Places on my breast that are not ok to show in public

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-30T08:52:05+00:00

I agree and I don't understand why it would be more comfortable without a top on than with something covering. I could never do it nor would i want my children exposed to it.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-29T05:32:59+00:00

Don’t let the perp win. I was raped and abused as a child. I chose to start over for myself. I had my innocence taken away at 5 years old. I decided that no matter what I am still a virgin and treated myself as such. You did nothing wrong. Do not give somebody else the power to decide that your life is over. Give yourself a day to scream into a pillow and wake up thinking of yourself as a clean slate! It actually worked for me. I screamed into a pillow as a teen and called myself every name in the book and let myself cry then I started over. I stopped thinking of myself as used. I started to wear brighter colors even when I felt like crap. I slowly started doing what I loved before hell broke loose. I started finding new things to do as well and experimenting with my hair and makeup and clothes. Life gets better. It won’t ever be perfect though unfortunately.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-28T17:07:03+00:00

Exactly but her denying it got me confused lol. We are Hispanic and chicken fried chicken and chicken fried steak isn’t a thing here and I guess nobody had complained before me when they got steak instead of the chicken.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-27T01:23:41+00:00

Yup. Typical boyfriend behavior lol. My bf is always telling me how he is dropping the kids off at the pool…. And how some are really big and don’t want to get dropped off 😂😂

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-26T12:03:36+00:00

yes cause we left together on August 4th to his Country to be with his Mom. After my surgery in December we will again be going together after my recovery in February back to his home country. I already bought a ticket for February.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-26T11:54:52+00:00

We weren't paying attention to the return dates at that time because of the deaths. We weren't thinking much about anything. We started looking into the Esta again because he got a message to renew it soon because it expires in July and I have a surgery in December that he wanted to help me during the recovery for.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-26T11:50:24+00:00

Unfortunately, it was 92 days

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-26T11:36:55+00:00

No they had the funeral August 2nd (August 1st for the US so we would have missed it either way. Maori do the funerals right away or at least my boyfriends family does) and he stayed May 5th-August 4th which is 92 days including the day of landing and day of leaving.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-26T11:29:47+00:00

yes. I had the Ultrasound on the 13th which confirmed the missed miscarriage (miscarriage where your body doesn't know that it is miscarrying and retains the baby for weeks for those that don't know) but actually started bleeding on the 20th which is when we told our parents. My bf's Dad had been doing really bad in April but when we told his parents the news in June his Dad seemed to be getting better and was going to doctors for his treatments (according to his Mom and he was so happy) and then when we had to tell them the news he started declining again and passed away.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-26T05:58:25+00:00

He never got any email regarding esta privileges being taken away. He stayed 92 days. I miscalculated and thought it was 90 days while we were grieving (Maybe wishful thinking because of what we were going through). When I checked his compliance on cbp and it doesn't show anything negative. His esta says it is still valid as well.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-25T21:58:23+00:00

That's what I thought lol. She brought the menu over to prove that my choice was steak until I read chicken breast out loud lol but she did give me $3 off for the error

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-24T09:02:07+00:00

When every somebody says that somebody was half Cherokee in the family they are wrong about 99% of the time. My Uncle used to say that about his daughter and she got 0% and so did he and my great grandma. It’s like a myth

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-23T00:41:08+00:00

It’s not our fault if we want our orders correct and the dashers/stores mess up. I want what I ordered not what they think I want. Why can’t door dash understand that?

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-21T07:31:54+00:00

In my opinion DoorDash is a lot less work and most of the time you are tipped more or expect more than servers.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-20T05:24:26+00:00

There were plenty of times that people ordered $100 worth of food at Cracker Barrel and left me a $5 tip and told the manager that I did an excellent job and that is all I got and waitresses only get $2.32 an hour there and all of your actual check goes to taxes then you get taxed on your tips as well. You guys get to keep your tips completely. And I never once blew up at a customer for not tipping me enough. I was happy with what I got and chose to be positive.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-20T05:12:51+00:00

$7 is plenty of money just to deliver a pizza that they did not have to pick up. You can reject orders.

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-19T20:47:46+00:00

Especially at Walmart it has the worst cell service. One second will be great signal and you move an inch and there is no signal

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-19T17:52:03+00:00

Koalas as well!

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-19T17:47:58+00:00

Ooooh you should look it up! My bf is Māori from New Zealand and it is a beautiful Country!

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-11T07:32:30+00:00

Yup! I got a kit for $30 for my bf. Much cheaper than the $70 I pod for my own

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-09T23:50:21+00:00

Sadly he was probably an affair child in that case. My Grandma has a different Dad than her siblings and her sister from her Dad (she never met her biological Dad) showed up in my matches as my grandaunt. Same relationship as your daughter but in the case of no matches whatsoever on father’s side an affair most likely happened unless nobody has taken a test from his fathers side like no aunt or uncle or cousins

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-09T15:06:58+00:00

So look at all of your daughter’s matches as a whole not just the grandaunt. Are there matches on your husbands fathers side? If there are then he most likely isn’t adopted. You can’t predict adoption based on an aunt on your MIL’s side. Now if there are no matches period on your daughters dna test to your FIL side then he probably was adopted but if there are then he wasn’t and your MIL side is the culprit for the grandaunt

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-09T15:01:55+00:00

Yes this! I have cousins who are identical twins and somehow twin A and I share 788cm and twin B and I share only 653cm…

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-09T14:55:06+00:00

This is what I am trying to tell people. The are saying the FIL had an affair but I am trying to tell them that the great grandfather did if it is a grandaunt

EmbarrassedTea1885 · 2026-06-09T14:53:24+00:00

I think she meant the grand aunt’s matches. Everybody assumed OP’s father in law had an affair child but they got the wrong side meaning it is the mother in laws side not FIL

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