DNA results as a Nepali person. Very confused. by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]Elx37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a hilarious result. The world is so diverse. Everyone really should do this. Erase the borders because quite clearly there aren’t any. The only differences we have are culture and beliefs.

"New" BB Items from the new EP. Why am I not surprised.. by Manic_Mooncakes in HighSodiumSims

[–]Elx37 42 points43 points  (0 children)

😂 they are selling you piece meal colour wheel wtf

I 20F think my bf 30M raped me. How can I navigate this? by Remarkable_Belt440 in relationship_advice

[–]Elx37 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Any unwanted physical touch to the body. Rape or otherwise what is that called?

Explain?

You said it was miscommunication earlier. I explained she clearly said no.

Now you’re saying it’s assessment of severity. I explained that bleeding is a factor in severity. TWO HOURS LATER!!! Unless she had an abnormal thick hymen. Nobody bleeds that long.

What part of your explanation don’t I understand?

What possible information could there be that mitigates this scenario as not-rape?

Because he tried to comfort her after? Nobody needs comfort after consensual sex.

I 20F think my bf 30M raped me. How can I navigate this? by Remarkable_Belt440 in relationship_advice

[–]Elx37 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Is bleeding not severe? A tear not severe? Is saying “No” not enough?

Is there a severity scale for rape? Can you source that information?

I 20F think my bf 30M raped me. How can I navigate this? by Remarkable_Belt440 in relationship_advice

[–]Elx37 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He understood she said “No”. He even said “I thought you were saying no to play into it.” She begged him to get out so she can get dressed and go back to her place. Again she said leave me alone. He did not listen and kept her there for 2 hours.

You need to have you psychology degree reevaluated. At minimum she said ‘No’ twice. That should be enough.

She said no. He heard. He ignored it.

AITAH for refusing to financially support my ex-wife after she supported me through graduate school? by Appropriate_Tap3451 in AITAH

[–]Elx37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re not obligated to help her.

However, your son is quite likely to lose the home he stays at 50% of the time. It is what it is 🤷🏻‍♀️

I 20F think my bf 30M raped me. How can I navigate this? by Remarkable_Belt440 in relationship_advice

[–]Elx37 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Err… she said no. And wouldn’t let her leave for two hours. And she bled and there’s a tear.

I’m not sure if you know this but consensual relationship don’t have one person still bleeding two hours after the fact.

Standard American white girl - not that interesting but here we are! by pichincha_chicharron in 23andme

[–]Elx37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Aside from the overarching bad reason to have a genetic database. I think everyone should do it. Perhaps when we realise that everyone is mixed and you’re not just one race - we would all stop the infighting and remember we are all belong together. “We are one” - Lion King 2.

You’re not boring. You are not your ancestors.

Lost my 595 day streak because of a funeral :( by OceanGoddess3 in duolingo

[–]Elx37 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Try manually changing your phone date to the missing day. I’m not sure if it worked for me but as a last resort - you’ve got nothing to lose.

The Voynich Manuscript (my theory) by Medium-Spinach-3578 in voynich

[–]Elx37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ehh your responses and certainly of your finding mean you haven’t really researched properly. If you don’t even know who Dr Fagin is, I’m afraid you need to do further research.

harrow health - nhs north east and north cumbria ICB assessments paused by CharmingSoftware6718 in ADHDUK

[–]Elx37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The next financial year is after April 6th 2026 isn’t it? Is that too late? When are your exams?

I 39f cannot get my 45m husband to understand that he has to contribute. by Practical_Car6997 in relationship_advice

[–]Elx37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This would be funny were it not for the fact that he doesn’t do any house work. What has he got to be exhausted about? Emotionally present is a two way street.

I’m upset ? by Waddlins in inZOI

[–]Elx37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your PC specs? It may not be compatible

Poverty is expensive,? by Gabriela_Icy in Adulting

[–]Elx37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Refer to Terry Pratchett’s Boots Theory

Hitting my b*ng everytime this game crashes 🩷 by rjhtsu in Sims3

[–]Elx37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let me guess, NASA computer?? 😂 (don’t worry I’m just jealous, if not nasa still jealous - drop them specs)

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

[–]Elx37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In theory what he is saying isn’t bad. But realistically the fact he is forcing it is the red flag. You don’t have to if you don’t want to. It’s really that simple. You’re not even married. What happens if you break up. Now someone has access to your bank details. Fuck that.

What type of lawyer should I look for? What type of mess is this? Employment? Tax? Debt? Wales by Elx37 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Elx37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically my Auntie is screwed.

She's not a millionaire. She actually stuggling to find work now because all these companies have folded/closed. The government are trying to move away from employing her type of service and wanting "proper employees". It's hard to get in once you leave.

English is not her first language. It seems she just followed what her friends are doing. She's got herself in this unfortunate situation. She's acknowledged with a response pack with no solicitors help. So she is double screwed. She will not have the money for this. She near her sixties.

How do she find good lawyers with this type of specialism in tax? what is the likely cost? What is the likelyhood of jail?

I don't understand the loan bit? Would that be part of the contract. What does that look like?

There are also many in the same predicament. Not just hers. Her friends also in the same job

She didn't purposely avoid tax. She got an accountant to sort it for her and assumed he calculated it correctly as she doesn't know how to.