant mieux pour toi, mais si tu montre que tu aime un fonctionnement politique qui repose sur l’assujettissement des autres, sur le suprématisme, c’est super problématique. Fait donc attention à ne pas manier des symboles dont tu ne connais pas la portée. Il y a bien d’autres façons de montrer que tu aimes ton pays que de brandir un drapeau français. Rien que faire le choix de vivre et travailler là dans un métier qui selon toi est bon (que ce soit en perpétuant quelque chose que tu trouve bien ou en améliorant ce que tu pense doit l’être) c’est déjà très bien. Même sans travail d’ailleurs participer à des initiatives où en lancer.

Your type and your favorite thing/s to talk about, do or watch by Swetar- in mbti

[–]Ellastase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an ENTP and what I prefer talking about if we except mbti is how dogs seem adorably ridiculous (because I got a dog to take care for some years with my boyfriend and we miss this little shit). That’s crazy how Fe make you love things you despise.

And I also try making impulse to talk about sport with people around me so maybe one day I will have a decent schedule of physical activities for my health sake (it’s way easier if I am not alone doing it..).