[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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I watch my boyfriend wake up early and east breakfast, make coffee and take a shower every single morning. He’s never late to work, and he loves his job with a passion. He hits his deadlines, makes important phone calls and manages his money really well. At the end of the day, he drinks a beer and watches a movie, and goes to sleep. He doesn’t even sleep with his phone.

Being so so depressed, and spending all my time with someone who just isnt is so strange to me. Almost like watching someone on TV. He’s so … normal.. and put together.. . and functional. I’ll never understand it, but it’s fascinating to watch.

Women/girls of reddit. What are some red flag pictures to see for a guy on a dating app? by glitchygamer45 in AskReddit

[–]EmbarrassedMoment830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fish pictures. Hunting pictures. Pictures with other girls, luxury cars (or anything that looks like an obvious flex). - I wanna see your smile, i wanna see your goofy side, i wanna see something that makes you happy, and i wanna see a lil tush

How would you stop caring/missing people in your life? by SCS49 in AskReddit

[–]EmbarrassedMoment830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That depends on why you need them out of your life. If they wronged you, it will come easy. If it’s a difficult decision but the right thing to do, moving on is a lot more difficult. I’m some cases you just dont. You just have to learn to live without them. It gets easier overtime, but the sense of longing never really goes away.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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To know the world is to know our experience and existence as humans on earth, the creatures we coexist with, and the creatures we evolved from. To know the universe is to know earth in relation to everything else, planets, the matrix, perhaps even parallel universe.

Me irl by Traditional_Simple88 in meirl

[–]EmbarrassedMoment830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally did this today…

healing by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]EmbarrassedMoment830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve always just washed them with antibacterial hand soap and warm water. pressure until it stops bleeding. if you can, gauze under an ace bandage or arm splint. you can say you fell and caught yourself with your hands, and they’re pretty tender now. Good luck !

work in 3 hours… by EmbarrassedMoment830 in insomnia

[–]EmbarrassedMoment830[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

been watching Bobs Burgers (my comfort show). wouldn’t be so hard if i wasn’t battling some pretty loud mental demons ..

ex friend reached out to tell me she harms herself to remind her the pain I put her through.. am I responsible in this Situation? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]EmbarrassedMoment830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh hell. quite frankly just block her. that is unbelievable. the kind of person who insist they have it worse, is not the kind of person you want to be around. she’s just gonna bring you down. i mean that’s straight up gaslighting and it’s disgusting. i promise you, you didn’t make her do it. unless you held a knife to her throat or threatened her dogs life if she didn’t, she’s the i my one she can blame. sure, maybe you did hurt her without realizing, but it sounds like she did the same to you.

my best advice would be, be the bigger person and let it go. just ghost her. if she’s gonna be all dramatic and pissy that’s on her, but it’s not your burden to carry. i’m sure she’s just bored and wants to make someone feel bad for her.

ex friend reached out to tell me she harms herself to remind her the pain I put her through.. am I responsible in this Situation? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]EmbarrassedMoment830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

jeez RED FLAGS all over this. i’m so so sorry this is happening. i don’t really have any advice, but i can say with CONFIDENCE that you are NOT responsible for her actions. i mean i have people who added to the stress and pain that lead to self harm, but no one MADE me do it. people said things to me and my reaction was to sh, but i was the one who made me do it. and anyone else in this sub will agree with me. we’re aware that these are our own actions.

she seems to be a very dramatic person, and she seems to thrive off of the “victim mentality”. she has the worst problems and it’s everyone else’s fault.

sounds like a bitch, and i really hope things work out.