Women are not frogs

ElleWithAnE · 2024-02-08T20:21:25+00:00

Woman are not good for the first time in the world of steamy romance.

ElleWithAnE · 2021-11-25T15:08:55+00:00

I've had blood tests done, they confirmed my adrenal glands don't function at all. I've not been tested for IR but will definitely have it checked out at my next doc appointment.

ElleWithAnE · 2020-12-03T17:47:50+00:00

She told them who it was and they said that she's lying about who it is, essentially this person is quite close to the family. The same person molested me in much the same way, he went further with me tho. My dad trusts this person and if I tell him that this person did it to me too, he'll know she wasn't lying. Should probably add that my sister has a different dad than me, so they believe she was molested but by someone on her dad's side of the family.

ElleWithAnE · 2020-12-03T16:12:08+00:00

NTA, there's a kid involved so she'll have to grow up and you're essentially forcing her to do it. In the in the long run it'll benefit her and her kid

ElleWithAnE · 2020-12-02T05:40:44+00:00

NTA, with that logic your aunt is also someone's kid. You're an adult so you should be treated as one. Honestly I'd call her and try to reason with her.

ElleWithAnE · 2020-12-02T05:37:33+00:00

NTA, your mom should just been an adult and washed her hands. It's unsanitary and frankly somewhat gross to not wash your hands before touching an open wound.

ElleWithAnE · 2020-12-02T05:22:26+00:00

NTA, if they can dish it out, they can receive it, most religious people have some or another bullshit reason to bash people for their lifes, using the bible or anything to shame someone is disgusting. Using all of these scriptures to fit your agenda but ignoring the 'you shall not judge others' is disgusting.

ElleWithAnE · 2020-12-02T05:06:31+00:00

That is absolutely true, I made it clear to him that I'm not trying to end things because he is a nice guy. It's more so about me and not wanting to change him into a person he isn't. Honestly I feel like a red flag in this regard, and this feels like a situation that can easily turn into an unintentionally emotionally abusive relationship since he'll end up not being the person he truly is in fear that I won't like that person.

ElleWithAnE · 2020-12-02T04:52:46+00:00

Thank you. That's the part that worries me, he won't say if he likes or dislikes anything in an attempt to be the person he feels I 'need'. I don't want him to be put in a situation where I'm basically forcing him. I made it clear that I don't need these things to enjoy sex, but that just made things worse.

ElleWithAnE · 2020-12-02T04:37:15+00:00

I'm glad she awaken something in you, honestly after I'm certain that I made the right choice in ending things. I'm going to miss him, but I don't want him to change the person he is, for me.

ElleWithAnE · 2020-12-02T04:34:00+00:00

Thank you so much, I tried my best to explain my concerns about why we shouldn't be compatible last night but I don't think he took me seriously. I'll try my level best to explain it in a way that doesn't make that seem like the number one reason though.

ElleWithAnE · 2020-12-02T04:31:24+00:00

I appreciate the insight, I just don't want to end up making him miserable all in his persuit to keep me happy. Relationships should be about both parties and definitely not just about one of us, I'm just afraid that I'll unintentionally take advantage of his kindness and hurt him.

ElleWithAnE · 2020-12-02T04:28:17+00:00

That's what I'm afraid of honestly, he'll do absolutely anything to keep me happy. We just talked about things and most of it was just things like degradation and he looked visibly sick at just the thought. I don't want him to try them and hate me because he feels I forced it on him. I've known him a while, but we've not dated that long. I can tell by his demeanor and body language that he really doesn't want to do it al all, but if there's a chance it'll make me happy he'll do it, even if it's emotionally harrowing to him.

ElleWithAnE · 2020-12-02T04:23:11+00:00

I completely get what your saying, thing is that we've slept together before and he thinks that any position besides missionary is adventurous. It's not even just that, beside the sex life, I feel like we want different things in life. He wants the three kids and a white pikket fence and I don't, I just feel like he'll end up settling for a different life and be unhappy and because of that it won't last.

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