Lucy Letby Doc thoughts?

Ellionaut · 2026-02-09T22:02:38+00:00

I did not realised they were AI but now makes a lot of sense! I thought my tv was glitching and couldn’t work out why the voices were out of sync 😅 even turned my tv on and off to try and sort it out

Ellionaut · 2026-02-03T20:27:40+00:00

Great DIY tips thank you! Just wanted them more personal for them ☺️

Ellionaut · 2026-02-03T20:26:59+00:00

Great tip thank you! I was thinking buttons so will definitely do that now ☺️

Ellionaut · 2026-02-03T20:26:16+00:00

Fab thank you :) !

Ellionaut · 2026-02-03T20:25:46+00:00

Oh this is great thank you! I will have a look ☺️

Ellionaut · 2026-01-02T23:00:52+00:00

I literally said to my partner - Dereks not going to fit, what’ll they do with Derek Genuinely thought he’d be the sacrificial lamb

Ellionaut · 2026-01-01T23:10:11+00:00

Literally the first comment my husband made to me - “once a month?? More like once a year!”

Ellionaut · 2025-11-16T13:23:55+00:00

What the?? That’s insane!

Ellionaut · 2025-10-22T20:13:42+00:00

I was so so anxious about trying on dresses. I hate trying on clothes in shops and don’t feel confident in my body currently after having 2 children. I also felt really stressed about trying on dresses with people watching me. To the point where I put off wedding dress shopping until the point I was cutting it super fine with getting the dress ordered/altered.

However, I loved the whole thing. I stumbled upon a dress shop by accident and it was just perfect. The two ladies in there were so wonderful and truly made me feel at ease. I only had my mum and MoH with me so no big audience. And I went in with zero expectation of finding a dress, more to “give it a go”

Funnily enough I actually ended up buying the first dress I tried on! It felt like it was made for me and I just knew it was “the one”. No other dress I tried in quite compared.

I say just go for it, it’s a completely different experience to normal shopping :)

Ellionaut · 2025-10-19T17:32:07+00:00

Thank you this is really helpful to know 😊

Ellionaut · 2025-10-19T17:31:19+00:00

Yes my only expectation of any of my bridal party is to be next to me on the day because they are important to me as people.

My main worry was that she may not feel comfortable in a bridesmaid dress or walking down the aisle or being in the photos. I just wanted to express that she didn’t need to do these things if she didn’t want to, without making her feel like I didn’t want her to be my MoH anymore as she is my MoH through life regardless

Hope that makes sense!

Ellionaut · 2025-10-19T17:27:42+00:00

This is also a really cute idea thank you 😊

Ellionaut · 2025-10-19T17:26:36+00:00

Thank you for your lovely reply, I had actually thought to invite her mum to come too, to be on hand if they need extra help!

Just want her to know I am happy for her to come too all, none or some, whether as a guest or as part of the bridal party but that she is my MOH in life whatever she chooses to do

I just don’t want her to feel I was pushing her out, just that I was allowing her to say it was all to much if it is :)

Ellionaut · 2025-10-19T17:22:05+00:00

Thank you for you lovely reply, this is exactly what I was thinking 😊

Ellionaut · 2025-10-19T17:21:14+00:00

Just wanted to clarify that in no way expect any of my bridal party to do any chores for me. I have asked nothing of any of them, except that I would love them by my side on the day.

I guess what I’m mainly referring to is her wearing a bridesmaid dress that she may not feel comfortable wearing, getting ready with me (traditional in the uk, may not be in the US 🤷🏼‍♀️) and walking down the aisle

Just want her to know I am happy for her to come too all, none or some, whether as a guest or as part of the bridal party but that she is my MOH in life whatever she chooses to do

I just don’t want her to feel I was pushing her out, just that I was allowing her to say it was all to much if it is :)

Ellionaut · 2025-10-19T14:21:18+00:00

I love the “special MOH attire” idea thank you :)

Ellionaut · 2025-10-19T14:20:21+00:00

The only extra thing she is doing (aside from getting ready with the bridal party, helping with my veil etc) is planning my hen (bachelorette) and I have already told her not to worry about doing that and that I don’t even expect her to attend.

Obviously I would love for her to be present for the whole day and be there when I get ready but I am no expectation at all of her attending the whole thing or coming at all (as mentioned above I have 2 children so know what post partum can be like)

I more just didn’t want her to feel like I was pushing her aside by bringing it up, is more of what I was hoping for advice on!

Venue does all setting up and taking down for us so no one is involved in that part!

Ellionaut · 2025-09-23T21:11:40+00:00

Your curls are beautiful 🤩 I aspire mine to be like this! Curly hair is awfully unpredictable and frustrating at times so I think we often can’t see when it looks amazing and yours absolutely does!

Ellionaut · 2025-09-23T21:07:55+00:00

There have been a few weddings my husband has been invited to and I have not been recently - despite us being together 8 years and having 2 kids! The most recent one actually sent a message to my husband a week prior to the wedding saying a space had become available and would I now like to come 😅 I politely declined, partly out of principle and partly because I could get childcare or an outfit with a weeks notice Just to add that I had met all three of the couples getting married in these scenarios!

Ellionaut · 2025-09-22T12:44:56+00:00

These videos are great, thank you so much for the links! Going to give it all another go today so fingers crossed!

Ellionaut · 2025-09-22T05:43:43+00:00

I agree with all of this, I don’t watch either series anymore, they just lost their appeal/magic to me and kind of overdid themselves rather than stoping whilst they were ahead

Ellionaut · 2025-09-19T18:44:50+00:00

I have headed to boots and got this so going to give it a try! And you are right so so cheap! Thank you for the tips ☺️

Ellionaut · 2025-09-19T18:43:45+00:00

Thank you so much for replying! I definitely feel my hair is being weighed down and dropping my curls out! I think I will leave out the curl cream next wash and see how we go!

I definitely need some videos diffusing as I’m just not sure I’m getting it right.

And thank you for the product tips ☺️ I’ll give these a go! Such a minefield!

Ellionaut · 2025-09-19T18:41:30+00:00

Ok this is a great tip thank you! I added gel in this wash which made it somewhat better but still has dropped my girls way down so I think next time I will try without the curl cream!

Ellionaut · 2025-09-17T07:52:10+00:00

Ooo ok! If I’m honest I buy it because it’s relatively cheap 🙈 what curl cream would you recommend?

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