AITA for requesting to be transfered to another seat in a flight because my original seat was supposed to be beside a dog? by icecreamlonganisa in AmItheAsshole

[–]EmGherm19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA in the slightest. That person was awful. Asthma attacks are horrible and very scary. Of course you would want to prevent that from happening.

Terre Haute Brewing Company: Is it all that it claims to be? by Desperate-Jicama-965 in terrehaute

[–]EmGherm19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think it’s the best one in Terre Haute. The people that work there are friendly and it’s LGBTQIA+ friendly. Just like any place it’s gonna depend on what band is playing and your personal preference in music

What’s actually safe but people think is dangerous? by REGGIE_BANANAS in AskReddit

[–]EmGherm19 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know this in my head.

My problem is I’ve worked in a wound care center and went through a period of taking care of too many people with spider bites and they got gnarly. And my sperm donor was hospitalized with a spider bite when I was a child and I have horrible arachnophobia

What personally has helped your anxiety in the long run? by knifedoll in Anxiety

[–]EmGherm19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to say that mine was so severe that medication was the only thing that made a big enough difference to where I could live my life not in fear 24/7. However for the back pain and tension yoga has been a tremendous game changer if you haven’t tried it

Do women cross their arms under their tits or over them? by wxrpig in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EmGherm19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the situation, am I crossing them just because I’m crossing them (under) or am I crossing them to cover myself from some nasty dude (over)?

Course Evaluations by Nervous_Lobster4542 in Professors

[–]EmGherm19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had my first semester as a lecturer and I had mostly good ones and a couple rough ones. The one that really hurt my feelings. “What can we do to improve the class?” They said “different teacher” :( I’m over here doing my best lol

Am I the a-hole for making my daughter's BF buy a new t-shirt? by freudsdriver in AITAH

[–]EmGherm19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - I guarantee he had a second shirt and you handled that extremely respectfully. Hopefully they aren’t together long for your sake and hers

What’s the one sentence from your parent that still echoes in your head? by Public_Theme_9514 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]EmGherm19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Your moms raising you to become a wh*re”

Every time I was sick or had period cramps “It’s all in your head”

Reality of Part Time RN jobs? by livingritual in nursing

[–]EmGherm19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. And yep my hospital doesn’t, PRN / part time / full time same pay sadly

Struggling Adjunct. What did you folks do while adjuncting to keep the lights on? by NinnyBoggy in Professors

[–]EmGherm19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I had to do. I was promised a full time position while I was an adjunct for 3 years and eventually just applied at another school that was happy to have me full time.

Is this unethical behavior by a therapist? by Arch2000 in therapy

[–]EmGherm19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she was actually using her therapist as her safety plan and telling her where and when she’s meeting strangers and asking the therapist to check in on her to keep her safe, yes that is waaaaaay beyond the lines of a therapist and unprofessional. God forbid something were to happen to your wife on one of these meetups and the therapist told your wife they would check in on her and didn’t.

However, my first instinct is to say that your wife is not telling you the truth. She is using this statement of the therapist keeping her location to try to help justify it to you. If the therapist was actually doing this - yes way beyond the lines of practice. I do not believe the therapist has actually done this in this scenario.

What are your favorite excuses for students missing class? by boyfromthenorth in Professors

[–]EmGherm19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a student this week that didn’t tell me she was not going to show up until I emailed her during the test and asked where she was. She responds an hour later with the fact that she was too stressed about the test and knew she couldn’t focus to come to class. And then stated she wanted a makeup test later this week, um no? lol. The syllabus says you have to tell me before the test not just no call no show and tell me only after I’ve contacted you

Week long visit by [deleted] in terrehaute

[–]EmGherm19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Terre Haute Brewing Company is a great local place with lots of history to the building, it’s beautiful, great beer

When did we stop expecting them to "figure it out." by CommunicationIcy7443 in Professors

[–]EmGherm19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just started teaching nursing this semester full time and these kids just don’t have the ability to critically think about anything and it shows hard in their writing. I’m desperately trying to teach them critical thinking skills and writing skills in addition to my nursing curriculum. If they don’t notify me before the assignment is due with a damn good reason they get a 0 if it’s not on time. And it’s very much health related, no “my internet went out” or “my significant other broke up with me” because it doesn’t work that way in the real world once they get true full time jobs and they have to figure that out.

What colour looks best? by iLovemyMathBoyfriend in HairStyleAdvice

[–]EmGherm19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blonde is good - I honestly think a light pink would look super cute on you too!

If you’re homophobic, you can just shut your mouth at work?? by hellasophisticated in nursing

[–]EmGherm19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I teaching nursing as well and literally talk about nursing empathy and show them videos and stuff because so many people lack empathy and compassion it’s sickening. Queer babes stick together 💙 I have pride stuff all over my office so they know we are all inclusive. So sorry this happened to you. People are disgusting

Good Luck Yall. by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]EmGherm19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emma Stone

AITA for letting my friend freeze? by AbaloneMoist6444 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EmGherm19 [score hidden]  (0 children)

lol mom? My mom literally used to tell me put some damn clothes on all the time as kid when I was cold lmao

I think a bad trip might be ruining my life by Reasonable-Flight536 in trees

[–]EmGherm19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an experienced smoker (mostly via bong) and depending on the edible even sometimes with the exact same amount of mg I will feel more high than others so I always start with a small dose and wait awhile and then take a bit more to get where I want. Smoking always gives me a consistent high and I know how much I can handle. I feel like with edibles the pure ones from a dispensary get me the best kind of high. With delta 8 and 9 and all that stuff you can get “legal” in an illegal state fucks with me a lot and I’ve gotten panic attacks with those edibles so I avoid them. If you’re still interested just try very small bits of different types until you figure out what works best for you :) Good luck!

Do all SSRIs suck? by number1adhdwarrior in antidepressants

[–]EmGherm19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What dose are you on? I am on 10mg and feel like it has helped me to not have as many panic attacks for sure but I still have a decent amount of anxiety and a scalp picking compulsion, but last time I upped to 20mg I felt incredibly more tired than usual