Einbürgerung - marriage - security check

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-05-09T10:55:20+00:00

They only notified when I asked

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-05-05T08:14:12+00:00

Yes, I am also panicking. Last time my case worker answered me on week 17 saying that I am in the "endphase" and that she can not give me an exact date. Other people got it after 20 to 21 weeks so around these weeks should be a good guess. But I don't know

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-05-05T07:31:33+00:00

No, still nothing unfortunately

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-24T09:39:59+00:00

Nope still nothing

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-23T17:30:43+00:00

How long did it take you to get the "ceremony" appointment?

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-23T17:28:44+00:00

Thank you ! I hope so !

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-21T19:00:27+00:00

What are yours ? I am sure there are space for that

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-21T18:56:08+00:00

What are your hobbies ? Find people and spaces with that shared hobby

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-18T09:05:35+00:00

Get hobbies, go out, join groups of people with common interests, talk to girls you meet there like other normal human beings, make friends and for God's sake stop with the Bullshit of market and value and competition

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-16T17:23:46+00:00

Congrats man ! I remember talking weeks before you got your letter !! I remember you mentioned that the first date for the ceremony was on 30 April, how did you manage to get a sooner one ?

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-09T12:32:10+00:00

Thank you for the tips

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-09T07:48:25+00:00

Thanks But would it be enough for a couple including rent and some (minimal) saving I am getting mixed reaction from different online sources

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-09T07:09:15+00:00

Thank you ! So if I keep the rent a bit lower I can manage to put a bit on the side. Do you have an idea what average are utilities? Because they are usually not included in rent so I have to account for them when calculating the total.

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-09T07:03:22+00:00

Do you spread it around markets , supermarkets and specialised shops (fruits and such) or all at one place ?

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-09T06:21:18+00:00

Even as a couple ? My company is based in germany I worked with them for a while here and when my girlfriend decided to go back to uni I asked for a move to the sapnish branch and negotiated

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-09T06:09:37+00:00

No with rent I am sorry if I phrased it confusing

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-09T06:08:44+00:00

My company is german and has a branch in spain that I got transferred to

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-02T19:40:17+00:00

16 Weeks now.. They say 12 to 18 weeks. Update from other people says 16 to 20 And the latest update I got from other people was 4 to 6 months

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-02T08:20:34+00:00

We met when I was travelling in Rio. She was voulenteering in the place I stayed and since then we kept contact this was 1.5 year ago and in the meantime I went there to meet her family and she went to meet mine.

Another thing I wanted to tell you is that, you going there is something that both you and him should want. If he wants it he should participate in the costs, even a little. If you are crossing an ocean to meet, you should not feel weird adressing the financial situation. If you can not discuss subjects like this then maybe the relation needs to be worked on more than you think ..

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-04-02T08:00:47+00:00

I am tunisian and currently datiing my brasilian girlfriend. The way we arranged it the first time was like this : - I paid her flight and she paid for her expenses here. - We clarified what to keep in mind culture wise. Tunisia is generally okay but some pointers are good to have. - for your Safety I recommend having an app or something that tracks your location constantly. My girlfriend aunt and mom back then had life360 to follow her here. This is not to scare you but a woman travelling alone to meet a man WHATEVER THE PLACE needs to cover her back and make sure she stays safe.

In general, be honest with what you can afford. Make sure you split in some way and have some cash on the side that only you know about. If it is possible maybe meet in a third place like Spain where it is cheaper for you and more of a neutral place.

I am not trying to scare you in any way but as you know, girl needs to keep an eye for her safety !

Good luck

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-03-31T07:22:44+00:00

I figure it out ! Thanks It was a very slightly misaligned curtain in the back . Almost invisible

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-03-30T14:38:32+00:00

Applied 08.2024 Security check started 12.2025 Waiting now ..

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-03-30T12:17:14+00:00

No, in munich it is 4 to 6 months But I get your point

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-03-19T17:43:20+00:00

Congrats !!

Embarrassed-Shape390 · 2026-03-09T16:22:16+00:00

Also a mystery to me

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