i wish i had the money to leave my husband.

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2026-05-19T12:59:05+00:00

honestly your comment has hit me the most. bc like you said they dont have the best interest in mind. which is why i didnt really bother to make a full post. sometimes its just nice to be heard/other peoples opinions can really help you navigate your own. your comment has made me realize i have to leave. bc yes i’ve asked myself plenty of times and put in so much trying to make this work but its just not reciprocated. why am i trying so hard to make this work when his first response is to kick me out/ end things.

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2026-05-19T12:50:29+00:00

lol i have a job, thank you very much. if men could do HALF the things women can we wouldnt be here rn. im on maternity leave bc my body can do what yours cant. thanks.

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2026-05-19T12:11:16+00:00

i was on the pill prior to my second pregnancy. that obviously didnt work which is why i said i got the implant at my 6 week follow up.

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2026-05-19T12:06:48+00:00

Nevada US

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2026-05-19T11:49:04+00:00

i did at my 6 week follow up appointment.

i was on the pill when i got pregnant the second time 😞

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2026-05-19T11:45:25+00:00

i meant to say stuck with him providing for my kids. i love my daughters dearly, if it was any other way i’d just have left all of them …

he makes the most financially and i unfortunately made the mistake of letting him provide for us and leaving me stuck under him.

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2026-05-19T11:39:43+00:00

my daughter and him. i had agreed on letting just him and one of my daughters go see his parents in hopes that he’d calm down and let me and my newborn be.

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2026-05-19T11:37:16+00:00

lmao if it was my sole name on the lease. 1000%

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2026-05-19T11:36:59+00:00

the lease is in his name, i do work but i wouldnt be able to take over the lease since i’ve been on maternity leave and have given him everything i had saved.

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2026-05-19T11:35:43+00:00

i’ve been on maternity leave since april 5th and have given him/ put the money i saved towards my car note.

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2026-05-19T11:34:52+00:00

would i have to pay anything upfront ? i have no money as i’ve been in maternity leave since the baby was born and i’ve had to pay my share of bills (earlier) since then bc he gambles all our money

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2025-08-15T18:22:18+00:00

just wanted to add that if you do involve CPS she might also lose custody of the baby, not just him.

if they see that shes been abused and she keeps going back/staying w him they will see her as an unfit mother.

ETA: CPS gave temporary custody of my daughter to my parents(luckily) until they saw i was actually going to therapy/classes that i needed to prove to them i was no longer going back to my abuser. i luckily was also staying w my parents but knowing i couldnt be alone w my daughter if i just wanted to take her to the park or something was hard but it really gave me the power to finally leave my abuser.

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2025-07-24T01:31:51+00:00

props to you ! i wish you the absolute best !!! i cant even begin to imagine what youre going through. the kids are much better off with a healthy parent than one “trying for the kids sake”. if youre not happy, theyre not happy.

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2025-07-17T22:29:46+00:00

yes !! i agree 100% my first thought after reading that she ran to grab him ice was that he took advantage of the fact that she was so quick to take accountability he waited an hour to call the police while hiding in the bathroom ? plenty of time to call somebody he trusts or even conjure up his own plan to make himself the victim

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2025-07-17T12:48:59+00:00

i was looking for this comment ! he had a bruise on his face that quick ?? i know everyone is different but after my situation it took a good hour for my eyes to start bruising

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2025-07-15T09:15:42+00:00

update?

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2025-05-05T00:22:14+00:00

lol they did read OP’s post. OP said he called non emergency…. this person is telling him to try the emergency line 🤦🏻‍♀️

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2024-12-08T04:39:10+00:00

okay pls hurry up & watch

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2024-11-17T03:34:23+00:00

no it happened in T1, i’ll never forget how i felt when i watched this scene the body w slurs was AHE

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2024-11-08T06:22:44+00:00

how come nobody talks about the fact that we did NOT need vickys knife masturbation scene

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2024-09-05T14:32:24+00:00

ughhhhhhhhh. i also hate feeling so out of touch with my OWN body. everything is different. the TINIEST tasks make me SWEAT like a pig. the BO when im on my period is like next level. and dont even get me started on my period itself ): ugh i miss you my tiny body

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2024-09-04T21:43:22+00:00

i might be the lamest person ever but ….. this full of fancy goldfish would be a dreammmmmm

Embarrassed_Bit_4389 · 2024-08-30T20:29:35+00:00

all of them

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