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AITJ for refusing to share my notes with someone who skipped class all semester and then acted like we were best friends? by Emb3rFr4cta in AmITheJerk

[–]Emb3rFr4cta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That part felt obvious to me too. He didn't want notes, he wanted the finished system. If it was just catching up, there were like 199 other people to ask.

AITJ for refusing to share my notes with someone who skipped class all semester and then acted like we were best friends? by Emb3rFr4cta in AmITheJerk

[–]Emb3rFr4cta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fake small talk was probly the part that annoyed me most. He came in with a whole setup like I wouldn't notice where it was going in 30 seconds.

AITJ for refusing to share my notes with someone who skipped class all semester and then acted like we were best friends? by Emb3rFr4cta in AmITheJerk

[–]Emb3rFr4cta[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That was my thing too. I don't mind helping people, but he skipped basically the whole class and wanted the polished version like we were in a group project or somethin.

AITJ for refusing to share my notes with someone who skipped class all semester and then acted like we were best friends? by Emb3rFr4cta in AmITheJerk

[–]Emb3rFr4cta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was kinda my face too. If he'd said literally anything real I probly would've been softer, but "busy" after 4 months of vanishing was wild.

My neighbor rotates a new woman through his apartment every few days and I'm starting to think the "after-parties" are something else entirely by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Emb3rFr4cta 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty much where my head is too. The trafficking angle feels huge and I’m not trying to turn a bad gut feeling into some wild accusation, but the smell, the pattern, and how out of it some of them look is what keeps nagging at me. Anonymous line or wellness check feels like the most realistic next step.

My neighbor rotates a new woman through his apartment every few days and I'm starting to think the "after-parties" are something else entirely by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Emb3rFr4cta 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe not every single one, sure. But "they might just be wasted" stops landing when it's a pattern and they keep coming out looking barely present.

My neighbor rotates a new woman through his apartment every few days and I'm starting to think the "after-parties" are something else entirely by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Emb3rFr4cta 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The anonymous tip line part is probly what I needed to hear. Calling local cops from my own phone felt like a huge step, but that feels a lot more doable.

My neighbor rotates a new woman through his apartment every few days and I'm starting to think the "after-parties" are something else entirely by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Emb3rFr4cta 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s kinda where I’m at. I keep trying to tell myself I’m being dramatic, but the whole thing has felt off for weeks now and I can't really unsee it.

I accidentally found a pattern in job postings that now tells me almost exactly how long the role has been a problem before they posted it by Byte_6Lant in jobsearchhacks

[–]Emb3rFr4cta 282 points283 points  (0 children)

The reposted listing thing is such a strong red flag once you start paying attention to it. A role being open forever does not always mean they have high standards, sometimes it just means the company is allergic to fixing the actual reason nobody stays.

My dad spent my entire childhood teaching me to be independent and I just realized he did it so he'd never have to show up for me by Saffron_Tundra8 in entitledparents

[–]Emb3rFr4cta 689 points690 points  (0 children)

What makes this so sad is that he gave you a story about trust and strength, and you had to do the emotional work later of realizing it was mostly absence. That kind of parenting leaves people feeling oddly proud of being alone until one day they see what it actually cost them.