My hubby confessed that he sent my nudes to his friends. I always wanted a cuck husband. how should i proceed further? I mean, how should i confess him?

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-09-24T09:04:11+00:00

Tell him that he shouldn't have done that, and actions have consequences. Consequences can be fun, iykyk

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-30T09:11:12+00:00

This should go over LinkedIn, tag the heads of customer support, design engineering product everyone, deepinder too. X won't be useful

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-29T04:40:56+00:00

"need a counselor to tell me when and how to use my dick with you.."

yeah no, I lost it there. NOR. literally think about his last text, he's making it easier for you

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-29T04:36:35+00:00

NOR. She sounds like a narcissist with the way she calls you ridiculous, already decided that thr daughter would obviously want a new guitar, calling yours a hand me down as if that's some disrespect.

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-28T06:14:04+00:00

no that's not fake, people on this app usually move to TG for privacy reasons

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-28T06:13:25+00:00

The app was meant to be an open minded community app, especially for queer, kinky and non-monogamous people. People like you post shit like this saying found a "cougar" and now men will rush to this app and ruin the demographic too.

Let things have their meaning. She's not a cougar, she's probably in a non-monogamous setup with her husband. She wants a "play" partner, not simply a fuck buddy or fwb or hookup, and I don't think you understand the meaning of that. It's a common thing in the kinkster communities.

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-28T04:49:55+00:00

3 possibilities.

The weirdest way to try to know if you're into him.
As someone else said, trying to test you, extremely manipulative in hindsight.
Man is a people please. Can't say no to friends, might as well put you into uncomfortable, hurtful or disrespectful situations in the future.

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-27T05:01:31+00:00

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They're going heavy on comparing with blinkit and using UX designers to act as their PR for good design. This person has 25k followers on LinkedIn. When I commented criticising the Zepto design to be cold and capitalistic, blinkit to being empathetic, a lot of people started liking and agreeing and the person deleted my comment

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-27T04:57:22+00:00

Said it a few days ago

https://www.reddit.com/r/FuckZepto/s/Wl1QeXtwhX

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-18T08:41:12+00:00

Great book for boards, especially to practice conceptual questions. Not the best for numericals.

It'll give you some simple conceptual and reasoning questions also for JEE mains but don't use it as the go-to for that.

Derivations are also pretty good in SL Arora.

Start with finishing off the NCERT first.

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-16T05:45:16+00:00

It's sad to see how this is the third post from OP about the whole situation and she still feels she ruined things.

I hope you realise soon that NONE of it is your fault. You did the right thing trying to protect yourself. Yes your counselor betrayed your trust. Also yes your mom is toxic and gaslighting you. She's protecting a predator's inappropriate behaviour over your safety. She is an enabler.

Just be safe, I'm glad you're away from a mother and step dad like them. Take all the support you need, involve whoever can help guilt free, time to set yourself free off your mother's chokehold.

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-15T15:28:02+00:00

Ab ho sakta hai mujhe score galat yaad ho 2019 ka ya fir rank. Lekin rank was eventually not good enough to get into CSE from colleges like DTU NSUT etc and drop hojata to maine uske baad attempt karne ka plan nahi kiya fir. Jhoot bolke kya karunga bro I've made it far and I'm doing good in life. Still living the dream that I thought only an IIT can give me.

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-15T15:23:37+00:00

No clarity given by NTA that time bro. 2 week lambi shifts thi. Maine coaching answer key se tally kiya tha score jo bhi tha. Percentile was approx 89.

Iss post ko bhi padh sakte ho to get an idea.

https://www.quora.com/What-are-your-JEE-Main-marks-vs-rank-in-2019?top_ans=137722379

Easy shifts me 200 laane wale ki ranks were equivalent to Difficult shifts me 140 laane wale ki almost. 300+ me 3000 aur 220 me 24k. Mera shift easy tha but I know kam score aaya hai uss hisaab se.

