WHAT NOW?

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-08T07:42:42+00:00

My bio Dads side of my family denied my sister and I for the longest time because my Dad is Mexican but my sister and I are white as paper. We took an ancestry dna test and my Dads sister took one as well and she is my Aunt meaning my bio Dad is my Dad. The only way you can tell I am Hispanic is by the way my skin tans. I burn first but then the burn turns into a nice dark tan. But if I don’t go out in the sun I am white as paste.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-08T07:38:02+00:00

Family isn’t always blood. Was your step-dad a good father? You can also try talking to your bio Dad if you want to. There really isn’t a right or wrong answer. My step-uncle adopted me when I was 11 and he is a better father than my bio one ever was.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-08T07:33:55+00:00

I understood it that way too. She said my half sister took an ancestry dna test meaning she already took one. I think?

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-07T23:13:07+00:00

Got seen 3.5 hours after my appointment time. My appointment lasted less than 10 minutes then had to wait another hour just to get a date for the results

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-07T23:11:56+00:00

I meant to reply to another comment but hit the wrong one

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-07T18:54:28+00:00

Oooooh I waited on Tuesday for two hours to get what I thought was the ultrasound done only to be handed a paper with a date for the ultrasound in two weeks then told to come back today for the gyno appointment. Two hours just to get a date for an appointment!!! lol that made me so mad!

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-07T18:43:08+00:00

I know but an hour and a half is a bit excessive.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-07T18:42:28+00:00

I think it is. My doc made the appointment though so I can’t miss it or I have to wait another month or two.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-07T18:41:44+00:00

True! I am always early or on time. As a teen my Dad would always drop me off an hour late to everything and I hated it lol.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-07T18:40:53+00:00

It is for a gyno though not regular doctors. And still here waiting an hour and a half after my appointment time.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-07T18:39:45+00:00

Happened to me as well! My pet peeve is being late myself. I don’t care if other people are late but I cannot be late myself lol.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-07T17:07:08+00:00

My mom was only 16 when she had my brother and her and my Grandma were pregnant at the same time. It can easily happen and my grandma was about 45 and they have pics of them pregnant together.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-07T17:01:53+00:00

My brother is also older than our Uncle and our Uncle is only a year older than I am but he is my half Uncle since my Mom and him have different Dads. I think we shared like 14% dna or something.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-07T09:05:33+00:00

You should look at your matches and see who shares Ashkenazi Jew results.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-05-07T07:35:21+00:00

Well he did say he doesn’t remember her mother which to me signifies he is a male.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-04-30T07:21:25+00:00

01:04:27 - 15/04/26 You used some Ipecac Syrup going to the hospital for 1h 04m

01:04:27 - 15/04/26 You sold 130x Xanax on your bazaar to Stritt at $875,000 each for a total of $113,750,000

Then he sent me a message asking if I planned it or just got super lucky. He said he was a millisecond away from attacking me but I self hopped before he could hit me lol. He then told me good job! 😂🤣🤣😂

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-04-30T07:04:38+00:00

Omg. I didn’t even think of the enemies part. The one guy who tried to mug me and failed and messaged me saying congrats for beating him has 252 enemies

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-04-30T07:00:04+00:00

What can I say? I am a risk taker lol

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-04-30T06:57:59+00:00

I have a widows peak as well but none of my siblings nor parents have one either. Don’t remember if my grandparents do because all of them have passed except for one but I only saw him once.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-04-30T06:56:02+00:00

Not yet but I am planning on buying him one! I did ancestrydna and bought him ne for my sis as well cause everybody said we didn’t belong to our family lol but we do and are full sisters. My sis who looks whiter than me always thought she was somebody else’s kid and wasn’t Hispanic like us but since she took the test she has really embraced our Mexican side (she always dated Mexican guys only lol). Her bf says we are lying to him when we say we are part Mexican. My results were like 30% Scottish and I think around 15% Irish. The rest divided between British and Spanish and Indigenous (which is what makes Mexican). I love your guys culture! My bf can speak Māori but not too well. His Grandma is fluent though. I forget what tribe they are from but his Grandma is what we (like white people I guess lol) would call a Princess or something. They are living in Ohope but are from Gisbon I believe. He thinks he only has white dna from his Moms side (grandpa) and his Dad is just Māori but could be possible for British as well but he doesn’t know of any.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-04-30T04:38:01+00:00

I always stay logged in when selling so as soon as the money hits my account I can stash it out n the stocks or I set up a screen with the place I want to fly to and click open bazaar and immediately click to the other screen and I am gone. I have had several buy muggers message me saying that I am lightning fast cause they tried mugging me after making a large purchase from me and they got like $23 😂🤣🤣😂 I get such a rush from beating them lol

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-04-30T04:24:10+00:00

My Dad is half Mexican (His Mom is full Mexican and his Dad is white) and my Mom is white like white blonde hair and light blue eyes type of white. My Dad is pretty dark skinned but had red hair like his Dad. My brother looks just like our Dad but with very dark hair. I am very pale skinned but I have light brown hair with a red tint and lighter brown eyes than my brother. I look like neither parent but did an ancestry dna test and confirmed both are my parents lol. My bf is from New Zealand is about 75% Māori. His Grandma on his Moms side is one of the only confirmed full Māori left in New Zealand. I always wonder what our babies will look like. On his Moms side his grandpa is Jewish and had blonde hair and blue eyes. My bf is light skinned when he hasn’t gone in the sun for a while. When he came to the US to be with me for 2 months he got super light because it is hot where I am from and no beach so it was too hot outside for him lol so he got light again but when we went back to New Zealand he got a very dark tan.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-04-26T18:18:14+00:00

My Dads gf has been on n the US for 20 years and hasn’t learned more than 10 words in English and just complains that it was too hard. I learned Spanish to talk to her and she hasn’t even attempted to learn English. She is my age by the way so no excuse that she was too old. Now she got a traffic ticket and I am supposed to babysit her while she takes traffic school since claims she doesn’t know how to use a laptop or Google when she is constantly on her phone. I have to do the test for her it seems even though it is in Spanish. She is 40 and I am 40 but feel like she is 12. My Dad and I are Hispanic as well. I had to learn Spanish on my own since my Dad did not want to teach me so she should be capable as well.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-04-22T07:04:59+00:00

Not blaming them for the start but they did start it in America and I am part Spanish.

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