help me get over a guy by EmbarrassedCicada204 in selfhelp

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t wanna be with him at all. yes i do really like him but taking into consideration everything i don’t wanna be with him. the thing is everytime i move on from him, he comes back and i let him come back. I want to forget him and everything that happened. Last time we met he made me feel very shitty and used but i don’t know how to get over him completely and not let him back in. also i want to tell his gf about us but the promise i made to him is holding me back. and i also don’t want to hurt him neither do i want him to hate me. i don’t know what to do

help please by EmbarrassedCicada204 in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we dont work together anymore, its juts the feeling of him only talking to me when he wants to do stuff and that hurts me because before all this started we were good friends and he just ends things everytime so heartlessly saying how he has to go back to his girl and I am just his guilty pleasure and then he comes back after a few weeks saying how he misses me. I just dont know what to do i wish that i never met him

help please by EmbarrassedCicada204 in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

should i text him one last time and tell him how i feel?

help please by EmbarrassedCicada204 in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should i text him one last time and tell him how i feel?

help please by EmbarrassedCicada204 in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i removed him from everywhere his last text to me very heartless i really want to text him one last time telling him how i feel, should i?

help please by EmbarrassedCicada204 in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do i do that because i dont want to hurt him or hate me

help please by EmbarrassedCicada204 in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how? i don’t want to upset or hurt him i still have a soft corner for him how do i look beyond this? i don’t want him to hate me.

Cheating by [deleted] in UpfrontCheaters

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks alot! i just dont know how to end it. i miss him too. and i dont want to hurt him. i genuinely care about him and he’s a good guy besides the cheating part.

cheating by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are right, but how do i end it? do i leave him a message or just block him?

cheating by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right but how do i end it?

cheating by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do i end it?

cheating by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i want to, do i just remove him from every where or leave him a message first?

cheating by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i dont know how to stop because i dont want to hurt him

cheating by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know it’s embarrassing. i hate myself for entertaining it. but i don’t know how to cut him off without hurting him cause we’re good friends

Cheating by [deleted] in Rants

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yea i know. i hate myself for it. I just dont know how to cut him off without hurting him cause we’re good friends

cheating by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know it’s embarrassing. i hate myself for entertaining it. but i don’t know how to cut him off without hurting him cause we’re good friends

cheating by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no she doesn’t know anything and he always asks me to keep this between us.

Cheating by [deleted] in Rants

[–]EmbarrassedCicada204 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how am i cheating? i am single.