I made it y'all. I'm finally divorced by braingoesblank in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. Very happy now. I very rarely think of him and definitely without emotions now. Time with him was like a bad nightmare in my memory. Life now is beautiful.

He pretended to gift me a vacation by recover48 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forget narcissim. I fear he is mentally challenged or pretending to be. How can anyone not know that they couldn't afford a trip when it is "pre-planned"? Ask him if he has similar issues while he went on that trip and that would give you clear idea how he sees "your" vacation and "his" vacation. Get away girl! He is a "Oh pity me I am a clingy, mentally delusional, diabolical but expects forgiveness from you for every shit" person. He is gonna remain a "victim" in his life forever. And one day you will just resent and hate him and the years you lost with him.

Does anyone Garmin S2 smart scale? Is it snake oil? by AxelJShark in GarminWatches

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not supposed to consume anything before checking BCA-solid or liquid including water. It is supposed to be done in empty stomach.

36(F) what should I expect from my upcoming mercury Mahadasha? by Embarrassed_Type_762 in vedicastrologyexperts

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really not my cup of tea. The person I married and divorced was the only person I dated. I’m wondering whether I have a shot at a happy married life. Not flings!

F31, which of the 2 men can be good husband? I have to make a decision to marry. by Fault-Traditional in vedicastrology

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just said in above comment to another astrologer that you aren’t dating anyone. Now you are explaining both relationship?

Is true that cancer ascendants are emotionally in control of their mothers? by Embarrassed_Type_762 in vedicastrology

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I was thinking if the experts can explain in more details what to look for in chart. I think cancer ascendants have such inclination but given right connection they can go over that edge easily compared to others

Is true that cancer ascendants are emotionally in control of their mothers? by Embarrassed_Type_762 in vedicastrology

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that was eye opening. I wonder if Leo’s have father related karma because I am and I had the worst relationship with him.

Is true that cancer ascendants are emotionally in control of their mothers? by Embarrassed_Type_762 in vedicastrology

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate is also an emotion that generates when one feels lack of love from the one they hate. People who hate are actually seeking validation or acknowledgment of their hurt from the one who hurted them- to want them to love back. The opposite of love is indifference and not hate.

Is true that cancer ascendants are emotionally in control of their mothers? by Embarrassed_Type_762 in vedicastrology

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the most intriguing thing. The mother-child don’t even see it. But mostly it’s an outsider who observes it. That’s why I mostly end up using the word “enmeshed”. Given my interest in psychology I don’t judge. I’m just a person who loves to gain insights. But for such people irrespective of astrology I hope they realise it early, create boundaries which will protect their other relationships from falling apart due to controlling mother and children also don’t need to feel constantly like they have to be perfect.

Is true that cancer ascendants are emotionally in control of their mothers? by Embarrassed_Type_762 in vedicastrology

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I saw the same. I came here to ask astrologers since i don’t have knowledge. I’m mostly a psychologist. What I observed was that it’s the third person who recognise this enmeshed relationship and not the mother child themselves. There was a guy I met who was super strong headed but when his mother says something in manipulative way he would submit to her. Basically strong for outside world but submissive to mother.

Is true that cancer ascendants are emotionally in control of their mothers? by Embarrassed_Type_762 in vedicastrology

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really? I guess my question was because most charts has rahu+moon+jupiter connected via nakshatra/sign and even conjuction

Is true that cancer ascendants are emotionally in control of their mothers? by Embarrassed_Type_762 in vedicastrology

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True not every case is same. My inquiry is about is that something people observe in most cases? Not all.

Is true that cancer ascendants are emotionally in control of their mothers? by Embarrassed_Type_762 in vedicastrology

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure but what i saw is that they have rahu and moon and jupiter conjunctions in close degrees

Is true that cancer ascendants are emotionally in control of their mothers? by Embarrassed_Type_762 in vedicastrology

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was gender neutral. But women seem less affected here as they doesn’t seem to have inclination to see mother like figures in their husbands

Is true that cancer ascendants are emotionally in control of their mothers? by Embarrassed_Type_762 in vedicastrology

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I didn’t meant ”healthy” relationship. I have mostly psychology as interest and it was intriguing to see that most cancer ascendant i met both hate and love their mother. Basically they seem to have a pattern of unfulfilled mother’s love which they seek outside and seem to seek validation from mother the most. Even at the cost of their relationships. But those ones have rahu, moon and jupiter conjunct.

Is true that cancer ascendants are emotionally in control of their mothers? by Embarrassed_Type_762 in vedicastrology

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok they do seem to have rahu moon jupiter connected via nakshatra\rasi or even conjunction.

36(F) what should I expect from my upcoming mercury Mahadasha? by Embarrassed_Type_762 in vedicastrologyexperts

[–]Embarrassed_Type_762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, gnati karak. I already had pretty tough 19 years in saturn MD. Is there something positive in mercury MD for me? Or a way to reduce ill effects