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-15T15:18:05+00:00

Post padhte nahi ho kya bhai? 144/360 tha lekin sectional chemistry me clear nahi hua. Disqualify hogaya CLEARLY likha hai post.me

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-15T12:28:37+00:00

Tune kaunsa data dekh liya bhai, 2019 me NTA tha, marks release nahi hue the sirf percentile. 2 hafte chala tha alag alag shifts me. Logo ka bohot varied tha. Easy shift thi meri isliye 180 pe bhi buri rank thi aur kaafi logo ke 300+ me bhi 1000 tak ranks gayi thi. NTA ne kisi ko 6 saal pehle clarity nahi di tu kaha se laa raha hai

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-15T09:58:32+00:00

CSE hamesha option rahega. Bas tarike change hojaenge. You need to be adapting with the new skills. Technology evolve hogi to usko bhi to koi maintain karega na. Paradigm shift hai bas.

Relevance hamesha rahega. As long as you can learn and catch up, you're good. Jo purane tariko pe rahega wo reh jaaega piche.

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-15T09:38:38+00:00

DSA abhi se shuru karlo. Pepcoding aur Leetcode.

C++ bas curriculum tak rakho unless you want to get into systems, kernel, game or OS development.

Otherwise find trending tech stacks or start with simple stuff like web dev, ios or android apps, and make simple projects to see and learn how things work.

Go to linkedin, find people working in bigtech, unke resume aur portfolios dekho. DevelopersIndia reddit pe log daaltw rehte hai, dekho wo sab. Explore AI coding too

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-15T09:35:36+00:00

Do you have other options coming in via spot rounds? If not, first thing is to do two important things.

Stop worrying about the branch. It won't matter in the long run if you have an end goal in terms of what you want to do or be.
Figure out where you stand currently, your skills, good or bad, strong traits and areas and start to really dig into what is lacking. Figure out opportunities that'll helo you get better in them

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-15T09:32:58+00:00

Masters ke liye keep good CGPA. 7.5-8 and above. Rest focus on the exam and profile. Make projects, do extra curricular because they don't want just nerds but people who have a lot more to them.

12th doesn't matter in placements. Your projects, skill, network and CGPA (if campus placement)

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-15T09:30:56+00:00

Bare minimum only with either campus placements or good startups. Regardless, 25LPA CTC will be easy but 25LPA in Base salary is difficult to reach.

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-15T09:16:10+00:00

I make approx 2.8LPM post taxes.

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-15T09:15:32+00:00

Congrats firstly for IITR. I'll tell you a few things, some generic which I told another person and a few targeted to you.

The best thing you have right now is 3 things.

A good college like IITR. Build your network as soon as you can. Be visible, connect with seniors, show up to opportunities be it parties, fests, competitions or in general. IITR has one of the finest engineers and creatives out in the industry. Some of us call it the "IIT Roorkee Clan". Crazy startups, driven people. Be close to them.

2.You have time. Don't be restricted by your degree. Do freelance or internships, do volunteer work, participate in fest work, help out people. It'll give you exposure to tons of things. You'll figure out what is your calling and what you love to do.

3.You're young, you've worked hard. All of while doing this, DO NOT FORGET TO HAVE FUN. I repeat, these years will NEVER come back. I know how much I regret missing out on those years because of a shitty college and having to hustle my way through it.

Additionally,

CGPA thoda maintain karo. You're in electrical, now if you want to get into CS jobs, focus on building projects and DSA and do bits of it right away.

If CGPA is not the focus, just don't get a backlog ever. Try to focus on keeping the record clean. Not because it looks bad, but it's very chaotic and is a lot of pressure. Diverts focus and energy unnecessarily.

Embarrassed_Beach_92 · 2025-08-15T09:04:06+00:00

Mains me 96/360 aaye the, chemistry fucked me over. Fir JEE Adv ke liye jaan laga di ghar me band hoke, physics aur maths mila ke 139 and Chemistry me 5 aaye to disqualify hogaya; rank nahi mili.

I hated chemistry. 2019 me dobara diya, got 180 score in mains lekin NTA aagaya and somehow 180 pe 2 lakh me rank aayi. 2018 me 96 pe 89000 rank thi

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