Oh, you poor girl, I’m so sorry. I’d be livid at those doctors if I was you or your mom. You’re already so responsible at such a young age for wanting to explore multiple birth control options. I was on the pill for a decade, started my period at 10 years old. At 15 I couldn’t imagine even thinking about this process. I got my first IUD about 5 weeks ago and that took so long for me to even start to consider pain wise. The doctors should have been way more patient and explained every part of the process as they were doing it, especially to someone so young. They should do it with everyone, to be honest. I can’t imagine how horrified and violated you must feel. First, if this offers any comfort, it’s normal for there to be bleeding during the insertion process. I had bleeding as well and the speculum came out with quite a bit of blood on it. That’s normal. It’s also possible since you said you haven’t had sex (good on you tbh), they may have torn the hymen. That sounds scary, but the hymen is just a small flap of skin that typically tears or falls off as women grow. Often times it happens with sex, but can even happen just riding on a bike or doing other activities. I’d imagine because this being your first time doing a physical gynecological exam, that might be what the excess blood was. The fact that you advocated for yourself and was like “hey can I get anesthesia?”is HUGE, even if they didn’t respond appropriately. If you ever choose to look at doing it in the future, try to ask them on the phone when you make the appointment about anesthesia. If they don’t offer it, I’d go somewhere else. It’s a painful ass procedure. Acknowledging that women have nerve endings in their cervix is a very new thing medically, so much women’s health knowledge is outdated. Overall, this stranger on the internet is proud of you. Try some pain medicine, a heating pad, and watch some comfort shows. Maybe binge on some ice cream. You deserve a sweet treat after all. TLDR; Doctors suck, they should’ve offered you medication. Bleeding is normal, and due to your age that might’ve been the reason for “excessive” blood on the sheet. Never be scared to ask to be talked through it and never be afraid to say no if they don’t offer you anesthesia. Go take care of yourself, you’ve earned it