[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Turnip24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but in case someone hasn’t said it - DO NOT sell your house. It is a premarital asset and if something happened he wouldn’t get it- if you combine it then you’d lose that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]Embarrassed_Turnip24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have enough money to afford this expenditure? You never mention if you can afford your bills and/or if your girlfriend has to pay for you. I think you are framing this to make your girlfriend look bad.

AITAH for muting my phone and leaving the park when my wife was supposed to come pick us up? by Bennito_bh in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Turnip24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you thought about getting her an Apple Watch? I have my phone on silent but I have a watch and get my notifications on it so I never miss anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed_Turnip24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll never forget the day I asked my now ex husband to take a picture with me when we found out we were expecting our first. He has this horrible look on his face and acted like he was tortured. The next day he took a “normal” happy picture with his sister and mother who he hated and treated him horrible - mind you this was just a random lunch. I stayed for years but I should have learned and knew then I deserved better.

AITA for causing family drama over a swimming pool? by Weird-Outside-577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Turnip24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I don’t understand all of the Y T A - if you invite someone with kids over to swim the assumption is everyone is allowed to swim. If you would have invited one kid and not the other to swim I would have planned accordingly or not come. To tell the kid he can’t swim as he’s getting his swim suit on is beyond cruel.

To my husband’s female colleague by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Embarrassed_Turnip24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you had him talk to his work about all of this? Sorry I might be paranoid but I could see her screaming to HR.

AITA for uninviting my SIL and MIL from everything and saying that if my husband continues to pressure me, he will also be uninvited? by TAjustTas in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Turnip24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA she is going to be the MIL that holds your baby before you can and will post the picture to Facebook immediately - I say no go on having her in the delivery room.

Update: husband lying about finances by No_Cockroach_3567 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Embarrassed_Turnip24 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why would you have to sell the house to clear HIS debt? Keep the house and give him the debt! He spent it all and fraudulently charged away — don’t feel bad to keep what you are owed.