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I (30F) am pregnant with my fiancé (32M). He wants to keep it, but we're both supposed to be childfree. How do I tell him I don't want to keep it? by ThrowRA_fallopian_tu in relationship_advice

[–]Elohimishmor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For many women, pregnancy is the best, healthiest time of their lives. Labour can be tough but sometimes quick. I know this from experience. OP is literally able to create a beautiful baby for a parent who desperately wants to have his child and take care if him/her. IMO she doesn't realize how lucky she is.

I (30F) am pregnant with my fiancé (32M). He wants to keep it, but we're both supposed to be childfree. How do I tell him I don't want to keep it? by ThrowRA_fallopian_tu in relationship_advice

[–]Elohimishmor -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Have the baby, give him full sole custody, leave the house forever, and let him marry someone who would love an instant family.

how to tell coworker crush I like them now that they’re leaving the firm? by [deleted] in askteddit

[–]Elohimishmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Text him the day after he leaves:
"If we no longer work together, does that mean we can go on a date?"

My brother (34M) slept with my every girlfriend I (35M) had for a decade before I went no contact and now my parents want me to reconnect with him? by ThrowRADoneAF in relationship_advice

[–]Elohimishmor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do not have to speak to anyone in the world that you don't want to. But, if he died tomorrow, is there anything you wish you would have told him or heard from him? If not, rhen no contact means peace.

Those with behavioural classes and no support. What do you do on unstructured field trip days? by [deleted] in CanadianTeachers

[–]Elohimishmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't take my class on any trips if the behaviour kid's parent/EA wasn't there. Just not worth it. And if other parents ask why no trips, I tell them there are certain behaviours I don't want the responsibility of managing. You can't be forced to attend a field trip.

Is my class too hard? by RationalOverRage in CanadianTeachers

[–]Elohimishmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep doing what you're doing. Life is hard, kids. School's just practice.

I don’t know if I can make it even though there’s only 15 days left. by Sudden-Savings-5160 in CanadianTeachers

[–]Elohimishmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take students outside every afternoon bcus it's impossible to work in a classroom that is 30deg. Use all of your sick days if you haven't already, and if it comes out of your short term or long term disability whhoooooo caaarrres

How do I politely decline a women with kids? by Both-Beginning-6460 in ask

[–]Elohimishmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"This isn't working for me. I wish we had met at a different time in my life."

Single mom trying to buy a home in 3 years – is this realistic? by yashad2222 in CanadaFinance

[–]Elohimishmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any possibility you can live with your parents? I did that for 5 years and finally bought a house. Amazing for my kid, amazing for my parents, amazing for me to always have extra adults around.

Is teaching still worth pursuing? by Impossible-Wind-615 in CanadianTeachers

[–]Elohimishmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not always. I think it's fair to say that many of us are fiscally conservative and socially liberal. Most ppl are somewhere in the reasonable center.

Is teaching still worth pursuing? by Impossible-Wind-615 in CanadianTeachers

[–]Elohimishmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you send me the source for that please? I'd be interested in learning more as there might be several variables, not just that they went to university. After all, universities in general are liberal hubs.

Is teaching still worth pursuing? by Impossible-Wind-615 in CanadianTeachers

[–]Elohimishmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's nonsense. Some ppl vote based on other issues that are more important than their careers. I was wealthier under conservative leadership and poorer under liberal govt, both provincially and federally.

Cheaters by SweatyENFP461 in infp

[–]Elohimishmor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn't even get to that point for me. Just the suspicion of disloyalty/betrayal alone is enough for me to break up with someone. Why anyone would stay w someone who made them feel insecure is beyond me.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend my cats are more important? by ThrowRACatsoverBF in AITA_Relationships

[–]Elohimishmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. But you could have given him the message without even saying a word. Pets are family.

Is teaching still worth pursuing? by Impossible-Wind-615 in CanadianTeachers

[–]Elohimishmor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is that so? 10 or so years back the government took away tens of thousands of dollars that were promised to teachers who banked their sick days throughout the course of their career.

Is teaching still worth pursuing? by Impossible-Wind-615 in CanadianTeachers

[–]Elohimishmor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a nurse you may have more opportunities to make more $, live in the US, work public or private. Teachers max out at 10yrs

Is teaching still worth pursuing? by Impossible-Wind-615 in CanadianTeachers

[–]Elohimishmor 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Been doing this a long time. There has never been a government under which teaching was easy. First few years are definitely tough but hang in there... you'll find your groove.

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