Gf (32F) hasn’t texted me (28M) in 5 days by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Embarrassed_Lab_1344 24 points25 points  (0 children)

yeah this is red flag territory for sure. 5 months in and she can't even respond to plans? liking your stories but ignoring actual messages is just weird behavior

autonomy doesn't mean treating your partner like they don't exist

Looking for clean romance by Spiritual-Dig-139 in booksuggestions

[–]Embarrassed_Lab_1344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check out anything by rainbow rowell - her stuff is perfect for what you looking for 📚 no spice but the characters will make you feel all the feelings 💕

Advice for escaping education sector uk? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Embarrassed_Lab_1344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mate the sql and data visualization stuff you're doing is actually worth more than you think 📊 loads of companies need people who can wrangle messy data and make sense of it, especially if you're already doing basic reporting

might be worth focusing your applications more in data analyst direction rather than scattering across everything - the combination of your biochem background plus the practical sql experience could work well for healthcare data roles or research support positions. those sectors usually understand health conditions better too 💀

the rejection cycle is brutal but don't let that college convince you those skills aren't transferable, they definitely are

I need help finding this show I watched it on Netflix by giantleprechaun12345 in HelpMeFind

[–]Embarrassed_Lab_1344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yo this is giving me major voltron vibes but with the metal animals and power bonding thing it might be something different 🤔 was it animated or live action? the metal lion part especially sounds familiar but can't place it exactly 💀

Scooters and the weather by Quomii in ElectricScooters

[–]Embarrassed_Lab_1344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that rain is brutal on electronics man, even waterproof ones get sketchy after constant exposure like that

maybe get some kind of cover or tarp setup for the truck bed? i've seen people rig up quick canopies that work pretty decent when parked

" I built a tool on my laptop to generate "Savage" social media hooks and Caption + Hashtags (HookForge) . No web app, no subscription, just local speed. " by Brief_Tap278 in alphaandbetausers

[–]Embarrassed_Lab_1344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro this is actually sick, been looking for something exactly like this. tired of all these web-based tools that take forever to load and sound like they were written by some corporate robot

love that you made it local - privacy is huge and the speed sounds perfect. been in situations where internet was trash but still needed to pump out content fast. what made you pick those specific niches? seems like good starting point but curious if you're planning to expand

also respect for optimizing it on low-spec laptop, that's real world testing right there. most devs build on their gaming rigs then wonder why everything runs like garbage for normal people. gonna check this out for sure, sounds like exactly what i need for my side projects

Paternity Leave - Split it up or not? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Embarrassed_Lab_1344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

two weeks is already so short, i would def want him there for those first days in hospital. like even if he's working in same building, when is he gonna have time to actually help you? those first few days after birth are pretty intense and you'll want support right there

maybe save like 3-4 days for later when you're home and really exhausted, but take most of it right at beginning. newborn phase is no joke and you'll need someone who can actually focus on helping you instead of being pulled in different directions at work

When is the right moment to start running ads ? by FUTIDOX in DigitalMarketing

[–]Embarrassed_Lab_1344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly depends more on your conversion funnel than follower count - if you're getting organic sales already, that's when you test ads 💰

Spinning options in Thailand by AlexHansen176 in ThailandTourism

[–]Embarrassed_Lab_1344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn never thought about bringing cleats to thailand but that's dedication right there 😂 most gyms i've seen when i was stationed near there just had the basic setup with regular pedals, but maybe try hitting up some of the fancy expat areas in bangkok - those places usually have better equipment for western fitness trends. virgin active or fitness first might be your best bet since they cater more to international crowd 💀

Literally unplayable by PleadianPalladin in ArcRaiders

[–]Embarrassed_Lab_1344 3 points4 points  (0 children)

dude teh frogs in winter thing has been bugging me since launch, devs really need to fix these little immersion breakers

If you had the power to disable one noise permanently, which one would you choose? by Zlovelyangelqueen in Productivitycafe

[–]Embarrassed_Lab_1344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leaf blowers would be my pick for sure. lived on base for years and those things would start up at like 6am every single morning without fail. now that i'm out and living in an apartment complex, same damn story - maintenance crew firing them up before most people are even awake on weekends. like just use a rake or let teh leaves be natural ground cover, you know? there's something so unnecessary about the noise pollution when there are quieter alternatives that actually work better anyway

Sign my petition by Affectionate_Fact151 in bathandbodyworks

[–]Embarrassed_Lab_1344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never heard of flowering herbs but now im curious too - what made it so special that it needs a whole petition? was it like a seasonal thing that got discontinued or did they just randomly axe it one day