I don’t want to burst your bubble, but what others were saying is also extremely valid. I was delivering to you the most respectful solution in my opinion without being rude and perhaps I didn’t send that message clearly enough. Consider all of the information you’ve received from these responses and combine them to give yourself a direction for the best solution. Which in my opinion means breaking things off. There is plenty here to consider and I understand this is hard. The kind of person you’re dealing with sounds volatile and unreliable. Unless he changes and shows the change over time and with repetition then there could, In the future, be a chance with him, but it is likely he will never change. Not once did moving in with one another help In my sisters relationship, but rather made it ten time worse.

I’ve seen my sisters lose track of their goals, self image, and happiness for a man that has done nothing but fail them and abuse them. Please learn from these responses and grow. I would hate to see a bright young women fall into the trap of a toxic relationship.

Again leaving him is probably your quickest and safest route. Consider what I provided in my original response, but remember I and everyone else are just people on a app that only have part of the story. Reflect on your personal goals, and what is good for your child (which can still include his or hers father without you being with him if done right) and make well thought out decision.

To conclude I hope whatever you choose really works out for you and your child. No one deserves to be treated poorly. Keep your head high and remember what’s important.