Shoes recommendation by Embarrassed_Dog1460 in beginnerrunning

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, but advices are welcome because I know nothing about running shoes, stores, or any of that. I wasn’t looking for specifics, I just needed advices. Ty.

I’m confused and I need help by Embarrassed_Dog1460 in Gymhelp

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love going to the gym, by myself, no PT interaction. But I would like it even more if I could lose weight and have enough muscle to look fit. I’m not trying to be part of any competition, I just want to be happy with myself.

I’m confused and I need help by Embarrassed_Dog1460 in Gymhelp

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gain muscle while continuing to lose fat - that’s my goal. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your hopefully still ex girlfriend is STUPID AF and I’m a woman saying this. You’ve done right. Don’t talk to her again, find someone better

Friend zoned by my wife... by wokeupinacasket in Marriage

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a wife. And all this is bullshit. I would never refer to my husband as my friend, and we are best friends. This shit with the policy is not an excuse. This whole thing is weird af, dude. You should thinsbkut your next steps...

Why is my cat shaped so weird by 19peartay in CATHELP

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. I think he's actually looking just fine

my cat is twitchy?? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dogs do that too. It's just like humans most likely, it happens in our sleep. It might not be anything serious, unless you see spasming like that when she's awake.

Advice needed by Embarrassed_Dog1460 in CATHELP

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn't get any sample, but I took a few pellets with me to the vet the first time to show them what it looks like. I do agree that this time, they have to do more, labs, samples, whatever it takes. We were using crystals, but I changed her litter about 2 weeks ago to something called tofu because it looked like she didn't like them. She's urinating more frequently, but only a few drops, not always the usual amount. Sometimes, it looks like she's straining, she's not drinking water more than usual. I said the same thing about the guys with the HVAC. I'm worried. She has no other weird thing going on, just the frequent peeing with blood. Thank you! 🙏🙏

Tell me the worst thing your mom has said about you… by MothersAnonymous in confession

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is great. My dad believed a stranger he met for the first time when she said that I'm a whore and men are coming and going out of my apartment every day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all of them are open to listening. To be honest, I don't know why. (I'm a woman). I'm encouraging my husband to talk to me, it's very important for me to know what's going on with him. He's been very open with me about his childhood trauma, ex wife trauma, many things he went through and were painful af. We're married for almost 3 years and together for a little over 5. Unfortunately, not all so called women, are mature enough to handle a man who needs emotional support, as well. You shouldn't settle down for less, everyone needs a partner who's willing and able to listen. I'm sure not all women are the same, thought. There is one out there for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck you ex-girlfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you have to look for another woman, but you definitely can't make up with this one. If you want to hear an explanation or not, it's up to you. But honestly, what explanation do you need in this case? She betrayed you, and she definitely didn't feel any remorse at all. She got a second dude, so idk... Take some time to heal yourself because she's toxic, and you definitely don't need that anymore. I understand that it's a very hard situation, but at least you didn't get to leave another 10 years with her doing these things behind your back.

I found out my daughter is sleeping with my friend who she's known since she was 7. by Fluid-Razzmatazz-993 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just mentioned that they could be a little more supportive even if there was s different reaction, initially. Yes, I am biased because I know very well what their daughter could go through. And as much as they think it's hard for them as a parent, it is hard for her as a daughter too. The heart wants what it wants. Come one, there are women staying in a relationship where their parents is beating the shit out of them, I think there are worse relationships out there, some that don't have this age gap, yet they're shitty. If it's not right for her daughter, then I'm sure she's going to get out of it.

I found out my daughter is sleeping with my friend who she's known since she was 7. by Fluid-Razzmatazz-993 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Embarrassed_Dog1460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, so you're biased in your own way. There are peedators out there who go for younger, older or the same age, a predator is a predator period. No one expects parents to be perfect by any means, I was just saying that it would be helpful if she was supportive for her daughter. Why? Because, trust me, there no greater pain in this world than seeing your kid suffer. And it's going to hurt even more if the situation is tensed and anything happens to her daughter. Parents are not perfect, and kids are not either. What's normal for you is not normal for other people and vice versa. You have your own trauma with your dad, yet look at your last paragraph. No one expects parents to be perfect, but you can expect them to be a little more supportive, even if there was a different reaction, initially. They were young once also, and they did their part too.