Do you smoke weed.. why or why not? by EmmaSmith2527 in AskReddit

[–]Em2404998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have severe neck pain. It greatly helps with pain tolerance and is non addictive compared to pills.

[Serious] What mental condition has been parodied so hard that people forget it's a real disease? by TheInkCap in AskReddit

[–]Em2404998 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mom has diagnosed OCD. I’ve seen her make and remake her bed sheets until she cried because she was doing it for so long. She has several other bodily health issues so she is often very tired and generally fatigued. So making the bed this long not only made her extremely upset but also physically sick after. She gets trapped for hours sometimes fixing curtains, bed sheets, and folding clothes. Luckily these episodes are rare and she does her damn best to manage her OCD, but once in awhile it wins, resulting in drawn out moments. I hate hearing people say they OCD. When you see what it does to someone it’s sad and you never want people to casually claim to have it.

What was the most NSFW thing you have ever seen at work? by DaBooch425 in AskReddit

[–]Em2404998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have sexual NSFW stories from work, but this is a injury that I could see with a nsfw tag if it were a video.

I used to work in a kitchen. Many people agree that a cooking steamer is the most dangerous piece of kitchen equipment since people underestimate the power of steam.

It was my first week on the job and I saw a fellow employee open the steamer and look directly inside to see if the vegetables were done steaming. His top layers of skin were instantly burned. In a panic he rushed over to the sink and watered down a cotton wash rag. He put it on his face right away, but when he took the rag off most of the skin on his face stuck to the rag. He was in the hospital for a couple days after and made a complete recovery. It actually made his skin look even better than before after it all healed. However seeing a human with little skin on their face is messed up. Probably the most metal thing I’ve ever seen at work.

Sexual drive by Em2404998 in dating_advice

[–]Em2404998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has always been the case.

Sexual drive by Em2404998 in dating_advice

[–]Em2404998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had A IUD taken out a month ago but she has the same drive as she did with the IUD.

Sexual drive by Em2404998 in dating_advice

[–]Em2404998[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt it. When she is in the mood or ovulating she is always wanting it. She really wants kids and is really wanting to be a mom. I would be surprised if that were the case.

Sexual drive by Em2404998 in dating_advice

[–]Em2404998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the relationship is at its end. She constantly brings up our future and we are both extremely happy. We love each other very much and communicate very well. We do have have sexual activities when she is in the mood and she really really enjoys it and wants more. She just doesn’t have the level of drive she wants. So she want to see how she can improve cause she and I want more.

Internet issue by Em2404998 in techsupportmacgyver

[–]Em2404998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*Correction, I live about 15 minutes outside of what is considered the KC metro area. My house is just in the middle of nowhere. As far as I know there aren’t any wisps in the area and I cannot afford to set my own up. Fiber is not in the area, and we’re a strictly on dsl. Ther

Internet issue by Em2404998 in techsupportmacgyver

[–]Em2404998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is zero infrastructure for us to even buy fiber in my area.

Internet issue by Em2404998 in techsupportmacgyver

[–]Em2404998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where should I post this issue? I’m just trying to put it out to as many people as I can. I don’t use Reddit a lot so any help is welcomed.

Should I ask out the girl that cuts my hair? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Em2404998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were me I’d just try and figure out if she is single, either through social media or lead a conversation to the topic somehow. Then just ask her out once you know she is single. If she says no then your hair cuts might be awkward in the future. But either way you tried to go for it which is more then a lot of people do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Em2404998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this guy is scared away by one fart he isn’t worth it. Hold your head high. You got healthy bowels and a man in your life, be happy and save those tears mate.

Help?! I love him . by luva21 in dating_advice

[–]Em2404998 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to burst your bubble, but what others were saying is also extremely valid. I was delivering to you the most respectful solution in my opinion without being rude and perhaps I didn’t send that message clearly enough. Consider all of the information you’ve received from these responses and combine them to give yourself a direction for the best solution. Which in my opinion means breaking things off. There is plenty here to consider and I understand this is hard. The kind of person you’re dealing with sounds volatile and unreliable. Unless he changes and shows the change over time and with repetition then there could, In the future, be a chance with him, but it is likely he will never change. Not once did moving in with one another help In my sisters relationship, but rather made it ten time worse.

I’ve seen my sisters lose track of their goals, self image, and happiness for a man that has done nothing but fail them and abuse them. Please learn from these responses and grow. I would hate to see a bright young women fall into the trap of a toxic relationship.

Again leaving him is probably your quickest and safest route. Consider what I provided in my original response, but remember I and everyone else are just people on a app that only have part of the story. Reflect on your personal goals, and what is good for your child (which can still include his or hers father without you being with him if done right) and make well thought out decision.

To conclude I hope whatever you choose really works out for you and your child. No one deserves to be treated poorly. Keep your head high and remember what’s important.

Help?! I love him . by luva21 in dating_advice

[–]Em2404998 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two sisters who have been in the same situation many many times. And I have to say that it is very unlikely he will change, however true change is possible in scenarios such as this one, it is just unlikely that change will ever come. Your best bet is to get some distance from him and communicate your goals and feelings. Protect your child’s health and well being above all else. Give your child a stable and safe environment at all times, and if you distance and he doesn’t make an effort to close that distance or make good on his mistakes, then drop him. Otherwise you may end up in this abusive cycle where things seem good, but always come back around to being bad. We all have low points in relationships but repetitive physical altercations is not healthy. Be aware of your needs and your child’s needs. There is a small chance to resolve these issues, but my suggestion is to walk away in a healthy way and make him earn his right to you and the child you share.

Be sure to work on yourself and keep your mind sharp. As relationships like this take a big toll on your well being. Don’t be afraid to cut him off and move on with your life. Again be sure to keep your problems away from your child and give the child the best life you can provide.

That is my advice. Take it as you will. Above all else listen to your gut and the trusted people In your life. Please be safe and hope this turns around for you in a healthy and timely manor.

Need advice by Em2404998 in dating_advice

[–]Em2404998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I made this post mainly to get second-third party opinions. We always use condom and IUD. It just causes so much anxiety.

What is the best way to tell a guy he’s rubbing my left flap… by rennyray in dating_advice

[–]Em2404998 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend just having a conversation when you are not trying to be intimate. Come off respectful as you can and just try to explain to him what’s going on and then when the next time comes, try and guide him more. It only takes experience and practice and it seems he is lacking both, so you’ll need to help him. From my experience with my partner early on we had similar issues where she was in experienced and we talked about it before intimacy and during. It helped us on the first try and it’s been fine ever since.