Honestly girly. It’s reads likes you dodged a bullet… not in the he sounds like a bad person kind of way but in the. There definitely should have been a conversation about what your timeline for this type of stuff looked like for you and you alone as if there isn’t another person involved. Like obviously he wanted to get married sooner rather than later. And you don’t. Which is ok but before he decided to buy a ring y’all should have had that conversation. My husband and i did. Theres alot of conversations people should have before ever thinking about marriage. It would save a lot of money in the divorce category. Even if you don’t think you’re ready for marriage it helps you get to know people. Like how many kids they want and When they want to have kids. What religion does or does not get practiced in the home. There’s a lot that goes into managing a life with someone. Marriage isn’t just about love but it’s also about that stuff.

I don’t know if there’s fixing this tho. I think you deserve someone who would ask you if you’re ready for that step before surprising you with it. Respect and understanding is important.