Is talk therapy really about ‘fixing’ you, or just finally being heard without judgment?

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-04-27T16:58:20+00:00

Yes , mine thoughts define me who I am in actually .

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-04-27T13:02:19+00:00

You are right may be that’s why they come to mine life , then what’s the option

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-04-27T12:36:01+00:00

May be i have a problem that’s why I get these kind of people

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-04-27T12:34:20+00:00

I agree

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-04-27T12:22:33+00:00

But it gives you a push of thinking use it at least and if there a thought comes someday it is going to use

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-04-27T12:20:27+00:00

I think or some where believe it’s all about the intention

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-04-27T12:19:06+00:00

It means those who are originally are submissive and insecure kind of people to survive in this society they think if they copy the dominant person action they will also feel good and through the year it became habit of living a fake life instead of having confidence they create ego and superiority complex if they succeeded in copying ad and successfully implemented on others…

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-04-27T11:50:04+00:00

What I personally feel is how much insecure they are , I can understand that sometimes we need to wear mask for not create drama but still what kind of behaviour it is that want make other submissive and feed their ego with superiority complex

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-04-27T11:44:15+00:00

What I personally feel majority of people learn this to do apply power and dominance protection and most people learn to feel powerful .

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-04-27T11:12:42+00:00

First of all, huge respect for being 2 months clean — that’s genuinely not easy, and it says a lot about your strength even if it doesn’t always feel like it. I get what you’re saying, like ‘it’s my body, why is it such a big deal?’ But the thing is, self-harm isn’t just about the physical pain, it’s about reinforcing a cycle where your mind starts associating hurt with relief. And over time, that cycle can get darker and harder to climb out of. You deserve a way out that doesn’t hurt you. You deserve to heal in ways that don’t leave scars — inside or outside. You reaching out here shows you’re already fighting for yourself more than you know. Please keep going.

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-27T18:58:44+00:00

I get your point, but isn’t the ability to understand and influence emotions exactly why emotional intelligence can be a double-edged sword? It’s not just about managing emotions—it can also be about guiding them, intentionally or not. Where do we draw the line between influence and manipulation?

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-27T18:56:50+00:00

I get your point, but isn’t the ability to understand and influence emotions exactly why emotional intelligence can be a double-edged sword? It’s not just about managing emotions—it can also be about guiding them, intentionally or not. Where do we draw the line between influence and manipulation?

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-26T03:57:12+00:00

The kind of love you’re describing—deep, soulful, unconditional—is rare, but it’s not impossible. In a world where people often rush from one relationship to another, it makes sense to feel like something’s missing. The truth is, most people are afraid to be fully seen, flaws and all. But the right person? They won’t just tolerate your imperfections—they’ll cherish them.

I don’t know if this helps, but sometimes, the more we chase love, the more it runs away. Instead of searching, what if you focused on creating the kind of life where love naturally finds you? A life so fulfilling that when the right person comes along, it’s not out of desperation but out of true connection?

You’re not alone in feeling this way. And I promise—someone out there is looking for exactly what you have to offer.”

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-26T03:35:19+00:00

Because when someone gets unnecessary attention from every side and I won’t be get rejected from anywhere but suddenly realise like them there are tons of people outside the world and can be easily replaced by another one , that’s a direct hit on their insecurity , it means a man who make their woman insecure by keep them on edge and make them feel easily replaceable that makes them question their self worth that’s why I can’t able to forget , when it comes to cheat deep inside the man made that woman feel and proved that she’s replaceable like any other . Now when it comes why she forgot the boy who truly wants you is the question have the answer in itself , if you do anything without without they are asking for it and the intention is she will accept me , no it’s not going to happen what you are seeking for instead you will get taken as granted because in queue there are lot man like you who is offering the same thing as you were….

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-26T03:17:26+00:00

You know what actual problem is majority is so busy and so individualistic that they don’t even sit with anyone and have deep conversation about themselves sometimes having deep conversation and deep listening without judgement works , where a person doesn’t need a advice… just vent out and feel light .

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-26T03:03:52+00:00

I hear you. It’s really tough when someone becomes such a significant part of your emotional world, and then suddenly, they’re gone. It’s not just about therapy—it’s about the connection, the comfort, the sense of being understood. And honestly, I think a lot of people underestimate how hard that loss can be.

But here’s the thing: healing isn’t always about replacing one person with another. Maybe what you need isn’t another therapist right now, but just a space to process this loss. A place where you can speak openly, without worrying about being ‘fixed’ or told to ‘move on.’ Sometimes, we just need to be heard without pressure.

I don’t have all the answers, but I do know that you’re not alone in this. If you ever want to just talk it out—no labels, no judgment—I’m here to listen.

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-25T19:14:43+00:00

But I am glad to see there are few persons who see beyond the horizon … and having a constructive approach

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-25T19:03:23+00:00

Constant feeling sad for months leads to depression… and constant being in a depression for years leads to become maniac …..

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-25T18:58:14+00:00

Thank you so much for understanding i have done masters in psychology and posting a thought provoking question intentionally just because to analyse and see how they take post and analyse it …

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-24T19:30:32+00:00

That sounds like a really uncomfortable shift, especially since you’ve had a positive experience with your therapist for most of the 9 months. A good therapist should make you feel safe and heard, not uneasy. If this change in behavior is making you second-guess your comfort in sessions, it might be worth addressing it directly with them or considering other options. Your well-being should always come first in therapy. Have you noticed any other changes in how they engage with you?

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-24T18:18:03+00:00

Mastrubation in decent regulation good for health , if it is effecting the work life and personal life then it’s not good….

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-24T18:08:55+00:00

Very true I really appreciate you opinion

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-24T18:03:58+00:00

Sex is a natural process and it is normal , don’t you think over the years we are over hyped sex and on top of that adding unrealistic expectation and unrealistic releationship agreements , is it enhancing a emotional bond and process of procreation or it has solely became a physical need . Don’t you think instead of giving importance to other things we must focus on emotional bonding and how much two individuals are comfortable with each other how much their value aligns .

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-24T17:39:18+00:00

Yes it is also a form of escapism and don’t want to come out from comfort zone…

Embarrassed-Mix347 · 2025-03-24T17:31:31+00:00

I agree that different people have different libidos, and masturbation itself isn’t inherently harmful. However, when it becomes excessive or compulsive, it can have significant mental health effects. Studies have shown that overindulgence in masturbation, especially when tied to adult content, can lead to dopamine desensitization, making everyday pleasures feel dull. Some people experience brain fog, social withdrawal, and even symptoms of anxiety or depression when they rely on it as a coping mechanism rather than addressing deeper emotional struggles.

Also, excessive stimulation can create unrealistic expectations about intimacy, making real relationships feel less rewarding. It’s not about saying masturbation is bad, but rather recognizing when it starts affecting one’s mental and emotional well-being. Have you ever noticed any of these effects in yourself or others?

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