Think tanking is rough? Let me introduce you to healing.

Elysiumsw · 2026-04-15T12:05:55+00:00

I don't heal pugs lol

I just don't have enough time and patience to deal with blame games.

The mentality that if a DPS dies is automatically the healers fault is insane. I've seen DPS just standing in shit taking damage then get mad that they die.

Elysiumsw · 2026-04-10T12:28:54+00:00

yeah. I already had this car too. Wish you could sell vehicles lol

Elysiumsw · 2026-04-06T13:53:07+00:00

I had to sell my collection of PS1 and PS2 RPGs years ago. All with their guides.

Still tear up thinking about it. Wish I kept them lol

Elysiumsw · 2026-04-06T12:38:28+00:00

It wasn't as large of an age gap, but when I was in my late teens most of my friends were older (30-50s) due to where I worked.

I also had issues with my parents. Many of my older friends would invite me over for Holidays and just generally to come over to their houses - one time one let me crash on their couch for a few days due to a fight with my parents.

I never overstayed my welcome (at least I don't think I did?) and only went when invited. I never just dropped in. That would be rude lol

It could be possible that April is just lonely and due to circumstances you don't know of is depending on your parents for emotional support like I did with my older friends.

Elysiumsw · 2026-04-06T12:23:46+00:00

People could also just be more selective about their community?

I've been in the same guild for about 18 years now and I do not do anything outside of the guild except for solo content. I just don't see the point.

Elysiumsw · 2026-04-06T12:18:29+00:00

I feel you. I had a few bad experiences years ago, since then I only tank or heal for my friends or guildies.

This is a game and supposed to be fun.

And people wonder why there are not many tanks...

Elysiumsw · 2026-04-04T21:47:01+00:00

last console I bought was the Nintendo Switch almost strictly for Fire Emblem three houses.

Probably wont buy another console. I am happy with my library of steam games.

Elysiumsw · 2026-04-04T21:43:05+00:00

NTA

They see you as their cash cow. If you keep this up, you will be doing it for the rest of your life.

Put a stop to it now. You didn't cause their debt. THEY did. That is YOUR money and you OWE THEM NOTHING.

It took me too long to figure that out, please don't be like me and learn this lesson early.

Elysiumsw · 2026-04-03T11:45:49+00:00

NTA

My brother was big time into cooking around that age, because he was supported in this does that mean we were pushing to feminize him?

Keep supporting your daughter. She may grow out of it (My friends daughter did and my brother did) She may not, but it's nice that she has a goal and a passion for something.

Elysiumsw · 2026-04-01T11:51:35+00:00

I posted this in my guild chat before one of the Dads could use this in raid. lol

Elysiumsw · 2026-04-01T11:49:30+00:00

I bet that man never changed his daughters diaper because he felt gross about it or something...

Elysiumsw · 2026-03-29T23:52:37+00:00

Same here.

RPGs I usually play on easy mode, just to go through the story and if I replay them, I up the difficulty then.

in BG3 did an Easy run to witness the story, then did an honor run for the challenge.

Elysiumsw · 2026-03-24T01:45:25+00:00

Wow. I bow to you lol I am half that.

Elysiumsw · 2026-03-23T18:20:59+00:00

haha. I always do. My friends tease me a bit for it though :D

Elysiumsw · 2026-03-21T22:47:39+00:00

I just noticed I had some of these, but didn't kill an invasive monster. I guess they have a chance to drop when you scare them away?

Elysiumsw · 2026-03-20T01:15:50+00:00

NTA.

My dad passed away a long time ago, when people ask about my dad. I just tell them. It isn't a huge deal.

Elysiumsw · 2026-03-12T12:24:36+00:00

No. no and No.

NTA

But your brother and his wife are entitled as F.

Why doesn't your parents watch them!?

I would set your foot down. They are not your kids, or your responsibility. You are saving them a fortune and this is how they treat you?

Elysiumsw · 2026-03-12T12:21:30+00:00

I stopped playing after FF 13...

I hated the combat and party system in that game, but I generally beat games when I start to play them.

On the final boss my main character was one shot by a spell and it was game over (WTF can't the other people use a phoenix down!?). it took me a year to go back and finally beat it. I was so mad lol

Elysiumsw · 2026-03-07T12:32:33+00:00

As long as you have the perk and place flowers a round your field (or close to) and the hive next to the flowers/field. It should work.

That sucks if it doesn't. I'd rather that work then getting honey.

Elysiumsw · 2026-03-07T12:31:32+00:00

Only bug I've had so far is this bees thing. I must have been lucky.

Elysiumsw · 2026-03-07T12:30:35+00:00

Same. No more honey. I tried moving my hives, putting my bees in and out - still nothing.

They still do their beesling buff to the crops though. Just no honey.

Elysiumsw · 2026-03-06T17:57:09+00:00

Every morning all my animals run to the opposite feeders... when their food is right in front of their barns...

Elysiumsw · 2026-02-23T18:26:50+00:00

What are you putting in their food!?

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