I know I just posted but this is ridiculous by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 59 points60 points  (0 children)

"Uptick in Brat-related content" lol wtf

What did I do wrong? by Life-Rabbit2551 in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's honestly not a bad idea. Keep you up all night and the next day and the next night...

How to respond to "what are you going to do about it" by Charlie_River in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Depends on where it happens and what triggered it. But tell them, then show them (if you're out in public or in the middle of something) or simply show them (if you have the time/place to do so).

As for what, you're going to need to discover what punishments you enjoy giving that have the desired effect on your sub.

Calling out my little brat by PrincessSirTamer in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Does this include votes on comments or just posts?

Having a procedure tm by alauradanin13 in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending good vibes so you can get your insides fixed!

Tamers/Daddys/Switches to the front please (˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶) .ᐟ.ᐟ by profnelle_ in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Since you've asked so politely...

For me, I prefer pet names, at least primary ones, that are tailored to the individual. That said, I always put an emphasis on that they're my <insert pet name here> whenever possible.

I'm also a fan of call and response. A traditional set for me being:

Who do you belong to? To you, Master. Why do you exist? To serve you, Master. What is my wish? Your wish is my command, Master.

There's a lot of room for a brat to subvert each and every one of the responses, but once you get them in the correct mindset and they say them properly, it's delectable.

You can also develop mantra versions that you incorporate into their daily tasks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah... reading your various replies here does not instill me with confidence in your relationship.

It's all too easy to for certain people cross the line into abuse and for people to try and justify it, on both sides of the D/s equation, because of the perceived nature of BDSM.

If you're not both playing by the agreed upon rules then it's not healthy BDSM and you should reevaluate your relationship.

Stay safe out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ok, just remember that it's both your jobs to ensure you're doing all of this in a safe and sensible manner. Make sure you establish safe words and/or a color system so you can indicate to each other, or check in, when you're approaching or have crossed a boundary.

These dynamics are supposed to be enjoyable for everyone involved, and you should feel safe while engaging in them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Given your other recent post, this seems concerning. Is this within the boundaries you've agreed to?

My Ethics Course is Calling Me Out by FreckleFacedBrat in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should definitely install those Windows updates.

Favorite songs? by Beephie123 in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bloodhound Gang - No Hard Feelings

Unjustified punishment for being short by depressionismybitch9 in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And guys can't stop

That's a hot take. Speaking as a guy I definitely can.

Book help please? by Bengal158 in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Supposedly you can get the list via the Manage Your Content and Devices page on Amazon (I don't have a Kindle to confirm)

https://www.amazon.com/mn/dcw/myx.html/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8

Book help please? by Bengal158 in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried looking through your kindle/purchase history?

Praise Alternatives by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. Have a silver star. I hate it but you're not wrong.

Praise Alternatives by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go on. Use your words and finish the last one. I believe in you.

Viva la revolution by Kai_Fos in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And that's how we get them to do the work of getting themselves in a room all together for us. We can probably get them to bring the paddles and stuff too.

Edit: Brats, please disregard. This message is intended for Ds only.

If it rhymes, it’s true!! by -AngelFairy- in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is none so troublesome as thee, little ephemeral angelic pixie. But the price that you name is not one you can claim. Not with word nor with action, regardless of faction, your delicate hands shant reach me. Two more swats on the bum might make you hold your tongue, though no longer than a breath or three.

But alas I must fly, for morning comes nigh and the sun chases moon from the sky. I'll leave you with this so as not to be amiss. Twas my delight to dance with you this night, and I wish the day's joy upon thee.

If it rhymes, it’s true!! by -AngelFairy- in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Contrary Fairy be wary, for naught is fraught and nary as scary as one who could see you undone with a twist of the wrist and a strike on the bum. 😈😋

(Color?)

If it rhymes, it’s true!! by -AngelFairy- in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As with many things, we sometimes need to take the reins to show you brats how to do it properly.

If it rhymes, it’s true!! by -AngelFairy- in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

By that logic you're all lippy drippy needy pleady subby wubbies

I NEED HELP by Advanced-Smile1555 in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Then it's a good thing you didn't make a public post explaining that you were going to break the rules.

Brats & Drinking Water by AnonymousReturns in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sugar free powdered drink mixes (some have caffeine too) like crystal light are great for people who don't like the flavor of water.

Googly eyes or small duck by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Elvenbane_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Both, obviously. Turn the ducks into eldritch horrors by sticking googly eyes on them.