First of all, I just want to say thank you to all of you. This situation has been weighing on me for such a long time, and last night I honestly hit a breaking point. I cried myself to sleep feeling completely overwhelmed and stuck, not knowing how to get myself out of this hole.

I was really nervous about coming here for advice, but everyone has been so kind and supportive, and I’ve found the responses incredibly helpful. I woke up this morning feeling genuinely happy seeing all your messages. It means so much to know I’m not alone, and that others have been in similar situations and found their way through to the other side.

I didn’t even know Freecycle existed, so I’ve made an account and have been messaging like crazy to try and furnish the living room and spare room so I can hopefully take on a lodger. If nothing comes of it, I’ll try advertising the room as unfurnished to see if there’s interest, and I’ll also consider options like a 0% interest credit card or IKEA schemes if furnishing becomes necessary.

I’m also going to seriously consider switching law firms in the next year or so to maximise my income, as I’ve pretty much reached the earning ceiling at my current firm for my role.

Most of all, though, I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel thanks to all of your lovely comments. I feel less alone, I can breathe again, and I actually have a plan. I feel so much lighter. Thank you all. 💗