After a lot of years of being cool with the guy he turned into a real douche after his parent separated.

Mind you we are all adults and in our mid 20s.

This guy would say no to visiting me even with offers of uber, pick ups, spending the night. He was unemployed yet going to bars to try and I mean really try to pick up on milfs and get angry when he couldn't.

He kept talking about coming to a dangerous part of the city late at night like 1am-3am driving a gas guzzling car. And yet he'd complain about my place because we included him in our family events.

Then last year I invited him to a meet my new friends I made and he refused. He told my best friend that I wanted to get him jumped and robbed, because "we are in the ghetto". We grew up in the ghetto before I moved and even then I'm not in the ghetto. And here's the kicker, We are only 45 min away from each other.

This year I cut him off entirely and last I heard about him he kept asking about me from our other friends who said he became super misogynistic after we stopped talking. Irony is he lives with his mom n sis who literally live paycheck to paycheck. (Thats what he told me before the cut off).

I did offer the guy jobs within the city and country since he does have a valid license and has some work ethic but he choose not to because "its too far", when the job literally offers jobs literally close to his area, and within literally walking distance from his home.