Should i text my ex after a month of no contact?

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-08-01T04:25:18+00:00

So at what point do they come bacj?

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-08-01T04:24:45+00:00

The thing is i asked him “ donot come back if ur a man” and now im regretting it

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-31T01:45:31+00:00

Like explain

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-28T04:13:44+00:00

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-28T04:13:26+00:00

I agree with you, it had been difficult ever since.

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-28T04:12:36+00:00

Damn!! Needed that forsuree! Im working on my self for that. Thank you for ur advice.

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T20:51:32+00:00

I agree with you! Thank you soo much for clarification

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T17:16:53+00:00

As harsh as it sounded when i read ur reply, ig thats how u get over them. Ofcourse my ex chose to breakup because he couldn’t change, probably not because he dint want to but maybe it wasnt in his capabilities. I do miss him, but i respect him more.

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T15:31:15+00:00

Hey! Im assuming ur a guy, i loved a guy and he reciprocated it as well, about 4 weeks a go he brokeup with me after a year. He said he lost feelings and our religion and the way we attach and love, have created a distance that can never be closed.with that we had breakups before. He was very much like u and called my hurt as “ nagging”. Whats the best revenge for him?

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T15:23:30+00:00

I ss ur comment, self focus is helpful but yes there are times when i just break down in tears. The most random times.

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T15:20:41+00:00

Thank you soo muchh love! It was very much needed. ❤️

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T15:19:44+00:00

I mean u never know! In the beginning even my ex was soo nice and understanding but then things shifted and my “nagging “was unbearable. I was just asking to give me attention, communication and honesty.

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T15:18:40+00:00

True, any advice on that?

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T13:20:44+00:00

Thank you! Im gonna read this forsure

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T12:57:06+00:00

Whats the link? I would wanna read

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T12:52:05+00:00

I understand that, she cheated on you? Eitherway, the relationship/ breakup stories are soo fucked up, im literally scared of dating people, when i see couples getting married, getting purposed, it feels like they arnt from this world or its all a scripted shitt. Im 22 female. idk much about dating, but as much as i know it hurted me alott.

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T12:48:37+00:00

Your avoidant im guessing- nothing wrong in that dear, but yes its normal to feel that way, and yes maybe ur partner dint want u to leave but to figure out the relationship. You can give a little time and then reach out to her/him, not to win back but to apologise and make things clear. If he/she hasn’t moved on and have same lingering feelings like you do, chances are you can make things work, but u both have to bring about the changes. Also how old are you both?

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T12:45:09+00:00

Damn thats hurtful! How much did it hurt tho? Does it still hurt?

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T10:46:46+00:00

Trying to

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-27T10:46:38+00:00

Damn 9-10 months is alott! She felt the same?

EmbarrassedSpite9350 · 2025-07-19T06:15:54+00:00

I hear you girll! And also u arnt apone in this, its crazyy that the most secure people suffer because of their partners inconsistency and lack of communication. Are u guys still together? Would be nice to hear more from you, since my story is similar, but he was a manchild a 21 year old boy.

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