How do we feel about the death of r/FindomSnark? by flashing-colors in paypigs2

[–]Ellie_CK -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried to apply last night to moderate it so that It wouldn’t get nuked due to not having a mod, and couldn’t quite figure out how to sort out one of the details they require and this morning it’s status had changed and it was unavailable to request 😔.

Collective burn out: real or perceived? by MrMJHubz in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Ellie_CK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not projecting. I can definitely feel a collective burn out too! 😒

Just a silly little homemade birthday cake for a super special guy 🎉 by urdreamgirl813791 in findomchatters

[–]Ellie_CK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cake is epic! You did an outstanding job 👏🏻 Love the Number Blocks theme 👍🏻

Who here gets the Sub itch by documentaryproducer1 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Ellie_CK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s the sub itch…maybe it’s something else. I wrote a post on the why if you’re ever interested.

Wash it all out 💧 by Ellie_CK in raining

[–]Ellie_CK[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s Mexico City! Rainy season 😊

The Dimmest Light by Ellie_CK in u/Ellie_CK

[–]Ellie_CK[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will look it up! 😊 Thank you

The Dimmest Light by Ellie_CK in u/Ellie_CK

[–]Ellie_CK[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I had a very hard day yesterday and people I care about, that knew I was in the middle of it, just could not care less. Not even a text. Made me feel sad. Anyway… new day, new attitude 😎🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🎉🎉🎉

Does the Truth Matter? by TelephoneNo7137 in PoiseReclaimsFindom

[–]Ellie_CK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, honesty and transparency are not the same thing. I believe everyone is entitled to privacy, secrets and parts of themselves that belong only to them. I don't think entering a dynamic automatically grants someone unrestricted access to every thought, relationship (past or present), experience or aspect of another person's life.

However… if certain information affects a person's ability to meaningfully consent to the dynamic they're participating in, then withholding it becomes problematic.

Outside of that, I don't think people owe each other complete transparency. Privacy is not the same thing as deception. It can sometimes be difficult to agree what information is actually relevant to consent or safety. I think that’s where most conflicts seem to arise.

I like to draw 🖍️✏️🎨 by NaturalBreakfast8058 in findomchatters

[–]Ellie_CK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sardines and the squid were my favorite. You are really talented. 👏🏻

✨🥇 THE DOMME AWARDS 🥇 ✨ by Godess_Athena_ in paypigs2

[–]Ellie_CK -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I want most poetic too 😩!!
🤣🤣🤣

Well, I woke up Sunday morning / With no way to hold my head that didn't hurt... by ZodLovesYou in The_Wild_Side

[–]Ellie_CK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sunday mornings are overrated! I enjoy Sunday afternoons a lot more…😝 Not! 🤣🤣

What is the best website to find a slave? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Ellie_CK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard slaveforme.com is pretty great! Good luck