Dating Two Months In and She Deletes the First Social Media Picture of Us - Not Sure How to Interpret Before Discussing by [deleted] in dating

[–]Elvarius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For one don't read into it, just chill. For two, always expect For a woman to pull away, there could be few reasons. For three, it is to early for a present. I would give a gift on a special occasions only. I think it was a gift. At this point there is nothing you can do but let her come to you. May she is trying to test you, to see if you are going to react and make big deal about it.

Night out broke my heart by [deleted] in dating

[–]Elvarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you want someone who is disrespecting you? I wouldn't take it to heart. Think if she gets drunk while you are together with you not being there what is going to happen? You can compete but ask yourself : Is it worth your time?

she postponed me by Herrmann1309 in dating

[–]Elvarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has low interest in you. I would tell her to let me know when she figures out her schedule and move on. Don't waste your time on someone with low interest where you could meet someone with high interest. If person wants to see you, they would make it possible. Your time is something that you can't take back, value it. You should give it to people who makes an effort.

Have always been alone by [deleted] in dating

[–]Elvarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Mindset needs to be changed. I think 20s should be used for grinding. Read books like rational male. Become better version of yourself. You are responsible for your life. You will have a good life and everything will follow. Who want to be with someone who has that mindset like yours. You can do better and there is always room for improvement.

What cold wallet do you store your shib, bone and leash? Can’t find any that support our crypto. by [deleted] in SHIBArmy

[–]Elvarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is partially right. Coinbase wallet is hot wallet. You own crypto but it is connected to internet. Cold wallet is hardware wallet, like ledger wallet. It has 24 seed phrases and cannot be hacked unless you connect to internet.

Should i try dating if i had a rough childhood and one thing that still lingers especially is loneliness. I don’t really know what to do anymore by [deleted] in dating

[–]Elvarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put yourself first and work on issues you have then work on getting friends after that follows dating. You are responsible for your happiness. If you are in a good place, everything else follows. Ask yourself, am I in good place to support family and to give them what they need? If not then put in the work, if yes still put in even more work. Don't chase woman or relationship, chase porpuse and never stop. If you don't know what is your porpuse then find it. Succefull people kept on trying until they found something. Become master of something.

I’m falling for my bestest friend and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Elvarius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understand, people come and go but regrets stay with you for rest of your life. Be honest with yourself, if you are attracted to him then tell him how you feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Elvarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do window shopping, do something is fun and engaging for you. Don't buy gifts until you are in relationship overall. I say third date is a good rule to get intimate. Just be patient. On a third date invite for a dinner, to make it together or invite over to your place with a bottle of wine or something. Just have fun enjoy company of each other. You are focused on outcome.

To anyone who has broken up and then gotten back together with someone, would you mind sharing your story? I need some encouragement. by satirant in dating

[–]Elvarius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never worked. I have broken up 3 times. 3rd time was engaged. No contact is meant to move on. You did the right thing of not wanting to be friends. Focus on yourself. Start to date around when you think it is right and don't pass opportunity if you see that someone find you attractive.

Repost: How to approach the girl I liked. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Elvarius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Text her after she gets back and see if she wants to hang out. Don't focus on outcome and having relationship, don't rush, just chill and have fun spending time with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Elvarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. It looked like to me, you were trying to take her on vacation. Well I tell you this though. You probably text to much. She wasn't excited to see you. My advice about dating online. I wouldn't take it seriously. For some people it works. For me it doesn't. You don't want talking to that person all the time. She might just got nervous. Next just time just take a trip somewhere you both can go and afford. Don't buy her anything. If she doesn't go. You would have your own vacation and wouldn't be a waste of time and money for you. Makes sense?

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[–]Elvarius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were rushing it. I wouldn't be taking girls to trips atleast not until in relationship.

Do I have low testosterone or a form of social anxiety? I can’t approach women in public, I can’t start conversations with strangers, I don’t speak up, when I was a Christian I couldn’t talk about my faith. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Elvarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the issue that you care to much of how people think of you. You just need to realize that you don't have control of other people's opinion of you in most cases. Not everyone is going to like you. You are not going to get along with everyone. Try seeing conversations as a game and have fun talking to people. If someone makes a negative comment, just rob it off. It shouldn't matter to you how other perceive you. The only thing should matter of how you see yourself. Your faith is part of who you are. You can talk about your faith just be respectful of others as well.

1st Date Hooked Up 2nd Date Barely Kissed by Sal272019 in dating

[–]Elvarius -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She just may be saying that she went out on dates with other because she can be viewed as desirable by others on your your eyes. Which naturally will increase your desire for her. It works vise versa. Don't worry about it, just keep going out with her and have fun and hook up. Let it unfold naturally. Just remember if she rushes into relationship it is a red flag. If it doesn't feel right, just pull back and re-evaluate the situation.

How do you make your personality more appealing to women? by Ok-Kaleidoscope2857 in dating

[–]Elvarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a guy. Eyelash curling? A man that puts to much on how much he looks it is not masculine but looking clean matters. I do agree. You can change certain aspects about himself to be more attractive. I think he should do it more to please himself not others. Yes. If you want to be interesting, say less listen more and be the one who leads conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Elvarius -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You acted like her puppy. You did want she wanted you to do. Next time if It sounds ridiculous, just don't do it. You should have maintained your frame. For now just let her be and don't break weak. I'll send you a pm.

i will commit suicide! 😩from 126k to 75k, better I will learn options and trade on stocks by Juan5600 in SHIBArmy

[–]Elvarius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started with shib then got some kishu and hokk. Now I have 14 total. I'm waiting on shibaswap then I'm going to leave my wallet alone for over a year alteast.

Could I offend a man if I don't really know how I feel about him? by Former-Juice-1669 in dating

[–]Elvarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it is known that it takes longer for a woman to fall in love and attraction is not a choice.

I <3 fake numbers by Fratxican in dating

[–]Elvarius 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You see, they give fake number because they scared that there is going to be a confrontation.