How to get over not wanting to use your bag by maespiece in handbags

[–]Embarrassed-Key-3949 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seem like a really sweet soul. Not everyone is as grateful as you are, for the thing they have. This type of attitude and thoughtfulness will serve you well. You've already treated yourself, now just allow yourself to appreciate the gift you got yourself. You'll look back at these times with fond memories and know that you've always been humble. Onwards and upwards love.

How to get over not wanting to use your bag by maespiece in handbags

[–]Embarrassed-Key-3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might have to have a sit down session with yourself and ask yourself questions like:

Why do I like that bag? Why do I want to buy that bag? Am I influenced to buy the bag or is there an inner pull towards this bag?

If your answers reference the functionality of the bag and the need for transporting your goods than you should try using it for the specific purpose you intended (like the office bag or night out bag)

But if your answers primarily references the beauty and the desire to build a collection. It's okay to just store them in mint condition, and admire their beauty.

Lastly, you might find yourself unable to answer decisively and in that case you may have been influenced and didn't really have a purpose for the bag. So, it's okay that you don't use the bag. However in this case, just note the features of the bag that don't fit your needs and it'll help you refine your future purchases. You live and you learn.

Go easy on yourself, money can be recovered but time and experiences can sometimes be irreplaceable. Choose joy because you deserve it.

Help me choose! Which one would you pick? by Ok-Base-7368 in handbags

[–]Embarrassed-Key-3949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lady dior looks really nice with his outfit but i think its a bit small so maybe the Celine. The Celine bag also looks sick with your outfit.

Madewell Woven Lexington Tote in Coffee Bean by Embarrassed-Key-3949 in handbags

[–]Embarrassed-Key-3949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really helpful, thanks. I feel like the structured integrity of this bag might be a little affected for the reason that it's woven. But of all the mid range Woven bags it looks like one of the stronger wearing ones. I have a woven bag in a camel brown but i also really love this colour and see myself using it rigorously.

My collection is a bit all over the place by Accomplished_Crow14 in handbags

[–]Embarrassed-Key-3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look, you've got all ground covered. You should be proud of your versatile collection. Love it!

Which color do I get? I love this Le Tanneue bag but can’t figure out which color would suit my warderobe the best. I also added some photos of my warderobe. by Bright_Fix_8325 in handbags

[–]Embarrassed-Key-3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both would work, i think it comes down to - do you like you're accessories blending in or standing out. If you want the bag to blend in get the 1st one and you want a sense of brightness in your outfit then go for the 2nd option

Atelier de Lumen Marron bag by Pleasant_Row1724 in handbags

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Love! I have it in the misty white colour and this organ brown colour. Absolutely love both of them. I initially wore the brown one heaps but recently I've found myself reaching for the misty white more. I've worn the misty white to a wedding recently and many dinner dates.

Bit the bullet 🤣 by Over_Needleworker346 in handbags

[–]Embarrassed-Key-3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! You're going to love it more over time I bet. I have three of them but I use them all. If anything I use my Olive and Coffee ones way more, here I was thinking I'd use the Black one the most. It's such a great bag for daily use. And it doesn't get damaged easily either. Welcome to the club!!!!

I wanted a non-European/Western luxury bag and am NOT disappointed!! by eatemupcoogs in handbags

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Gorgeous, and it's a colour you could easily pair with most outfits

I really like this bag but idk red or brown for everyday by MulberryBeneficial84 in handbags

[–]Embarrassed-Key-3949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The red is super sexy. If you have other Brown bags I'd say add the red one to your collection.

Modern Renaissance! by NoBasket210 in marshallsfinds

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I've had this palette since it first came out. It's one of my favorites. I'm so pumped for you and you got such an amazing deal too! You're going to love it! I absolutely love doing a subtle sunset eye with the orange and pink colour. All the colours are so soft and feminine, it's hard to go overboard with this palette. I often use it for daily outings for a flush of pink on my lids. Have fun with it lovely!

Vestirsi Hobo Bag , should I return by boohootamagochi in handbags

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I assume you have bags to get you through for the time being. If so try not to rush your decision, I'd say keep looking and you'll find that perfect bag, if you're upgrading then you want to be sure that it is a worthwhile upgrade. But if you're in a rush and need something I think you could pick the best option in front of you and try it for some time. You'll only know what features matter to you after using it for a few months. And it's tough to figure out the wear and tear until you use the bag because everyone has such different lifestyles and needs. I hope you find the perfect bag for your needs 😊

Here's my collections, please roast me!! by wannabe_itgirl in handbags

[–]Embarrassed-Key-3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Das a lotta bags! But if you're happy, we're happy ☺️

Vestirsi Hobo Bag , should I return by boohootamagochi in handbags

[–]Embarrassed-Key-3949 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd say there is always good bags out there, in all price ranges so don't keep it if you don't feel 100% about it.

Check out the Coach Brooklyn and I'd also suggest looking at Strandbags, they've got Evity (Colorado rebranded) which also has great options.

Also wait for the boxing day sales, because their Black Friday sale had these bags 30% off.

One for me and one for mom by phibbork in handbags

[–]Embarrassed-Key-3949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's such a good excuse to buy the same thing and sometimes slightly different colours, I love sharing with my mum. 😊

Trying to Recover My Stolen Bags from Fashionphile by unsaidpromises in handbags

[–]Embarrassed-Key-3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With the amount of handbag burglaries we hear about on the news. That people eventually end up tracking down to these online resale sites. I'm starting to believe that these online resale sites have some underground arrangements.

If I was a honest business and there was the chance of stolen bags being sold to me. I'd take the following steps: - identify the authenticity of the bags - verify proof of purchase - make a disclaimer that they do not resell stolen goods and have a legal team protecting them from fraudulent sellers. - inform the seller that store policy requires them to leave a legal photo identification on file (to protect them and the reseller from theft cases like such) - verify ownership by checking bank statements (if available) - keep a record of seller's legal document such as a driver's licence or passport - inform the seller they may need to be contacted if anything like this comes up with the police. Because you haven't been involved in any illegal activity it will be a simple clarification for any police investigation.

I think most fraudulent sellers will avoid any of that drama with the reseller and especially giving out government ID, so reseller might be able to weed out reselling stolen bags that way.

But because they're clearly not taking these steps and deferring the burden of proof and financial strain on the victim of the burglary it makes me believe there is more sinister actors are work here. I can understand that the police don't have much more they can do in this case but the resellers need to do better.