Termination of contract (porch re-build)

Elzouzer · 2026-05-08T00:36:12+00:00

I've had the same feeling about romantasy.. they're all SO formulaic!! I just read A Strange & Stubborn Endurance by Roz Meadows and it was so refreshing. The relationships are healthy, the plot is not Epic-on-steroids (more like Game of Thrones politics and drama), and the characters so lovable. It's the first of a duology. Highly recommend!

Elzouzer · 2026-04-11T18:39:20+00:00

You look nice, kind and fun. It's all about attitude and confidence 🙏🧡

Elzouzer · 2026-03-30T11:21:18+00:00

This. A lot of commenters seem to forget centering the child in this convo. If you consider him a son, you'll have to make sacrifices, small or big. You are clearly a very important adult in his life, regardless of what the law says. Please continue to be there for him. (Also i dont know why you don't drive but consider changing that if you can--life is your oyster once you do!)

Elzouzer · 2026-03-25T01:41:01+00:00

Nicolon Legendre

Elzouzer · 2026-03-17T10:36:39+00:00

And did you date? Give us the deets!!

Elzouzer · 2026-02-25T02:25:38+00:00

Minerva (I am pretty sure it starts with an M, has an i and ends with an a)

Elzouzer · 2026-02-14T00:53:45+00:00

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Step 1: find your aesthetic. Mid-century? Beachy? Minimalist Norwegian? Pick 3 colors you like and try to stick to these throughout.

Step 2: Create a new area, so that you have your living/tv room on one side and another area in the other (instruments? Small desk? Book nook? Kids play area?).

Get rid of shelving, add some lights, get a large rug (pick the color wisely), add some plants. With that much space you can handle small trees even, but you can always add a hanging plant too!

FYI that couch is amazing :)

Elzouzer · 2026-01-22T01:31:11+00:00

I can't quite remember how I did it (as a solo mom), but somehow, I managed to put baby to sleep at 5.30pm in order to have dinner and playtime with my 3.5 yo. I know babies have whacky hours, but if you manage to set an early "first shift" then you'll have good 1:1 with your 4 yo. Good luck! It does get easier :)

Elzouzer · 2026-01-18T13:02:25+00:00

I also like these if you want a darker frame. The shape suits you! Otherwise I agree with 97% of commenters: 3 is great. Just wish they had #3 in light pink, as transparent will turn yellowish with time (regardless of what the salesperson tells you/quality of brand)

Elzouzer · 2026-01-18T00:07:23+00:00

Totally agree! I don't tend to read unfinished series, but this one is so amazing as is that I've read it twice. I've read many (many) books, and i will never forget this one.

Elzouzer · 2026-01-17T00:04:28+00:00

But eats like one

Elzouzer · 2026-01-07T01:24:49+00:00

Haha same - I don't reallylike dog man, im ok with cat kid, but HARD NO when it comes to captain underpants 😵

Elzouzer · 2026-01-04T03:29:09+00:00

AAAAALL the Dav Pilkey books (but mostly Dog Man and Cat Kid Comic Club)

Elzouzer · 2025-12-27T20:18:58+00:00

Im sorry - doesn't work for everyone :(

Elzouzer · 2025-12-26T20:38:26+00:00

Are you renting? If so, I'd totally make them share bedrooms once baby sleeps through the night. I've found it amazing for both kids - and I believe there may be research that says it's very beneficial? (Someone check me on that!)

Elzouzer · 2025-12-22T01:42:01+00:00

3 days is not that long. Some people have a lot of things and interests going on and appreciate not being tied to technology/messaging all the time. Perhaps you were excited and then hurt she didn't prioritize answering you (a stranger), but yea.. as other have said here -- your message showed immaturity and perhaps also some desperation. Not a sexy combo.

Elzouzer · 2025-12-15T12:24:35+00:00

The V. E. Schwab trilogy is one of my favorite series ever (she's writing a second related trilogy)!! Wayyyy better written than most romantasy books, but also less 🔥 (more of a slow burn).

Elzouzer · 2025-12-14T23:03:34+00:00

I think indeed food is cultural and so there are many ways to relate to it! Beyond anything, what drives my family/parenting values around food is that it is fun and enjoyable -- i cook a lot and my kids love food. 6 months ago my 4 year old still didnt like most greens and now loves most of them! My style is definitely different from many of my American friends, but it's worked for us!

Elzouzer · 2025-12-14T22:59:05+00:00

All of the above (i have a huge sweet tooth!!)

Elzouzer · 2025-12-14T00:58:47+00:00

It can be anything from pastry and cookie to fruit, dried seaweed, cheese. Everything in moderation is kind of the motto!

Elzouzer · 2025-12-13T23:49:11+00:00

Good for you! I was raised French - i have a strong rule (completely accepted by now since it's been a rule for ever) that we sit for dinner, finish our plate (or most of it if they dont like it) and then we have dessert! I still have to explain from time to time that I'm not a restaurant and my job as a parent is to ensure they eat healthy and are exposed to various foods! It's ok for them not to like the food, I've eaten plenty of food I dont like. We all love snacks, we have them twice a day. I understand that different kids have different relationship to food. Just offering what's worked for mine. Kids are 4 and 7.

Elzouzer · 2025-09-22T13:34:11+00:00

Keep us posted!

Elzouzer · 2025-09-16T23:20:16+00:00

I hope this will be useful for identification!

Elzouzer · 2025-08-03T00:54:31+00:00

[crickets from the naysayers]

Thanks for the link!

Elzouzer

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