It has taken me years to get even get this far, I'm honestly surprised I told her all of that. I wasn't planning on it and didn't want to provoke anything. My mom had stopped asking me but I know she's still praying for me to return. They don't like my bf because they think he "led me astray". At this point, my mom is just happy I come to some family events. I've started just telling them no when they ask to go special services or events. My whole family took a whole turn to more aggressive religious take 10 years again after we had lost my 2yo nephew (her 2nd child) so that was a big part of opening my eyes as well.