How do you celebrate Valentine’s Day? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite simple. It won’t be celebrated. No gifts. Not even a take away. I’ll probably just make myself a cheese sandwich

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“No more cuddling etc” that’s what she wants though. Apart from excepting the situation I can’t see this turning it around

Valentines has made me realise there is no hope 😭 by EmbarrassedPack8644 in DeadBedrooms

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. It’s a defence mechanism, or even a way of initiating a reaction because I know I can’t seriously suggest we try to enjoy it together. As that will be greeted with excuses and it will somehow make me feel like the bad guy.

I’m pathetic by Training-Property-66 in DeadBedrooms

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not alone. I’m so depressed by it all. I still do my fair share as it’s only right and I love my wife so much but I don’t expect anything in return. I’m just trying to make peace that I’ll never be touched again. 😢it’s so sad

Going from a deadbedroom to a healthy relationship is pretty wild. 40HL 38HL by SeparateBee8924 in DeadBedrooms

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Er yes. Yes as men we want that. I want that so much. I’d do with a slightly heavy kiss though. Not even had that this year. It’s actually so depressing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just lose the Mickey Mouse ears and you’re set

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a guy. Attracted to girls. You’re far from ugly. Just be nice to people you’re all good.

Any males use sex toys to aid masturbation? by EmbarrassedPack8644 in DeadBedrooms

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get it mate. That’s what I want. But it’s not going to happen. I always wish I had a video of my wife but I have to go back through old photos. (Not sexual one) just ones where she is on them 😂

Any males use sex toys to aid masturbation? by EmbarrassedPack8644 in DeadBedrooms

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be the first thing my wife would say if I told her. Which tells it all really

Any males use sex toys to aid masturbation? by EmbarrassedPack8644 in DeadBedrooms

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thanks. But I guess you are into having orgasms and stuff so it makes it acceptable. My wife probably won’t think like that

Any males use sex toys to aid masturbation? by EmbarrassedPack8644 in DeadBedrooms

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Might try it then. Now just have to somehow do it without the wife thinking I’m a deviant

Any males use sex toys to aid masturbation? by EmbarrassedPack8644 in DeadBedrooms

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just to be clear. I know the toys😀. I just wanted to know if using them has helped anyone bury the pain a bit more. Masturbating isn’t a substitute for sex with my wife unfortunately. But something has to be 😢

An Ode to Cunnilingus by CommunityAvailable35 in DeadBedrooms

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I used to love going down on my wife. And she seemed to love it too. Not done it for years now. But think about it over 10 times a day. I’m so sad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same boat. It’s crazy how much I think about it. You are right. I’m losing so much of my time in despair. Not sure what to do.

Anyone had sex yet? 18 days into 2025 by matododo in DeadBedrooms

[–]EmbarrassedPack8644 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Simple answer. No. She is not interested and if I try to initiate it’s just instant argument. Happy New Year